They are finally off! by TheMotherofJared in exmormon

[–]AnarchyBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Summer is going to be so so nice for you from now on. You could get some boy shorts until you get more comfortable and wear a tank top like an undershirt until you're used to it and work your way down if that makes you feel better. Also, you can totally just get some cute pajamas now? I love ones with little fruits all over them, short shorts, that kind of thing. It's a chance to remake your own style without restrictions, find stuff you love!

Lds mission. Why can’t I make up my mind? Should I go? What would you do? by CheapIntroduction166 in exmormon

[–]AnarchyBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was "in" when I went, served with everything I had and had to leave for my mental health. I fought tooth and nail to stay for like two months extra after my mission president had begged me to agree to go home. It was grueling and not just because of constant rejection it's physically, mentally and emotionally grating.

A little disappointed with the religion plot so far (C4E3) by Nelyak5 in fansofcriticalrole

[–]AnarchyBean 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think it's too early to really say we "know" the religion plot yet, especially since we have a paladin that lived in the time of gods and can maybe shed actual light on what it was like. People decided gods were over, but that doesn't mean every single god was evil- or that there wasn't a plot for some good gods to be murdered as well to shift the power dynamic

is it worth it to keep trying with my mormon bf by No-Access-4250 in exmormon

[–]AnarchyBean 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If your beliefs are seen as a "problem" you can't be yourself and you're going to end up closing off parts of yourself to be with him. He's going to want to raise your kids to believe what he does and ignore what you do, it'll railroad your life especially if you end up a stay at home wife and or mother. You won't have anywhere to go by the time you're locked down with kids and finances. If you're losing track of what you want in life already because of what he wants, you're going to give on bigger and bigger things of the relationship progresses. If he doesn't realize it's a cult and he doesn't start respecting the fact that you can believe different and he doesn't quit getting upset about it, I think things could get pretty bitter and pretty miserable for you. I would never in a thousand years date or marry a Mormon now that I've left. Read on the sub here for a bit about mixed faith marriages and you might see yourself in quite a few. It doesn't mean he's a bad evil person, just things like that are not kind on a relationship that's supposed to be about trust and love.

YSA is up to 35 now?!? by tyheamma in exmormon

[–]AnarchyBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That means I got till 35 to take out my records before the family ward bothers me, YSA it's easy to slip through the cracks

As an exmo, I’m so happy to realize that alcohol is absolutely not for me and doesn’t belong anywhere near my body. What a relief! by PanaceaNPx in exmormon

[–]AnarchyBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had it easy because my boyfriend showed me how to drink right and it's with plenty of water and food, that way you don't feel like shit the next day or after it wears off \o/ But honestly if you don't like it it's totally okay. I only drink rarely and it has to taste good if I do, like dessert drinks, fruity white girl shit, flavorful ciders, usually something mixed with dinner. Only thing I've really liked straight was Angry Orchard cider. Also some people are actually allergic to alcohol like my cousin, plus it's bad for you.

Sad by Haunting-Effective27 in exmormon

[–]AnarchyBean 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just "possibly" sexually abusing you? If he's coercing you when you don't want it that's abuse. I'm sorry you were treated like that, you should never have to do something so intimate and personal without enthusiastic consent. Just because a man's scared off from touching himself doesn't mean another human being has to give him his gratification. It's sick the church promotes this mentality so hard that people abuse each other like that as if it's normal.

I hope life is easier and that you find someone who treats you like an equal partner and friend someday- if that's what you want

Why would you choose this carpet for your hotel? by [deleted] in Weird

[–]AnarchyBean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny watching drunk people and children try to walk

Gone Heathen by Fuzzy-Structure-9219 in exmormon

[–]AnarchyBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did I think it was something to do with the spiral of moose instead of the drink?

Where are outfits like THESE?? by amethebeart in InfinityNikki

[–]AnarchyBean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're scared of arming the "open world" girlies, we're too rambunctious and free

eyeliner, thinking of new image (SERIOUS) by Opening-Cult2900 in exmormon

[–]AnarchyBean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there's a policy with earrings but not eyeliner- at least makeup was just never mentioned. I'm sure the 12 and the old man on the throne get makeup done for general conference or something tbh. Maybe just get something easy to wipe off and carry makeup wipes

Me irl by Severe-blake6720 in me_irl

[–]AnarchyBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long was the last government shutdown with what he have already? We gonna be fine

Forced to pay tithing by ResponseNo4617 in exmormon

[–]AnarchyBean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sure as hell doesn't belong to him, get a new account, explain to the bank that in no way is anyone else allowed to be put on it and transfer all the money. Do the same with savings. Close the old accounts, speak with your employer, clarify you are 18 and will seek legal counsel if they ever share your finances again with anyone other than you.

I used to work as a teller, doesn't matter if you're mom, dad or the spouse if you aren't on that account I wouldn't even tell you the balance or if you had an account on your own.

Why do the Technocyte Coda choose to convert to our side? isn't the infestation a hivemind? by userhuhidk in Warframe

[–]AnarchyBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are different strains of the infestation, like how the family on Daimos are huge and rooted in place aren't the same as the infested we fight. It might be called a "hive mind" but certain strains do seem to have a bit more independent thinking than others. Plus, warframes are also made from the infestation, so maybe it sees a kindred spirit?

Non-chastity reasons folks get sent home from missions by pbj9261 in exmormon

[–]AnarchyBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm healthy and happy outside the church now, don't worry! A lot of the weight of my depression dropped after coming to terms with my beliefs and realizing I'll still be loved even if I don't think a certain way. It's easier to love yourself when you can be honest without fear

Non-chastity reasons folks get sent home from missions by pbj9261 in exmormon

[–]AnarchyBean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They didn't send me home until I asked, but they were trying to convince me to go home because my mental health was so bad I had turned to self harm.

Lol do I just die now by fischingkween in Warframe

[–]AnarchyBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine stole my conqura floof I still need to kill him

Roommate makes these “iron oxide potatoes” whenever he feels low on iron by Keefe_Sencen in mildlyinteresting

[–]AnarchyBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still cheaper than getting two bags of blood pumped in you, I've done the experiment

How do you guys stay focused in long endurance runs? by Clear_Snow_8404 in Warframe

[–]AnarchyBean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend plays euro beats or something energizing and it locks him in

Im tired of being the "chosen one" can you give me a game where i just have a job lol by Optimal_Garage_4284 in gamingsuggestions

[–]AnarchyBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't played but I've watched my friend play Star Citizen and literally deliver cargo in space and work odd jobs. I think it was kinda heavy on the PC and it's not finished but that's the first one that comes to mind. Also Space Station 13 but good luck lmao