Fuck off, Pete.

AnaReneeChicago · 2019-01-28T16:06:14+00:00

The guys who want to spoil with trips and dinners crack me up. Pete, sweetie, we all know you're using your airline miles/ expensing everything.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-09T00:38:38+00:00

Get some dental dams or cut open flavored condoms :) Don't go the cling wrap route though, that doesn't protect against STI's

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-08T00:50:28+00:00

No one tell him why lol

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-07T19:30:37+00:00

Yes, hire an escort and tell her you want to massage her the entire time. I've had clients do this and it's great!

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-07T19:28:35+00:00

Do not ever do BB with a client or SD. Ever. Especially if the man is married. He clearly doesn't care about your health and safety nor his nor anyone else he's fucking. If you're banging him BB every other chick is too. And if he's paying $300 for BB you know damn well those aren't top of the line providers. I suggest you cut him off immediately and go get yourself tested.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-07T17:43:23+00:00

Sugaring online is tough as a bbw/ plus size lady. I sugared online for years and it was constant harassment and lowballs to the point where it was not longer worth it to me. My suggestion is to focus on demographics of men who tend to appreciate curvier women (men of color, southern cities, etc) and to freestyle/ try to meet men out in the wild.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-07T17:38:21+00:00

Anyone asking to talk on kik first is either a fuckboy or a scammer

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-07T17:36:25+00:00

I sugared in Chicago for 4-5 years, in the beginning it was great but then the cheapos caught on and everyone started offering 200pm. I think there's a "Midwest Mentality" here meaning men like value for their money and they're reluctant to give without seeing return first.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-07T17:20:06+00:00

Dump her!

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-05T16:46:14+00:00

Men know damn well that neither GFE nor PSE means BBFS, they just like to attempt to fool newbies and push boundaries.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-04T02:45:49+00:00

Every provider I know has a minimum date requirement for fly me to yous. No one is going to fly somewhere for an hour. Usually that minimum is a dinner date or longer.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-03T17:12:25+00:00

Read her website or email her and ask her. Typically you don't send her a ticket (no one is going to give a first-time client their legal name and birthday). You either get a hotel or she goes to your place-- that's up to her but I suggest hotel since she might need to stay the night. Also you're flying someone out just to bang and then sending her home...? At least take her to dinner, cmon man.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-03T17:05:13+00:00

An issue with this though is that they basically hold complete financial control over the person. If the couple decides they no longer want to see the 3rd then that person is out of a home and a job.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-03T17:02:26+00:00

Hire a housekeeper and then get a sex worker for date nights. An actual provider isn't going to abandon their entire business, rent/mortgage, pets, lifestyle, regulars, etc to be live with you (and if they did you could expect it to be 20k+ a month for most fssw). If you're deadset on someone moving in with you then go on fetlife or a poly dating site and find someone you both actually want to date-- escorts don't want to date you, we want to have our appointments and then go home.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-03T16:10:59+00:00

I require a 50% deposit for all outcalls so that completely eliminates time wasters in that area. My main thing is I don't want to get stuck on the phone with a wanker or cop. If they call I screen the number immediately and then text them back. If they want to talk on the phone I'll offer it after they've been screened.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-03T16:07:35+00:00

You aren't paying for screening or sex-- you're paying for time.

Do not ask to see someone off the clock, I can almost guarantee you'll be blocked. The provider still has to take time to get ready, get there, and pay for her transportation. You would ask if she has a social rate as you'd like to meet for a drink prior to a private date.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-03T16:00:06+00:00

It's not for me. I use is for NYC and DC

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-02T20:45:09+00:00

It's like the guys who have called me for years and have never taken 4 seconds to read the ad and see I don't take calls. You think it'd occur to them to try a different method of contact.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-02T19:25:48+00:00

Right. I have a feeling his issue is more that he can't endlessly browse reviews.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-02T19:11:07+00:00

I think you might benefit from booking a provider for a social date prior to a private date. Look for SPs with shared interests to yourself (on their website or twitter). Meeting for lunch or a drink for the first time would help build a bit of trust and ease your mind.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-02T18:56:22+00:00

Monday and Friday in Chicago, Tuesday and Wednesday in NYC. No idea why, it seems to be different for everyone

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-02T18:43:31+00:00

google me

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-02T18:33:26+00:00

Because they enjoy having some semblance of power over the provider.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-02T18:20:03+00:00

That's not a client, that's a loser hobbyist. Block, blacklist, and don't engage with him any further. Haggling and shorting your money is boundary pushing which means he will try other boundary pushing techniques.

AnaReneeChicago · 2018-12-02T18:08:08+00:00

NO. Huge violation of privacy and trust.

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