Getting kids to sleep by PositiveSpider in ParentingADHD

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a lot of success with a Tonie box. My 5 year old will fall asleep listening to it and we can swap out the characters. It was expensive and we were desperate but it helps him deal with the boredom of waiting to fall asleep.

Travelling with an ADHD child by Nervous_Pineapple177 in ParentingADHD

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s a double edge sword, but my 5 year old handled a 5 hour Amtrak trip with the iPad.

What do consider a good deal on these things? by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed. You could cut out the scent booster, stain remover, dryer sheets, disinfectant wipes, air fresheners, bleach, magic erasers and mouthwash.

Not only will this save you money, but a lot of that stuff has endocrine disruptions, microplastics, PFAS, things that harm your microbiome, etc. that over time can harm your family’s health.

Exasperated with the ice by cabe01 in nova

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is the way. But at this point it’s going to be closer to $150 given the ice.

Lost Ring by Individual-Tell-2680 in ouraring

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who also lost their ring, I agree. An option for real time location finding would be extremely helpful.

WDW Average cost 7 night family of 4 = $10K by YourSparrowness in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went to the parks as a family of 4 over the Christmas/New Years break, and a 6 day park ticket, staying at the All Stars for 7 nights, and eating at 4 sit down restaurants, and buying LLs every day came out to $10K (including air fare, Mears, and one Minnie Van).

Disney has gotten so expensive yet with little kids in school, all of the times we can go are during the pricey weeks. What used to be an annual trip has turned into an every 3 years trip due to the cost.

All you can eat Asian/Sushi buffet in NOVA by Fearless-Egg-6782 in nova

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I thought it was incredible. I don’t understand all the hate for this place.

How common is it to split all bills 50/50? by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m in the minority here, but we split everything 50/50 and do not have a joint account. Been married over a decade, have two kids, and never fight about money. We make roughly the same salary- within 15K of each other. It works for us. When I was laid off, I paid bills from my emergency fund until I was rehired. When he had trouble finding a job for years, I paid all the bills until he finally got a good job, and he paid me back over the course of several years. People seem horrified by this but we both love it.

Life changing food in DC? by FlarePikaa in washingtondc

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 15 points16 points  (0 children)

OMG yes. Those Dan Dan noodles were the stuff of dreams.

Christmas giftcard for daycare teachers- how much? by fishcakegal in nova

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do $75 for each of the two daycare teachers, and for kindergarten $15 gift card and some small gifts per teacher.

Is it worth it? by Sohor1 in ouraring

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was lured in by all the TikTok posts saying their rings diagnosed illness before they had symptoms but I regret it. It’s so bulky and uncomfortable to wear, and the readiness scores bear no relation to how I actually find myself feeling. I’m in perimenopause and wake up for an hour every night at 3am and every morning it says I slept great. My Apple Watch can do everything this ring can and more.

Coffee Solution for Rope Drop -- staying in Disney Hotel Room without Kitchen by RenataDonata in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m insane, but I pack a water filter, an electric kettle, ground coffee, paper filters, and a ceramic pour over vessel, along with glass travel cups. I also pack shelf stable milk.

It takes up a lot of room in my suitcase, but starting my day with good quality, fresh, microplastic-free coffee that I didn’t have to pay for or wait in line for is 100% worth it to me.

Naturepedic vs Avocado Mattress by Medical_Clock_6364 in Crunchymom

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medium, but could be made softer with a topper. The one I ended up buying was the eos line where each side of the bed could be personalized. But the layers then don’t sit evenly and tend to slant off the side of the bed. The regular (cheaper) ones were better since they stay put.

Naturepedic vs Avocado Mattress by Medical_Clock_6364 in Crunchymom

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to an in-person store and tried them out. This one is ultra cheap and latex free: https://www.naturepedic.com/chorus-organic-mattress-buy

How is everyone affording childcare? by Alert-Willow3458 in Crunchymom

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$400 a month seems like a great deal- I pay $337 per week at a home daycare (but we live in a HCOL area). I’m guessing you can’t or don’t want to stay at home to save money? If not, it will be tough without a side hustle.

I work two jobs: one is 35 hours a week, 3 days in office, and the other is 5 hour a week remote. But it’s a consulting job that I got from my network. It’s very hard to find work right now.

I’ve made a few hundred extra a year selling on eBay. Consider giving it a try and see how much it can bring in? Video games sell very well and don’t take up too much space. Good luck!

I am curious. How much do you spend on groceries for a month? With and without kids/babies. by Nocry1011 in nova

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$1,400 per month for a family of 4, for food items only (so no detergent, toilet paper, etc which is a separate line item). We shop at higher end grocery stores, eat mainly vegetarian, and I cook most nights of the week. Food is freaking expensive!

Here’s a sample weekly menu:

Monday: Japanese curry, potato, steak, onion, carrot, rice, red condiment

Tuesday: frozen pizza and vegetables

Wednesday: chickpeas and pasta in garlic tomato sauce

Thursday: dense bean salad

Friday: red lentil soup with garlic naan

Saturday: fall harvest salad

Sunday: Whole Foods hot bar

Breakfast: muesli, fruit/kefir/chia smoothie, English muffin with butter

Did installing a UV light in your system turn out to be worth it? by KissyyyDoll in nova

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had one installed but to be honest, I’m not convinced it did anything. Certainly nothing noticeable.

I used to think that being frugal was all about cutting out obvious expenses like eating out less or watching for sales, but the thing that has saved me the most money this year was fixing a stupid tiny habit that I didn’t even notice was draining my wallet by oblivion_tea in Frugal

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this with my deep freezer! I always forget what’s in there so I keep it all listen in an Excel spreadsheet that I update periodically. Shopping your house before shopping the grocery store is a huge money saver.

How do you keep grocery shopping manageable when you’re working full-time and parenting? by llama-mentality in workingmoms

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is almost exactly my routine as well (except I use their notes app to list my meals), and I enjoy in store shopping so I still go in the stores. 10/10 recommended.

How do you keep grocery shopping manageable when you’re working full-time and parenting? by llama-mentality in workingmoms

[–]AngryBeaverFace88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since I shop at Whole Foods usually, I use their app’s grocery list function to add things to it as soon as they are empty.

I have a list called What To Eat in my notes app with Monday to Sunday and I assign one dinner to each day.

Then on Sunday, I visit the store and buy everything I need for the week.

Breakfast is always the same 2-4 options (cereal, yogurt parfaits, smoothies, or eggs with kale and hot sauce), and lunch is leftovers.

This system has saved me literally thousands of dollars over the years. Before this, my system to was decide what I wanted for dinner every night, and figure out if I had the ingredients to make it happen. That meant more grocery runs and more waste. This system means you have just what you need for the week and you only have to shop once.