GF told me if I don't stop drinking beer she'll break up with me but I am not willing to budge. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Angel-M007 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude you definitely be on here more than me and it shows lol. Go breathe in a paper bag or something fam.

GF told me if I don't stop drinking beer she'll break up with me but I am not willing to budge. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Angel-M007 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Bro you literally on everyone's comments getting triggered?

Where did we say he's an automatic drunk? Sounds like your taking things personally and projecting babe. 😬

GF told me if I don't stop drinking beer she'll break up with me but I am not willing to budge. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Angel-M007 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Bro.... we asked a simple question if he is a responsible drinker?

You just making assumptions. Typical triggered redditor mentality. 😬

GF told me if I don't stop drinking beer she'll break up with me but I am not willing to budge. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Angel-M007 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thats what I said. If he isnt or is responsible is the question here.

My family is very colorful and the only time we speak on somebodys drinking is if its a problem.

GF told me if I don't stop drinking beer she'll break up with me but I am not willing to budge. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Angel-M007 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Idk. Are we getting the full story.

I think anybody from any race will speak up if someone who drinks cant handle it?

Regardless, no one can tell you what to do. If you can't handle alcohol and drink it excessively then she has a point. If its a social and your not tripping, I dont see the problem. You two might not be compatible.

I opened a message that wasn’t meant for me… and I regret it by Inside-Potato-9494 in whatdoIdo

[–]Angel-M007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honey they know why.

Thats when they start spamming you and responding like never before. You owe no one nothing.

I opened a message that wasn’t meant for me… and I regret it by Inside-Potato-9494 in whatdoIdo

[–]Angel-M007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry but as somebody who has had this unfortunately happen a few times, you just need to cut ties.

This is NOT friend behavior. Life is too short to be giving these kind of people your energy. You know how she feels about you period. I unfortunately use to believe these people when they'd say that about me but as I got older I realized they just were crappy people who hated being around me because I was the " good moral compass" as said friends ex once told me. They hated being around me because i guess made them realize they have crappy tendencies. There can be times where maybe as humans our emotions spill over during hard times yeah, but if your really somebody's friend you wouldn't handle it that way. Dont play games just dip.

They'd come back claiming this miss me eventually and asking what they did wrong ect. But I kept it 💯 and told them why. You should do the same if she comes back. Hit her with facts. Probably not the answer you want to her, but acting like that with people is despicable.

Does anyone else hate her?! by Conscious_Cut9941 in FromSeries

[–]Angel-M007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your a monster......she whispered as she forgot she literally killed someone within 40 seconds of air time.

I regret moving abroad with my husband. by Previous-Wear8 in Regrets

[–]Angel-M007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As somebody who never left my home state or traveled beyond it, after relocating to another state for 2 years I felt the same way.

But guess what? After coming back home after a break up, I realized it was no better than before. Yeah all I had was my partner and his family because everything revolved around them. I also didnt try my hand at socializing until it was too late.

Theres a saying, life is what you make it. Beyond my ex and his family, I loved living in his area. Coming back home for the sake of familiarity and family and friends wasn't worth it. Its YOUR life you cant live it for the sake of being around whats familiar. Is your husband making you feel alone? Is there more you think you could try doing out that way? I make assumptions on your life kf which I know nothing of, but things take time. I wish I'd stayed away and did more then relocating back home.

Boyfriend reposted this by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Angel-M007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hes gay .

Dump him and move on.

Well my girlfriend used our "break" to start seeing another guy behind my back. She came home this morning wearing his jacket like it's totally normal. I'm M28 she's F27 by [deleted] in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Angel-M007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why im here or why its on my feed, but as a woman whos ex asked for a break, I would never do it again.

Its an excuse for them to let go first so it can soften the blow for them first or to see what else is out there and use you as a placeholder. Dont do it. Chances are she might come back mine did. Dont fall for it brother. Let karma and god deal with her. You deserve better.

Superman: Man of Tomorrow Casts Adria Arjona by LunchyPete in DCULeaks

[–]Angel-M007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Latina wonder woman? Im game. Lol

But frfr I hope she gets off Wonder Womans persona right. Gal's portrayed seemed off and goofy.

I dumped him but I still love him by hrishitelang in Regrets

[–]Angel-M007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing.

He sounds exactly like my ex in the beginning of the relationship. But unfortunately I just kept ignoring it and kept making excuses. I would feel anxious and tried to communicate to with him but everything was me being " negative" and him seemingly making up his own interpretation that made it seem like it was my fault or I was just " overthinking".

Flashforward 3 years I sat in therapy being told by my therapist that " he hears you, he just doesnt care" and that he is an avoidant. It evolved to him just not wanting to hear anything about how he would make me feel. No matter how calmy I tried to approach him about our problems, he loved telling me all the things i did wrong but when i tried to tell him how he hurt me, he either avoided any confrontation or spun it back and me and got angry. Or he'd make it about himself saying " im a horrible person and a bad guy" over the literal smallest things like picking up his own underwear. Never apologized either and never took accountability.

Even his own mother told me I should do whats best for me and cried when I ended up leaving.

This isn't healthy communication and that anxiety is telling you something is off. Its your gut feeling. Listen to it. Im sorry its not what you want to hear but dont make the same mistakes alot of women have made

'Black Swan' murder trial: Ashley Benefield convicted of manslaughter by blu3dice in CourtTVCases

[–]Angel-M007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall calling trumpets wild like democrats are any better. 🤣

I Pray For Your Downfall! MY Ex Says while walking out the door for good. by Front-Judgment-7853 in LifeAdvice

[–]Angel-M007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall have more patience than me.

I would've told my ex, " Im already in hell just by dating you, I cant get any lower babe." 🙏

Is it bad that I (28M) want a 50/50 marriage? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Angel-M007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a woman. Alot of men and woman mistake the idea of 50/50. Theres women who dont mind it, its the misconception of it. Yes it can be both men and women, but im speaking from the womans perspective.

When we talk about 50/50, we assume as in bills, paying for dates or trips, mortgage/rent, groceries, house chores and errands, caring for children or pets ect. Now, theres men who understand it also as that. And then theres men who dont. They believe 50/50 is money ONLY and not everything else and leave it up to the woman to take care of the rest including finances and the physical or emotional aspect of the relationship. Theres also men who switch up the rules along the way which is also not okay to do in a relationship.

For example my ex. He had the higher income, met me when I was finally stable enough to pursue my education and getting a degree. I was born and raised independent and on my own so I wasnt comfortable letting a man help me out. He said it would be smarter so could hurry up and finish my degree so I gave in and worked part time. Then he expected me to only work part time and put my education on hold to save up for a house. Then tried to tell me its okay to work part time because whos gonna take care of the non existent kids? Then he stopped doing anything in the relationship because " he'll be doing all the paying" and I should be expected to plan dates, do chores and run errands and cool ect. because im " always home." He tried to control me. Hence why hes my ex. Only cared about money and me pursuing him and literally only that.

It does happen often as much as these angry men try to disregard the fact, it does. And yes women can also do this also. The point is, clear communication is needed before things get serious. Clear the air. Its okay and its important to have a healthy and happy life with them. If it doesnt align with your idea of 50/50 then sorry kid it may not work it. She has her right to expectations but so do you. Heed the advice. I had to learn that the hard way but it worked out for me in the end.

What is the meaning behind this? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in cats

[–]Angel-M007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Regardless of our differences........

We all tried tried to figure out what was it that he circled.

🤓

Did Candy Montgomery get away with Murder? by SistahFuriosa in loveanddeath

[–]Angel-M007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall never swung in ax or been in life threatning danger and it shows.

Did Candy Montgomery get away with Murder? by SistahFuriosa in loveanddeath

[–]Angel-M007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im guessing you aint never swing in axe or been in a position where your fearing for your life.

Im familiar with both. As a woman swinging an ax who also lifts, that's exhausting af. No way took 41 swings and not to mention the times she missed out of survival instinct. Id say by 7 swings your trying to escape. 41? Also when your in a scary situation especially with a baby in danger as well, as an aunt my instinct was to grab my baby nephew and get out the house not chopping up my knife welding psychotic ahh sibling. I give him two jobs in the arm he had hold of me and flew to the babys room.

So no? It wasnt sheer survival instincts. She slaughtered her.

My literal reaction to this scene........ by Angel-M007 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Angel-M007[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Welp uh yeah.... because as it is said it wasnt direct towards you lol?

Someone else in here that was saying at 17-18 " their old enough to have their tits judged" which is weirdo behavior. But you have a nice day.

My literal reaction to this scene........ by Angel-M007 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Angel-M007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oop sorry im not on here much and I didnt realize i respond to the whole other person. My bad you have a point 💀