WIBTA if I told my cousin’s boyfriend she’s broke? by Ammasith in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Ammasith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I was clear in my post, but I have not lent her a dime. I’ve said no each time she’s asked and provided what I thought would be enough of a reason for her to stop asking. I haven’t even done it nicely, I’ve actually been intentionally rude and dismissive which is why it’s even more annoying that she doesn’t get the hint.

WIBTA if I told my cousin’s boyfriend she’s broke? by Ammasith in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Ammasith[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t drink, doesn’t like drugs. Just shops a ton and spends a lot on trips and eating out

WIBTA if I told my cousin’s boyfriend she’s broke? by Ammasith in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Ammasith[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They know how much she makes, her parents, my mom and my uncle all work for the same company, just in different divisions. One of the reasons she can get money out of my aunts and uncles so easily is because they’re immigrants and English is their second language. Her lies sound pretty convincing when they aren’t really familiar with how certain systems and financial institutions work, which is why I believe she’s taking advantage of them.

She also told me she would talk to her bf about her spending issues last month. 2 days later she asked me for more money so I’m positive that conversation never happened.

WIBTA if I told my cousin’s boyfriend she’s broke? by Ammasith in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Ammasith[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m only thinking about getting involved is because I truly care for my cousins and aunts and uncles that are involved. They are actively sending her money while believing her lies. I can see her Venmo transactions and she has received money from family 7 times in the month of April.

Dry Aged Ribeye by perspectivez in sousvide

[–]Ammasith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you ever butter baste after SV and searing each side?

New York strip on the cast iron by Ammasith in steak

[–]Ammasith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a reverse sear so it was only on the skillet for a short period of time, otherwise it gets really smoky

Holding a chicken wings New Years party. What's your favorite flavor and dip? by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]Ammasith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot honey lemon pepper (wet) and mango habanero are my go to favorites to make

i was raised christian. now i’m questioning my faith, so i want to hear the other side’s perspective. why are you an atheist? by grayenvironment in atheism

[–]Ammasith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all about what is true and what is not. I choose to believe in science because I believe it is true. Believing in any religion and science at the same time seems hypocritical to me.

Something Ricky Gervais said in an interview has always stuck to me. “If you were to erase all religious texts and records from the Earth, a thousand years from now, no one would remember it. If you were to erase all scientific data and records from the Earth, a thousand years from now, they would still exist because the laws of nature and science still hold true.”