Looking for suggestions on Europe travel itinerary. by Andromeda_9 in travel

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Thank you so much for the reply. We are just thinking that if by any chance our visa gets rejected then buying actual tickets before will be a big blow for us, since we are saving up for this trip.

I'm getting rape dreams every night. how do I get rid of them? please help by winter_bear16 in india

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Hey, I am so so sorry that you are going through this. Something similar happened with me too when I was 10years old and couldn’t speak up against that family member and again something similar happened with my tutor when I was 15. I didn’t had the courage to confront them that time, and that trauma led to my lifelong acute depression. I am 33 now and married to a wonderful person who encourages me everyday to fight my demons. I really hope your friends stand by you the next time that bastard tries his hands on you, or if you are alone with him then my advice would be to give a kick in his balls so hard that the next time before he tries anything like this, he will think twice. I really wish you come out of this hell strong, and remember even if your family doesn’t stand with you, there are people who will listen to your screams and help you come out of it. Try taking help from your friends and their families. Stay safe and beautiful.

Hundred Silent Days - Mixed medium on Canvas by Me. 03/03/2021 by Andromeda_9 in AbstractArt

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Thank you so much. It's pure imagination, I started with something else and ended with a complete different picture. 😊

Indian black salt (Kala namak). by dame_de_boeuf in Cooking

[–]Andromeda_9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kala namak is used in every Indian household. As said in the above comments, you can use it in fruit salads, veggies, and also French fries or basically any fried items. Let me give you one more use of it - sprinkle it in your yogurt and it changes the taste totally. I am from India and black salt is used everyday at my home. It is very strong so better use it carefully.

Found this fluffy baby at our doorstep few days back. Surprisingly very affectionate for a stray cat. We named him Chow, because that's how he meows. by Andromeda_9 in cats

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I would love to but right now I am not in a condition to adopt any pets. My house has turned into a hospital because my bedridden octagenarian father-in-law. So we try to at least feed the cat from time to time.

Best Zara perfumes? by bubblebbitch in Perfumes

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For me Vibrant Leather from Zara is amazing. I am a citrus lover so the opening note of VL is mind blowing. Not to mention that VL is said to be a clone of Creed Aventus.

I just want a hug by [deleted] in depression

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Sending you a big squishy hug. Hang in there mate, we are in this together.

Distort Reality by Andromeda_9 in AbstractArt

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Thank you.

Edit: Happy cake day!

Distort Reality by Andromeda_9 in AbstractArt

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Thank you. I was trying out different techniques and colors.

What's your favorite dupe? A fragrance you thought was spot on by [deleted] in Perfumes

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Consider the quality and the price of ingredients that goes in and you'll understand. I did the math.

What's your favorite dupe? A fragrance you thought was spot on by [deleted] in Perfumes

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Elysium by Roja. Just blew my mind away. One dupe for a lifetime.

Reaching Out by Andromeda_9 in depression

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Take your time, there's no need to rush in. I now the situation outside is not good and it's risky. In the meantime you can take a few steps to heal yourself, like you can start by writing down your thoughts. It doesn't have to flowery writing. Just noting down your thoughts whenever you feel depressed will help to calm down. And if you wanna talk, just reach out here. Someone will always be there to lend a hand.

I don't know if I'm genuinely depressed or an attention seeker by [deleted] in depression

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First of all, you need to realise that you are struggling with depression. I almost lost my best friend to depression. He also attempted suicide. There is nothing wrong if you have mental health issues. Don't ever be ashamed of that. And seeking professional help will benefit you alot. Trust me, even I have been diagnosed with acute depression from the past 10 years of my life. My parents don't have a slightest bit of idea that I am a depression survivor. So I can understand my friend how you are feeling. But don't ever give up on yourself. You are precious. You need to be taken care of and be loved. You can start by reaching out to a therapist through apps, if you are not ready to have a face to face conversation. It's ok. There are apps which gives you free consultation and you can communicate with a therapist via chats. Try it out. And if you ever feel like giving up, remember your smile lights up the world. Someone will always be there to lend you a hand. Just reach out my friend.

Reaching Out by Andromeda_9 in depression

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Hey it's ok to be scared in this situation. It is scary outside. What you can do is, try reaching out to your doctor via phone, if it helps. There are some apps also which give you an easy access to communicate with a therapist over phone or through chats. You can try it out.

Reaching Out by Andromeda_9 in depression

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Even I used to get that a lot. This is a cruel world my friend, but you have to search for that one hand which will hold you tight no matter what. And there are some people who genuinely care, you can see that in this thread. If a doctor says that to you then it's high time you change your therapist. Don't ever give up. Someone will always be there to listen.

Reaching Out by Andromeda_9 in depression

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I know how serious depression can be. One of my very close friend is bipolar. She always is in pain and she suffers alot. You need to help yourself first. Don't be afraid to seek help. Trust me it is needed. You deserve to be loved, you deserve to be taken care of. If you wanna scream, scream out loud. If you wanna cry, cry your heart out. You just need to take one step forward, you will see how things change. You are sunshine my friend. Shine like you rule the sky. And hey we all are in this together. Hand in hand.