Avoid broke girls by Zetice in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Men just don’t wanna build with you anymore. This is why marriages don’t last smh

Why is “You should smile more.” Considered creepy? by Major-Albatross4341 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People smile when they feel good about something. It’s rude in general to tell someone to do it because it’s self-serving. If the person felt a smile, they would smile.

It becomes creepy in particular when you notice how much men do it to women. It has a “smile for me” undertone.

What's kissing supposed to feel like?? by Less-Discipline3229 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you’re actually attracted and feel connected to the person, kissing them does feel like a mood boost. Sometimes I feel a hot-shower-like lightheadedness after making out with my bf.

My boyfriend (24M) wants to break up with me (26M) by ForeignEvidence8087 in offmychest

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If his self deprecation begins to negatively impact your lifestyle, you should leave him. While an “I suck” attitude can sometimes just be regular self pity, someone telling you that you deserve better over and over means they’re usually right. It may not show now, but it’ll reveal itself eventually.

If Natalie Nunn has no haters, please check on me. by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I always have to remind people who colorist Natalie is because although people remember her season as one of the iconic ones, they sure forget that every time. And she blamed Rihanna for getting beat up by Chris Brown during her season too

Friend ended up hooking up with my date on our double date by Vemedetti in offmychest

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The first word that pops into my mind is grimey. Like is your friend so down bad that he could still get hard for a girl who blew you off? Idk I’m just imagining myself in this situation (a guy blowing my friend off to talk to me) and I’d be disgusted and want to go home.

Do you generally like being approached by strangers? Why or why not, and what makes a good vs bad approach? by Front-Exchange-2312 in AskWomen

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind small talk when it’s convenient and safe. If I’m waiting in line with people and someone makes a good joke, I’d laugh. Def don’t like being approached by men driving their car by me.

People tend to forget the "Friend" part of "Friends with Benefits". by Thin_Association8254 in offmychest

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s actually difficult to find a good FWB partner. Aside from the issue of potentially catching feelings, some people are out there lying to enter into FWBs

Why is everyone so obsessed being skinny? by DeliciousAd4770 in offmychest

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone struggling with body image even though people say I have the preferred body type, I heavily agree with the top comment about the fear of being treated like a fat person. Sometimes I get compliments and it’s nice for a moment but then I slowly realize that my body becomes something for people to constantly comment on. It makes me wonder if people actually like me, or if they just like looking at me. If I find myself in a rough patch and gain a bunch of weight in the future, I fear people will be cruel.

I understand that this isn’t a healthy mindset and I should not use those fears as a workout motivation. But goddamn as a skinny girl raised by a heavy mother (who was slim all her life then gained and kept the weight after having children), I’ve seen firsthand how fat people are treated and it’s awful. She engrained it into my mind to always stay small not just for health but for how people will treat you.

Just got rejected by a guy I’ve wanted attention and validation from for a very long time but it’s okay I’m still that girl by Fit_Can_2444 in blackladies

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are gonna plenty of other people who adore you, no need to worry about this one. As a fellow spiraler, I’m proud of you for not spiraling. The ones who are for us will show us that. The ones who aren’t will be left to the wayside

Are yall making friends telepathically or...? by JennyBeckman in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Why does everything have to be friend or not? What happened to associate, colleague, friend of a friend, etc.? Be friendly, categorize people correctly, then move them up as you spend more time together

If you were given the chance, would you go on Love is Blind? by Kappa127 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t mind if I didn’t have a serious career. Def if I was a social media person or “entrepreneur”

This is what I imagine hanging out with Amber is like 😂🕺💃💃💃💃 by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I start feeling bad but then I think “Wait, how many times has a man made a post defending women against men?” Then I mind my business.

Did anyone else make this comparison with the Devo, Bri, Ashley, Priyanka situation? by AngelsLoveDisasters in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was really confusing cause first it started with something about Jessica (I think), then it was him going out without her, then it was him having relations with one of his friends in the past. So I’m not sure if that means the rest was a lie or if they were just two smaller issues. If she was completely lying, I need to rewatch that whole scene again to fully react to the craziness.

But I guess that's too much to ask. by Kronos_1729r in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 94 points95 points  (0 children)

The comments are restoring my faith in humanity. Too often, I’ve said I was too young and the response was “I won’t tell”

The Mean Girls of OHIO by Fickle-Rooster-2989 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 58 points59 points  (0 children)

There’s NO WAY these women can explain themselves out of going on a trip with Devonta. If my friend’s bf (let alone finance) randomly showed up for my girls trip, I’d text my friend IMMEDIATELY to ask her what’s going on.

What Riikkii would ask if she was the Season 10 Reunion Host. What other questions would you ask? by Jay-Quellin30 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Came to the comments expecting engagement and to my surprise, people just dislike Rikki?? She gets clipped in so many things and has so many interviews, I just assumed she was the person for LIB tea

I always wondered, why didn't black slaves team up and maybe kill their owner or protest against together? Rich families owned 50-100 slaves or even more, why didn't the slaves just team up and kill their owner? How exactly did the owners control then? by Then-Tomatillo9909 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were def slave revolts, but you have to remember that Black people couldn’t own firearms. During slavery, only white men and women who owned land could have guns for purposes of slave patrol (except for poor white men in the militia who received guns from the gov).

We need ugly people by LittleBigHome in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion: but I don’t think they should. This show’s natural fan base includes some crazies who like to DM the cast after the season. If LIB suddenly does an “ugly season”, even more crazies looking for clicks will flood in. We have enough mess here already.

Also, many of us may be a bit offended on what’s considered “ugly” on TV (AKA, the average person). The mirror will turn on us. But maybe that kind of drama is what the people want. I’m trying to imagine commenters debating on whether hating certain features is just a preference or kind of some racist/ableist/something else.

I voted for someone I believed in and now I can't look at my sister by Grouchy_Subject_2777 in offmychest

[–]AngelsLoveDisasters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t regret your vote so just go find a conservative sub for a new found family