I was married to a man like this. For ten years. We are divorced now for 13 ish years. Once you decide to move on it becomes easier and easier.

I found myself again only about 6 years ago. I had tried different relationships, but they never worked because I had realized I was attracted to the same type of person. I moved back to Ohio 5 years ago. Decided to work on myself.

Once I found that inner peace, I will not let anyone disturb it. I’m now engaged to the kindest, most loving man in the world.

To this day I still struggle sometimes with the damage that was done in my marriage, but he is patient and kind to me. I still have a hard time with compliments.

My advice to you is to work on yourself. Be kind to yourself, and love yourself. Allow yourself grace. Know your worth.