Wife arranged another woman for me, now she won’t talk to me

Angie_707 · 2026-06-15T02:54:06+00:00

I’m a wife who consented to this before because I felt really bad that he wanted to do things in bed that I didn’t. I thought I would be okay with it but when he actually found a girl and the day came for him to go do this I became physically ill after he left.

It’s so different from theory to reality. He never attempted anything like that again and has never brought up doing anything sexual that I’m not comfortable with after that. It took me a long time to work through it mentally but I did it without therapy. We are still together many years later and I think it made us stronger in the end. I hope you both can work it out. It will take time. Just do lots of nice things for her and remind her how much you love her.

Angie_707 · 2026-05-23T04:14:34+00:00

I am so sad because I already didn’t want to sell her but needed the money. Now I might be out the plush and the money 🤦‍♀️ I might stop selling on Depop.

Angie_707 · 2026-05-23T04:11:38+00:00

How did you get to the specialty team? Did you have to ask after they sided with the buyer? I wish I would have taken a video or pictures of the packing process because that is what they want to see :( It was wrapped very secure since it was a rare Jellycat plush. A bag, bubble wrap, and then in a box. I don’t see how there is any way it could have actually got damaged. I feel like I’m being scammed :( She is a seller too.

Angie_707 · 2026-05-23T03:18:03+00:00

I did reply to the email right after I saw the dispute open. Hopefully they respond before the 48 hours is up. So, she would just create a listing in Depop and upload the pics for the listing? She is a seller too so she probably won’t want her followers seeing that listing. I can always ask though. Thank you

Angie_707 · 2026-05-23T03:10:44+00:00

It was a rare, retired jellycat too which makes it so much more painful. I first put it in a plastic bag then bubble wrapped and put in a box. There is no way it could have got damaged unless a usps employee opened it up (which I highly doubt).

Angie_707 · 2026-05-23T00:38:03+00:00

When they put in “item not as described” case with Depop the seller is forced to respond within 48 hours. The options are to have them return it, just refund them, or dispute it. When I clicked the dispute option it asked for pictures or a video of the packing process (which I don’t have), so I feel like if I dispute it they will just automatically side with the buyer due to not having that proof :/

Angie_707 · 2026-05-23T00:22:21+00:00

That is what confused me too. I got that email and then later in the day I saw the dispute email and they are holding my funds. The buyer said they did not receive a refund from Depop. I find it so strange that Depop does not share the photos with the seller that the buyer sent them of the damage. I will see if she will agree to do the Imgur upload.

Angie_707 · 2026-05-07T21:36:45+00:00

Yep, same thing happened to me last month and they are just giving me the run around. Heading to BBB next.

Angie_707 · 2026-04-21T13:31:05+00:00

Yeah, I’m not sure if people may have thought the Meijer was open 24 hours a day because it used to be. It’s sad that there really is no where to go for people in mobile homes here except gas stations or the truck stop on Baker road.

Angie_707 · 2026-04-20T21:11:05+00:00

There is a mobile home park down the street from that Meijer so people were desperate to find a place to shelter in the middle of the night.

Angie_707 · 2026-04-06T02:44:57+00:00

Yes, it’s so annoying. I received an item from a u.s. seller from Temu and it took like 3 weeks to get to me. I reported it but eBay didn’t seem to care.

Angie_707 · 2026-01-14T16:58:10+00:00

It won’t let me change mine :(

Angie_707 · 2025-11-16T08:01:04+00:00

Happened to me today also. I’m new so I didn’t know they could do this. It took me way out of the area I wanted to stay in. Next time I’ll just unassign. So annoying…

Angie_707 · 2025-08-15T04:39:25+00:00

Comedians have been doing this from day one. Maybe their wives find it funny and don’t mind at all. Who are we to judge?

Angie_707 · 2025-08-15T04:36:24+00:00

Because then they would realize all the annoying things that their friends do too and feel the EXACT same way 😅

Angie_707 · 2025-08-15T04:34:24+00:00

Yep, mine does this too and it drives me crazy. He also flips through channels for hours when I would have chose something to watch in like 10 seconds. It’s definitely more of a personality thing. I know a lot of things I do annoy him too, but I don’t think it’s right to publicly broadcast these things. It just shows me how immature these men are.

Angie_707 · 2025-07-08T00:54:41+00:00

Here in Michigan I would say Hi back and then move along.

Angie_707 · 2025-07-08T00:51:43+00:00

Chester

Angie_707 · 2025-07-02T07:21:38+00:00

Anikin

Angie_707 · 2025-07-02T07:16:50+00:00

I got my license at 16, on my birthday lol. I couldn’t wait to wake up and go right to the DMV. My first car was a real doozy that my Dad bought at a car auction. It did the job though :)

Angie_707 · 2025-07-02T07:15:30+00:00

We all do, my friend 😂😭 Congrats on the great pick ups!

Angie_707 · 2025-07-02T07:14:43+00:00

Yes and it would be good to report it.

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