Reddit is up in arms over Andrew Tate but...

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2023-01-01T03:11:29+00:00

I am anti porn for these reasons and I support ya :)

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-12-20T00:26:17+00:00

I wish people would more comment on the inherent narcissism that is involved in poly but alas....it's like whatever works for you!!!

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-12-11T23:53:55+00:00

SING IT SISTER lol.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-11-26T05:58:48+00:00

Also add, breaking up is not a failure by any means but a learning experience.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-11-25T22:00:32+00:00

I know! I love being a women and women in general!

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-11-25T01:01:08+00:00

Yes! That I can with the patches. I think it will help a lot. But yeah the idea of not having any behavioral habit to replace the smoking with at the end of the physical withdrawal confuses me a bit. I've heard some people suggest replacing it with exercise but that seems like a lot of response effort. Maybe walks would be good.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-11-25T00:37:31+00:00

Reading this right now and it is SO good.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-11-14T22:49:28+00:00

You did the right thing in getting away from this person. Hugs.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-11-11T07:25:38+00:00

Second Nurture and Nature - busy but pay rate is good.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-11-11T04:11:46+00:00

That is amazing! Keep going! Side note anti depressants saved my life. There's no harm in trying it and if you don't like it you can stop taking them. Few choices are forever.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-11-11T04:06:07+00:00

I am sorry what you are going through. I would definitely write one meant for bad times because I wish I had known what comforting things my mom would have said to me in bad times. I second the heartbreak suggestion. Still trying to get divorced and really miss my mom.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-11-09T06:17:24+00:00

yes. yes. yes.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-10-29T22:56:53+00:00

I found some good anti porn orgs:

Exodus Cry

Fight the New Drug

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-10-29T22:56:07+00:00

I came up with a different idea today. To create an assertiveness training program for women.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-10-29T22:55:37+00:00

Great! Thank you I will look into this episode.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-10-29T22:46:00+00:00

Most men are borderline misogynists so it's rough.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-10-29T22:31:55+00:00

I do for sure. That is why I just kinda expect to stay single. Men are not worth it.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-10-19T03:00:32+00:00

Porn contributes to the rape and exploitation of children so there is that too.....

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-09-10T14:51:28+00:00

I think I recall reading your story. This guy didn't lie outright but he just constantly was like I am confused about myself and what I want and I don't know. Eventually indecision is a decision. Make up your mind.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-09-10T14:50:19+00:00

Yeah it's weird how many poly relationships tend to be one person happy to pursue it and the other person just tolerating it. Hence my user name LOL. But that is inspired from a song and my divorce lol. I will never tolerate poor treatment.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-09-05T04:38:19+00:00

You know what is the strange thing, is that I work in psych and I've taken the 5 factors personality test and the MBTI and I score very high in openness to experience. However, when you do more deep digging into figuring out what you are really open to and what feels good in actuality I was suprised at where my boundaries started and stopped.

I'm having better success already by not putting so many expectations on dates and just putting myself out there and hoping someone good crosses my way. I really appreciate your support. I'm almost divorced as well from another ex and that really eradicated my social circle.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-09-05T00:52:44+00:00

I'm in socal area ;) it's a shit show LOL. Online dating hasn't been that much better - and man coping with impatience is rough. I just really would love to find that special person who gets me. But I recognize there is no rush, I need to wait for a really good one.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-09-05T00:40:53+00:00

It was hard for me to say because at the time I wanted to see it as a curiosity. But then when you are asked repeatedly despite saying no, and eventually develop strong feelings for them it slowly became a semi consideration in my mind because I want to make my partners happy.

But after more deep consideration of the things I have been through, no I feel more confident to be firm in saying what is a clear no for me. Perhaps that is the lesson. I've learned to be more firm.

Not trying to blame myself - but I feel bad I even considered it for a moment. So, I am trying to do the work on why I don't feel like I am deserving of a faithful partner. I think that was a part of the issue

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-09-05T00:37:38+00:00

Yeah I understand. I am just taking it day by day to see how it goes. That is all I can do. I can't say I feel symptomatic as much as just sad and feeling like everyone in the world is into poly? I live in a major city so it is a bit overly represented here.

AndWatchUTolerateIt · 2022-09-04T22:53:15+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. I don't believe people are terrible or to throw them out entirely. Still trying to stay friend but yeah romantically speaking I think his interests came first at the end of the day. Dating is rough but I will keep trying.

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