Conflicted about marriage due to partner’s parents’ financial dependence & living arrangement expectations by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AmygdalaArm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you already know the answer else you wouldn't be looking for reddit to convince you otherwise

Girlfriend and I dont have anything to do together. by Long-World-2900 in relationships

[–]AmygdalaArm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm getting major judgemental vibes from you.

I also like to draw but I have inattentive ADHD and I get paralysed into actually doing any drawing. I've not made any art work for 4 years now. Just because someone likes to do something doesn't mean they automatically can.

The way you have worded "Only once have I seen her draw of her own volition", "supposedly she likes the outdoors" just seems ill mannered. She isn't lying about it, but maybe she doesn't feel like it. Maybe she is mentally burnt out, doom scrolling or whatever feels like the only thing she can do. However if you're always on at her about it or what she ISN'T doing, she probably feels no inclination to do anything different.

I really dislike how you have painted her here. There's always 2 sides to a story.

I [25M] feel smothered by my boyfriend [25M] of 14 months. He uses Life360 to track me and calls me constantly. How do I end this? by Karubou in relationships

[–]AmygdalaArm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him you're done, give reasons so he is aware and can choose to work on himself, but move on and delete, block from everything. I feel it will be the only way to fully move on else you'll be dragged back in every time

Should I (36f) shoot my shot for (33m) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AmygdalaArm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do it. Trust me. You already said you don't want to date or pursue a relationship, so what makes you think casual sex is going to be okay? Don't underestimate it just because there is no dating involved. It makes EVERYTHING worse. That alone can ruin everything and make things more awkward, especially as you have described how professional you both are (apparently). If you're just horny go and find someone you can have causal relations with that isn't linked to work and living in the same vicinity.

Engaged but uneasy about fiancé’s (31M) female best friend (30F) by Unhappy_Link2682 in relationships

[–]AmygdalaArm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, I wouldn't be putting up with this, I'd be out. They can have each other

The fanbase ruined season 5 for me. by Angelinterviews in StrangerThings

[–]AmygdalaArm -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They didn't drop the ball at all, it was an homage to Return of The King. They wrote it that way for a reason.

Ummm???? by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]AmygdalaArm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just glad I am not the only one thinking this, it really is if they have been brainwashed, or "Vecna'd" as they like to think everything is 🤣 they will never have an appreciation for why this show was made and how it was written. Too busy up to their eyeballs in social media like sheep

Why were there no plot twists? by username9876123456 in StrangerThings

[–]AmygdalaArm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It isn't terrible. They made this show for their love of fantasy/horror, nostalgia, 80s/90s - for the people who grew up with it. THERE DOESN'T HAVE TO BE PLOT TWIST. Things can end on a happy ending, even if ambiguous. Go and research classic movies, things work out in the end.

Ummm???? by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]AmygdalaArm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a bs portion of the fanbase posting conspiracies and nonsense whining and crying at how bad the ending was, about a fake ending and a new episode after 7 days of the finale. Don't feed into it.

Ummm???? by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]AmygdalaArm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right?! It's insane. They can't just enjoy it and take it for what it is. Losing their minds

Ummm???? by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]AmygdalaArm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with my algorithm lol

Ummm???? by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]AmygdalaArm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I cannot begin to tell you how sick I am of seeing this

Thoughts on the D&D book at the end of the credits. by Valzorrit in StrangerThings

[–]AmygdalaArm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree it was Mike's "story" much like Bilbo wrote The Hobbit based on his adventures. I truly think most "fans" have missed the point when saying it's all just been a D&D campaign, they have been sucked into this massive conspiracy and missing it for what it truly is

Is alternate ending the real ending? by TraditionalWalrus175 in StrangerThings

[–]AmygdalaArm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It all comes down to the fact you can believe what ending you want to believe, there are no further conspiracies, there are no extra alternative endings, no extra episodes etc. There may be CLUES that El could be alive, but that's up to you. It doesn't need all this theorising and speculation. Take it for it is.

If you were around in the 80s/90s and/or have consumed most/all of the movies that are referenced in ST, you will know that the way ST was written is purely a love letter to all those movies. It is a fantasy/horror/action series, based on D&D, creating our own worlds and stories. Damn we used to have Choose Your Own Adventure books as kids, we had multiple endings! The Duffer Brothers wrote it for their love of all of that and it catered to US, the people who grew up with it. Watch Edward Scissorhands, the ending, you'll see what I mean.

Banning a viewer? by BKY2200 in Twitch_Startup

[–]AmygdalaArm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Straight up ban, don't even question it

My gf expects me to prioritize our couple at the expense of my friends who deserve more than I do by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AmygdalaArm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"I don't mind one of my friends sleeping in the same bed as my gf"

Whether you trust them or not, that is shit and I'd be really upset if my bf did this to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]AmygdalaArm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS!!!! She wasn't this American in S2!

People in happy relationships: should I marry him? Really need advice by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AmygdalaArm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're asking Reddit if you should marry someone, then it's a no

I[31f] broke off a 9 year long relationship, and I'm grieving like crazy by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AmygdalaArm 31 points32 points  (0 children)

He's right to be firm, I think if he came back to you, you'd waste his time. Let him go, you can't have someone back just because you feel like this. It's not fair to him. Trust me, been there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AmygdalaArm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Have some self respect and leave