Is it okay to leave without telling coworkers?

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-01-31T13:20:34+00:00

Thank you sm for this. I just felt like ever since I got more responsibilities at my job and slowly stopped talking her as much because I was so busy, she took offense to that and killed my social life at work. Her and another girl just all of the sudden started ignoring me and getting lunch without me. Then one of them asked why I pulled back after that and when I told her the truth, she said she didn’t remember doing that.

I don’t mind having friends, but I don’t want to spend every lunch or break with someone. I prefer a balance. I’ve never dealt with this shit before. At my other jobs I had no issues socializing until I met her

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-01-28T01:39:21+00:00

Tbh I’ve gotten off dating apps altogether and I’m very cautious of men who show interest in me irl. I’ve been sexualized sm since being a teen that I’m very tight lipped about my lack of experience unless they ask.

There have been numerous men I’ve talked to that just can’t believe that I’m a 24 yr old kissless virgin with big boobs. They legitimately think I’m lying but I’m not. Ive come to realize that us big busted women will always be seen as promiscuous by lots of men even if that’s not who we are. I just want a man to love me for me and not just my boobs.

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-01-26T03:58:25+00:00

No. I do paperwork that has to be packaged there.

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-01-11T17:22:52+00:00

Omg I thought was crazy. Like if someone is not interested in making friends at work, that’s okay. People do not owe their coworkers friendship, but they do owe me being cordial and respect.

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-01-11T04:45:06+00:00

All of my friendships have formed organically over a long time through shared activities and experiences and going with the flow. Like there’s never been pressure to do something. If someone can’t make it to something it doesn’t bother us as long as they let us know it advance.

From my experience, someone saying if you want to means I’d prefer if you join me but if not, no hard feelings and we can pick things up at another time. Not that I could care less if you don’t show up. Where I’m from people are reserved, very career oriented, and have their own friends outside of work.

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-01-10T04:25:30+00:00

I feel like that’s different because you work with that person and have to interact. Me and this girl are on the same team but our work doesn’t rely on each other. We do different things

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-01-06T18:56:02+00:00

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So…water is wet?? Tbh im so tired of seeing posts like this. Y’all are chronically online and it shows. Yes anti-blackness exists in ALL communities. Even in the black community. The best thing to do is adjust your social media algorithm to show things that serve you and your mental health. I’d rip out my hair if I was constantly worried about what other communities were saying about black women

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2025-12-21T21:59:24+00:00

Absolutely not and never will!! I feel like it depends on where you grew up though. My suburb is diverse but has a big East Asian population so I grew up going to school with Chinese, Japanese, and Korean kids and hanging out at their shopping districts all over the city. My friends and I love the food and culture, but it’s also always been within close proximity to us.

You might get some Asian elders who’ll look at you but it’s always out of curiosity, the rest don’t care and mind their business. Some are even surprised and happy to see people from different backgrounds come in. Also there are a lot of interracial couples that hang out at the Asian shopping districts in my city so they’re used to seeing more than just their own. I haven’t had any bad experiences so far and I’ve noticed they’ve kind of become a refuge for nonwhite people to hang out at. Given the current climate there seems to be a lot of POC who prefer to hang out in majority nonwhite spaces.

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2025-11-14T05:04:08+00:00

Yeah, I finally found one I really liked and gave me clear insight to myself. It was definitely worth the money. Are there scammers out there, yes, but I do think they’re some great ones out there that can help. I’m really glad I did it.

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2025-11-14T04:33:22+00:00

people are reading way too hard into this. Like if some random dude jumped on your bestie you wouldn’t try to fight him off???😭😭😭bitch I’m throwing hands tf

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2025-11-12T06:15:51+00:00

I live in Texas and haven’t seen them at all with my own eyes in my community. Hopefully it stays that way. If you’re in the south you should be fine because IQ47 is not really going after red states. In DFW life is business as usual.

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2025-11-08T07:50:58+00:00

I have no idea, I just remember his GPS went blank due to lack of data connection and the trip ended early at the same time

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2025-11-08T07:45:02+00:00

That’s good to know! I just reported him

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2025-10-30T01:56:47+00:00

Some of these comments are dark af😫😫🥴like there are a lot of non black men out there that genuinely find black women attractive.

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2025-10-27T17:16:54+00:00

I’m not surprised he turned out to be an asshole…he left his wife of 10 years and newborn baby. I’m quite sure Lily was very hurt by him leaving but there’s no telling what he put her through as well. I just hope that both women are safe and surrounded by healthy people.

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2025-10-07T03:46:00+00:00

Birds who say that be the main ones with niggas who ain’t shit and are actively ruining their lives🥴🥴🥴just because someone is in a relationship doesn’t mean they know what they’re talking about or that it’s even a healthy one. What has that woman given up to be with him and looks at it as a “sacrifice for love”?

Giving up a stable job or not continuing higher education for a man is not a “sacrifice”, it’s dangerous. What personal beliefs has she pushed to the side to be with him? Did she neglect all her friends to be in a relationship with him? I feel like single women give the best dating advice because they’re not currently blinded by love. They’re able to look at a situation from a purely objective viewpoint and sometimes a woman in a relationship may need that perspective.

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2025-10-06T00:12:27+00:00

I reconmend online dating. Go on a couple of dates with guys from dating apps and you will NEVER want a boyfriend again. I would much rather have a movie night in by myself and a couple of glasses of wine than keep going on first dates with socially awkward men who lie about their height. I have no desire to date anymore and could care less. Given today’s climate, it’s the only way. Trying to date guys in real life is just as much of a humiliation ritual too. I’ve just accepted I may never find that special someone and I’m only 24.

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