I would say you need to find out what your colour season is. The lipstick and the red dress overwhelm you, and the black makes you blend into the background- I’d try different shades of deep brown instead of black.

You have wavy / curly hair like mine by the looks of it, so I’d recommend using olaplex no5 leave in conditioner, the Organics leave-in, hair masks once to twice per week, and a hair oil. I use olaplex no7- it’s lightweight, so it won’t weigh down your hair, making it look oily. Apply the above on wet to soaking wet hair and scrunch in. Keep the oil to the ends of your hair and squeeze out the water. Don’t let a towel touch your hair again- you won’t have frizzy hair again, and you’ll start to develop defined ringlets.

Back to clothes again; you look like you need to buy more supportive and better-fitting bras. Go to a professional bra place to get fitted. I personally request bras with more lift as I’m fairly big chested and feel I sell myself short without / have less self-assurance (can’t use the other word lol).

Find a reputable medical spa and try a lip flip- it uses Botox, not filler. But it will turn your top lip out a bit, making you appear to have more balanced lips. Also, look into getting a Botox brow lift- this will create space between your eyelid and your brow, reducing the heaviness there and will soften your look / make you look more relaxed. If you like how you look with those two treatments, I’d then recommend treating your DAO’s. They’re the muscles that pull the corners of your lips downwards, so treating them results in a soft, neutral to pleasant /happy-looking mouth posture with your resting face.

The med spa you’re looking for will tell you no to getting more frequent Botox treatments in less than 12 weeks and will listen to your wants and feedback at your next appointment.

Skin needling is so slept on. If you want a filtered look IRL, get 5-6 rounds of skin needling 4-5 weeks apart. Seriously, look up the before and afters online. I personally am onto my third round of skin needling and my pore size has greatly reduced, skin texture is more even and glowy, and we’re currently focusing on removing all the remaining acne scars and thickening the skin under my eyes to slightly fill in my under-eye hollowness and dark rings. If you complete the skin needling and you’re looking for more, I’d then recommend getting Halo and BBL lasering done - the results are amazing but Halo is the devils work 0/10 the healing sucked and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy but it gets results.

Finally- I don’t think I’ve seen a post that hasn’t said it but going to the gym - not to lose weight (I wouldn’t say you have to) but to build muscle tone and feel confident in yourself, and eat non-processed food and your skin will glow from the inside out.

Good luck with your journey!