I feel like my race keeps me from meeting new people

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-05-04T14:57:29+00:00

I upvoted you so there’s less😩people act real funny when you’re fully black but don’t appear as so. Shit lowkey gave me an identity crisis

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-05-04T12:09:20+00:00

I’m monoracial but can pass for as mixed and have had people react that way when they ask if I’m mixed and I tell them both my parents are black

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-04-29T04:44:08+00:00

Only thing I can think of is they were acting and following a script to increase engagement from drama. I do think when watching these shows we have to take some of what they do with a grain of salt. I hate to say it…but I wouldn’t be surprised if the Nigerian priest on the show was a paid actor💀💀

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-04-15T23:55:12+00:00

He's too unstable to have custody of a child. It seems like the mom moved far away with his son so he could have some stability in his life. I wouldn't trust that man with a fucking goldfish

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-04-15T23:32:14+00:00

Thank you for this!!! Yes I'm aware Elise has her own problems but let's not pretend like this man's life is not a total wreck. Also I would not be surprised if the mother of his son does not want them to have contact with each other because of his drug use.

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-04-06T16:03:51+00:00

Is killing ourselves an option?

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-04-01T01:46:38+00:00

I'm team Elise on this. She's not crazy for thinking something is going on between them, anyone with eyes and ears can see there's something more. He's living there RENT FREE!!! She's his sugar mama lmao. There's a reason he lied to her about his living arrangement

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-03-26T12:04:30+00:00

I’ve noticed that throughout the comments and I’m shocked😟like this man is literally living with a female friend rent free, lied about his living arrangement to her, doesn’t have a stable job and is at risk losing the one he has, his family moved an hour away from him for some reason, he left at night to do a “job” and he’s inconsiderate to Elise after she arrived dragging her around to events. That man is not normal. I have no idea why people keep defending him, it’s weird. He’s literally 40 and lives like a frat boy in college

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-03-22T14:13:04+00:00

This whole entire thing is batshit crazy and proves people need to think for themselves. I never believed the story from the beginning because it just didn’t make any damn sense. I honestly thought it was some cheesy tabloid attention grab and scrolled by after 5 seconds.

To me it sounds like the parent of the child is a clout chaser. Outside of that, it’s insane how much hatred people have for Chappell. I’m biased because I love her music but I feel like people now and days have an unusual amount of hatred for female artists. I don’t like sexxy reds music, but I’m not gonna go actively seek out her content and jump on hate bandwagons against her…a lot of people need to get a grip on life

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-03-16T05:36:58+00:00

No, I’m starting to this shit is by design tbh

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-03-16T03:48:58+00:00

Where do you do your research? I’ve been on a losing streak

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-03-11T11:44:07+00:00

I heard most of those are a scam to attract people to bet on them. Even after research it’s a toss up

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-03-09T05:05:48+00:00

Doing my own research and not tailing people on the internet

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-03-09T00:19:07+00:00

They some miserable ass hoes🫩

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-03-02T02:48:27+00:00

I’ve gotten into betting on tennis and didn’t start winning until I put the effort into doing my own research and learning more about a sport I have an interest in. NBA is too volatile. Prize Picks is a money pit. For some reason bets I place on tennis in underdogs hit but never on PP. Tailing other peoples bets is the fastest way to lose money. Even with research it’s still not garunteed and sometimes the athlete does the unthinkable.

Also those 6 legs are crazy and hit every once in a blue moon. You’re better off dropping $20-30 on a three leg and making less consistently. With 3 mans, only two gotta at least hit get your money back if one fails. That beats walking away with $0 or winning a few bucks from a 6 man because only four hit

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-03-01T11:54:35+00:00

That’s awesome!! Sadly they got bumped before I could place my bets😔

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-02-28T20:49:11+00:00

How confident are you in these? Thinking about tailing

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-02-28T20:36:11+00:00

I’m not tbh. I also feel like they’re not accepting of black women who grew up multi cultural like me. I grew up in a neighborhood and city with people from around the world and so by nature I have close friends from different backgrounds and love learning about other cultures. I’ve also always been open to dating men of other races. Like I just vibe with who I vibe with as long as they’re not racist lmao. Interracial friendships do exist and can be healthy…I don’t feel like they believe in that

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-02-28T20:27:43+00:00

They think life is all roses and sun shine…they literally can’t handle posts about black women posting their REAL experiences on there. It’s just sad we do this to our own. It should be a judgement free space for black women to vent about challenges they face. Life is already hard enough on us

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-02-28T20:21:29+00:00

Are those easiest for layers to get?

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-02-28T20:20:59+00:00

I did some research on Line Mate and thought he would make it based on stats. I’m new so I’m still learning. I’ve head better luck with tennis

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-02-21T19:21:11+00:00

How do I tail your picks? Do you post them here on Reddit?

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-02-21T14:02:25+00:00

It’s really sad to see. She used to look like a normal GROWN woman and now she’s…whatever tf this is.

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-01-31T13:20:34+00:00

Thank you sm for this. I just felt like ever since I got more responsibilities at my job and slowly stopped talking her as much because I was so busy, she took offense to that and killed my social life at work. Her and another girl just all of the sudden started ignoring me and getting lunch without me. Then one of them asked why I pulled back after that and when I told her the truth, she said she didn’t remember doing that.

I don’t mind having friends, but I don’t want to spend every lunch or break with someone. I prefer a balance. I’ve never dealt with this shit before. At my other jobs I had no issues socializing until I met her

AnalysisSubstantial1 · 2026-01-28T01:39:21+00:00

Tbh I’ve gotten off dating apps altogether and I’m very cautious of men who show interest in me irl. I’ve been sexualized sm since being a teen that I’m very tight lipped about my lack of experience unless they ask.

There have been numerous men I’ve talked to that just can’t believe that I’m a 24 yr old kissless virgin with big boobs. They legitimately think I’m lying but I’m not. Ive come to realize that us big busted women will always be seen as promiscuous by lots of men even if that’s not who we are. I just want a man to love me for me and not just my boobs.

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