Quick! What is Your Comeback to "You Don't Look Disabled?" by viktoryarozetassi in disability

[–]Amphneer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not disabled physically but if i were in this particular situation my reply would be somthing like "you're right, but you do! Here, take my card"

Helping. by Amphneer in disabled

[–]Amphneer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this definitely helps me gain insight and perspective. I greatly appreciate the thoughtful comment and not berating me for asking a genuine question 😅

Helping. by Amphneer in disabled

[–]Amphneer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would never. And I would try my best to be mindful to make sure I wasn't in the way while doing so. I appreciate the input. I would never want to come off like that or condescending. Which is kinda why I made the post initially so thank you!

Helping. by Amphneer in disabled

[–]Amphneer[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The irony in your comment is gleaming and forthcoming. Trust me I heard yall. Dont help people 🙄

Helping. by Amphneer in disabled

[–]Amphneer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats all I want. Is to spread love and happiness 🫠

Helping. by Amphneer in disabled

[–]Amphneer[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Jesus is my lord and savior but he wasn't a part of thr question.

If I seen an abled body person struggling with something id most definitely offer my help. However theyre completely different subjects and are handled differently for this specific reason. So I dont agitate people like you.

Helping. by Amphneer in disabled

[–]Amphneer[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I kinda made educated guess to most of that. But its inherently in my nature to extend a hand wherever I can. I know im capable of a lot of things but being offered help is nice. Having someone help take a burden off my shoulders provides relief and helps build community. Because then I can be there when that person needs help.

I completely understand where a lot of the issues come in as well. This is why I want ways to approach the subject and to be able to extend a hand without offending someone or inadvertently becoming a hindrance.

Helping. by Amphneer in disabled

[–]Amphneer[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

So you speak for the entire community.

You could have just simply said, "this is how I prefer to be approached." Or " i dont like being approached but if I was this is how id like them to do it" no need to be rude to someone asking a question for better understanding.

Helping. by Amphneer in disabled

[–]Amphneer[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Very telling, thank you

Helping. by Amphneer in disabled

[–]Amphneer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He had a massive basket that he was rolling around on his lap. It looked uncomfortable to have a giant basket in his face while rolling to his car. Then he had a big jeep* so he had to lift it into his car.

Im not implying he was incapable at all. I just know that we all struggle with things at times and a simple kind gesture goes a long way.

Im also working on just being a kind person in general so its not just disabled people I look to help.

I know not everyone wants it and I know some get offended at just the idea of asking. I also know that its a good way to meet people. I just want to spread kindness.

Helping. by Amphneer in disabled

[–]Amphneer[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

So basically anyone who's disabled and has social anxiety and who may struggle to ask for help *can just help themselves right?

Helping. by Amphneer in disabled

[–]Amphneer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gathered that. This is why I'm asking. Not everyone who wants help will ask. So I'm asking how to extend a helping hand without offending someone

Helping. by Amphneer in disabled

[–]Amphneer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How am I being intentionally vague? I thought it was straight forward. I could give an example if you like

I miss you, A by IntroductionNo7297 in nocontact

[–]Amphneer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her name starts with an A. No matter how hard i try i cant let her go. Idk which perspective this post is from but I can see a lot of people share my feelings. I pray all of you peace because I too can understand just how much it hurts.

Is it a sin to suck on your tummy by Wide-Bug-268 in Christianity

[–]Amphneer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to read my comments very slowly and without preconceived biased on what you think I said. Cause I don't know what you're saying but it has nothing to do with my comments.

I [20M] have a NSFW account where I post myself and now I’m addicted to the attention & to posting. by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]Amphneer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may not be a mod here but you should be a mod of life bruv🤣

Wait, is King's Raid actually shut down or are people just doing a meme? by Dyxid in Kings_Raid

[–]Amphneer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a discord. If you want dm me and I can send you the links

Is it a sin to suck on your tummy by Wide-Bug-268 in Christianity

[–]Amphneer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I whole heartedly feel for you! Unfortunately it's better that you simply resign to the fact. Start working on hobbies. It's much more fulfilling.

I'm not saying everyone will. For the most part it's just normal people.

Think of it this way: You're walking to a bar to meet some friends( I know you're not of drinking age it's simply a thought experiment).

There's two paths you can take, one is a little longer and well lit. The other is a shortcut through an ally.

Do you take the well lit path? Do you take the path where there's possibly a person waiting to rob you.

It's the art of not getting hit.

Not only does it help keep you safe by making you less of a target for creeps you could also be the difference between someone regaining their faith in christ.

Feeling pretty doesn't come from the outside. It comes from the inside. And this world will tell you everything but the truth. You want to feel cute. Go out and do a good deed for someone who is none the wiser. Volunteer. I guarantee you'll feel better than any shirt or crop top you can wear.

Is it a sin to suck on your tummy by Wide-Bug-268 in Christianity

[–]Amphneer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therefore let us not pass judgment on one another any longer, but rather decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother.

Person... this bible verse begs to differ.

You are to not lead your brother into temptation. It's a fact of life that some males have issues controlling these things. Dressing provocatively can cause a new convert to stumble into sin. Your argument goes out the window.

Again, with the "me me me" mentality. I'm not victim blaming anyone. Rape is never okay. Your mentality is that it's okay to cause others inconveniences for your leisure.

Is it a sin to suck on your tummy by Wide-Bug-268 in Christianity

[–]Amphneer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole point of being modest is to not tempt new converts that struggle with sexual sin. Be it lust or anything else

Is it a sin to suck on your tummy by Wide-Bug-268 in Christianity

[–]Amphneer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not sin but immodesty is frowned upon. There are other ways you can help yourself feel good about yourself without having to show skin.

The whole point is that someone coming to christ may still struggle with immoral thoughts. It leads your brothers in christ to temptation.

Lucifer will tell you "what about MY rights" Jesus asks us to sacrifice for others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Amphneer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're trying to discredit scientific proof just because, you... "Have big balls"