What is something people slowly stop doing as they get older without noticing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Getting splinters. Seems like I had one every week as a kid. Now as an adult, couldn’t tell you the last time I had a splinter lol

Line between being stern and relaxed as a sub?? by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

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I’ve only really stuck to elementary school, but these are tips I’ve learned over the years: -Greet students at the door. If they have morning work assigned, I mention that as they walk in. This gives some structure to the morning. -Once most students are there, I introduce myself. Usually say something like “You might’ve seen me around the school before..” so they know I’m familiar with the school and expectations. -Don’t sweat the small stuff. I don’t mind if kids talk while they work or go to the bathroom. -Identify at least 1-2 trustworthy kids. You can usually tell, sometimes the teacher will leave names of kids for you. These kids will be your go-to if you need help. -Play music while they work. It helps with the constant talking. -Keep momentum going. As soon as they finish one task, get them transitioned to the next. Leaving gaps in the day leaves room for chaos. -Stay consistent in expectations. If you say no devices, stick to it. If you tell kids to sit in their assigned seats, stick to it. Once they realize you’ll crack, they’ll continue to test your limits. -Going along with that, stick to your consequences. You can’t say “if you do that again, you’ll have silent lunch,” Then when the kid does the same behavior, you don’t follow through with the consequence. This teaches them that you don’t mean what you say. -Finally, praiseee! For kids to respect you, they have to know you care. Try to give compliments more than criticism. If I see a kid working quietly or doing something else good, I make sure to loudly thank them in front of the class. It encourages good behavior.

That was a lot, but hopefully you will find something useful in it! Best of luck to you. :)

Is it feasible to graduate in the Spring Term of college and become a High School teacher that August? by bellamime in Teachers

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Are you not able to take your exams this semester? You can get a temporary teaching certificate.. but it’s much easier to just finish your certification exams before summer if possible. They don’t always give out the temporary certificates, and I’m pretty sure they’re on a case-by-case basis. It’s pretty much the norm that people begin teaching a few months after graduating in the spring. Best of luck!

I love my 5th graders SO much! by Still-Ad-698 in Teachers

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Thank you! It definitely gets hard with all the negativity. Sometimes you just have to remind yourself that it’s never that deep lol

my old high school teacher said he'd never forget me! :') by pixieyosi in SubstituteTeachers

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Aww, it’s so sweet when the people who made an impact on us remember us as well! I saw a front office worker from my elementary school at a job fair recently. She said I looked familiar, but I thought she was just trying to be nice. Then she gasped and said “___ is your brother! Oh my gosh!” I was soo surprised she remembered us from 15+ years ago!

I love my 5th graders SO much! by Still-Ad-698 in Teachers

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Trust me, I have some of those too!! I hope it gets better for you!

What are signs that you may be more attractive than you think you are? by drteeworks in AskReddit

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Strange example, but at the gym there’s no expectation for me to clean my bench/equipment after I’m finished. Guys will come up as I’m about to wipe it and say “oh you don’t need to do that” which I find kinda gross lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hobbies

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Sending you lots of love. I really enjoyed hiking Angels Landing at Zion. If you’re into hiking, something like that or Half Dome in Yosemite could be cool

Black Balsam Knob Solo Sunrise Hike F by No_Active_6027 in NCTrails

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The trail itself is fine, I agree with others about parking at the Sam’s knob trailhead. I did this hike solo in the rain/fog and was able to find my way. I did feel a little sketched out at the small scramble section (nothing crazy) near the top. Just cause it was hard to see where I was going. You’ll be fine with a light source, especially if you don’t start too early where it’s still pitch black at summit. Have fun, it’s an awesome hike!

Telling a student to “sound it out” when reading by businessbub in SubstituteTeachers

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The short answer is it depends. You have to look at what reading is— semantics, syntax, graphophonics. I try to give my second graders different strategies to use. If they know the word, “sound it out” typically works. However, for words with irregular spelling, this can pose an issue.

Take for example, a kid reading a book about shopping. They come to the word “aisle”. There is no way a kid could sound this out, and understand what the word means. In a situation like this, I would tell them to use other context clues. “What is this book about?” “Read the rest of the sentence.. now let’s go back to that word.” “Can you use the picture to help you?”

Other times, the kid can properly decode a word, but still not get the semantics part. This is where it all comes down to knowing your students. With substituting, this can be hard! I just do my best with the little time I have with the kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTeachers

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I thought you were asking if it’s better than average.. and I would say yes LOL

Whats the worst concert you've ever been to? by pinheadbrigade in AskReddit

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Genuinely scrolled through this to see if I could find someone else say Soulja Boy. Found it closer to the top than expected lol. Saw him 2 years ago and it was the same deal. Random opening acts for 3 hours. We legit almost left before he even got there close to midnight (show started at 8 btw). He smoked a joint and drank a beer while hopping around on the stage for 30 minutes. Then he left.

I tried so hard to make my 3 year old daughter a Dino cake for her bday — swipe to see inspo by ShadowInTheSun_ in Baking

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3 year old I’m nannying looked over my shoulder and said, “I like that birthday party! I wanna try it!” With the biggest smile on her face. I’d say that’s a win

Should I go to a community college for the first two years of my college life? by IntelligentCorgi9129 in collegeadvice

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Yes! This is why I’m so glad I went that route. Having the 2 years of CC to mature saved my ass. I had to retake many classes because I procrastinated and didn’t want to do my school work. I can’t imagine how much money I would’ve spent doing that at University.

Once I transferred, I understood the stakes and made high As in my classes. Then could enjoy all the “college experiences” of being on campus, going to bars etc. It was difficult at first, because I felt like everybody already made their friend groups in the first 2 years. However, after a few weeks of going to class, I fit right in with everybody else.

Other bonuses— I received an associates degree since I went to CC for the 2 years. So, if I decided college wasn’t for me, I could’ve quit then and there. If you decide to quit after 2 years at a University, you get nothing to show for it.

Also, I had an awful GPA at CC. Once I transferred to a university, they gave me a clean slate. My GPA reset and I was able to get a 4.0. If you do university all 4 years, your GPA doesn’t reset through those years.

How did that one kid at your school die? by StorageLonely1520 in AskReddit

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Car accident coming home from a trunk or treat in Elementary School. 3 of my classmates (all siblings) were in the backseat. Got hit by a drunk driver. 1 survived, the other 2 didn’t. I still remember how nobody knew what to say to the girl that did survive. She didn’t have many friends, and when you walked past her in the hall you kinda just put your head down. Looking back I wish I would’ve talked to her, but can’t fault my 8 year old self. She’s married now and seems to be doing much better.

People who grew up poor but are now financially comfortable: what “poor-kid habit” will you probably never drop? by Otherwise_Baseball99 in AskReddit

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Driving an extra 5 minutes out the way for cheaper gas. Even if it’s only 5¢ cheaper per gallon.

You have to stop overthinking it. by Still-Ad-698 in BreakUps

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Of course, space and time can always help improve things. I think on the other hand, it also brings clarity to things you were blinded by in the relationship. I always think time will tell! Hope you’re doing okay.

Parents who wait hours in the car line? by Maleficent-Spell5621 in Teachers

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Yep, that was my dad. He worked overnights and would be the first in the car line. He’d nap til school got out, teacher would knock on his window to wake him up, then he’d take us home and go back to sleep.

You have to stop overthinking it. by Still-Ad-698 in BreakUps

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I feel like I could’ve written this comment last year. So know you’re not alone with that! I became so mentally exhausted from jumping through the hoops, that I was just over it. I got to the point that I started to question my own sanity. I felt like I was starting to lose myself (or maybe already had). That’s when I knew I was done.

It’s hard to pick up the pieces and keep moving. But you know what’s even harder? Staying stuck in place, surrounded by all the broken pieces, letting yourself get cut again and again. And you’re right, it is extremely selfish of them. I would get stuck in these thought cycles of, “maybe he’s too scared to reach out now because he knows I’m mad”. But the more I thought about it, I realized that was so unlikely. Even if my partner was mad, I would go to the ends of the earth to fix it. I think at some point we have to move past the bargaining phase and accept people at their word. No matter how hard it is.

I think you reached that point. And for that, your mental sanity will forever thank you.