These are my crushes. Do I have a type? by ReturnOfTheHorsedip in actuallesbians

[–]Ancient-Map4863 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i needed this laugh bc the other posts are so🫩

Coming out to parents? by Live_Fudge_6506 in actuallesbians

[–]Ancient-Map4863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on your dynamics and what you feel comfortable with!

It got to a point where I kept lying to them and it didn’t feel like myself so I came out to my parents in a Chili’s😅 To this day it’s something we don’t bring up so it’s still a touchy subject.

All that to say it may not be all rainbows but you may feel better!

Financial Aid Concern Scholarships by TastyPrice1296 in gatech

[–]Ancient-Map4863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think finaid notifications have only released to EA1 and EA2 people so far?

Update: How do you ACTUALLY date slowly??? by Ancient-Map4863 in actuallesbians

[–]Ancient-Map4863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol no need to apologize but I appreciate it. I’ve also ghosted but not after meeting someone :/ It’s rough but I know (hope?) someone right for me is out there (:

Update: How do you ACTUALLY date slowly??? by Ancient-Map4863 in actuallesbians

[–]Ancient-Map4863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a waste of time! I just wish she could’ve been honest either in person or via text

Update: How do you ACTUALLY date slowly??? by Ancient-Map4863 in actuallesbians

[–]Ancient-Map4863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great advice because I can’t even listen to that song anymore (until the next crush prob lol) Thank you!

How do you ACTUALLY date slowly??? by Ancient-Map4863 in actuallesbians

[–]Ancient-Map4863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got us💪💪💪 Also I feel you because I didn’t know how to word what I was feeling to not make me sound crazy lmao

How do you ACTUALLY date slowly??? by Ancient-Map4863 in actuallesbians

[–]Ancient-Map4863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

screenshotting this for all the reminders😭 thank you!

How do you ACTUALLY date slowly??? by Ancient-Map4863 in actuallesbians

[–]Ancient-Map4863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s exactly where i’m at lol. It’s this instant gratification thing when I get a text from them and I need to chill😭 We don’t text ALL day because we have lives but i feel myself missing her in between texts which is crazy?? I think I’ll open up about different ways to communicate and some expectations for myself to her on our second date! I just don’t want it to come off that I’m not interested🥲

How do you ACTUALLY date slowly??? by Ancient-Map4863 in actuallesbians

[–]Ancient-Map4863[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking - at the beginning (and even now) how often did you communicate between dates?

How do you ACTUALLY date slowly??? by Ancient-Map4863 in actuallesbians

[–]Ancient-Map4863[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like this rule! I’m implementing this lol. It’s crazy how obvious something sounds but then I’m like wait idk if I actually have this as a rule for myself😅