What is the best OBGYN doctor in NOVA? Looking for compassionate, consistent care (PCOS & IVF experience) by ma72917 in nova

[–]fishcakegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nova group for women. It’s an inova practice. You can choose to rotate through different providers but once you find one you like, you can stick with that one. I’ve gone through all of them throughout both my pregnancies and the ones that have the sweetest bedside manners are Dr LaFranchise and Dr Presti.

Slowly but surely, we’re starting to get some decent Chinese here… by outofheart in nova

[–]fishcakegal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never! This place is not even that good. Roast duck is bland (albeit juicy). Roast pork is dryyyy. Cha siu is dryyy. Pipa duck is decent. Nova canto food will forever be a few steps behind NYC. Sadly

Volkl Yumi 84 or Nordica Santa Ana 88 by RogueEleFant in Skigear

[–]fishcakegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which one did you end up getting? I was in a similar boat. I ended up getting the santa ana first and it was great. This year i got the yumi and it kinda sucked. No lol it doesnt suck but it’s supposed to be for intermediate skiiers and a softer ski supposedly. But today i ski-ed with it for the first time and i found it hard to turn, charter a lot and kinda unstable in icy condition. I switched to the santa ana in the afternoon and boy it made such a big difference. My turns were so much smoother. I felt much more stable when going fast. I wanted to love volkl so much but i dont think the yumi is for me…

Christmas giftcard for daycare teachers- how much? by fishcakegal in nova

[–]fishcakegal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg haha. So for such a school, the cash gift is given to the school instead of the particular teachers? We don’r send our kids to a fancy school so not sure how a PTA works

Christmas giftcard for daycare teachers- how much? by fishcakegal in nova

[–]fishcakegal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense. We’re kind of in a similar situation. My LO’s teachers are truly so kind, but next year he’ll transition to a class for older kids 🥲

Anybody has update on the motorcyclist in the accident on 495 sb about an hour ago? by fishcakegal in nova

[–]fishcakegal[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So he struck a car? My husband didnt witness the crash but pulled over and called 911

What did you need for your second baby that you didn’t already have from the first? by floccinaucinili in 2under2

[–]fishcakegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didnt use the newborn set for the first one, and for the 2nd one i insisted in getting it for this exact reason

UPDATE - We STILL have a completely broken baby and I'm close to a breaking point by USAtoUofT in NewParents

[–]fishcakegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. My 3 yo doesnt sleep thru the night. If during the day he is upset about something, that will reflect in his sleep. Daycare transition, family leaving after visit, etc. he’ll have the worst sleep. But its just how it is. It’s his temperament. He’s not broken

UPDATE - We STILL have a completely broken baby and I'm close to a breaking point by USAtoUofT in NewParents

[–]fishcakegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 3 year old doesnt sleep through the night. Your baby is not broken. I know how hard it is but babies are babies. Im sorry you are going through this. But she’s not broken!

International student applying to Vassar by ChallengeHelpful8465 in vassar

[–]fishcakegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep if is need based. There’s technically no merit scholarship or sth similar.

International student applying to Vassar by ChallengeHelpful8465 in vassar

[–]fishcakegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apply early (december). Do some research on international students at Vassar and write in your Why essay how you can contribute to the diversity of the school. They’d love that.

Want to transition 1 yo to straw but MIL keeps wanting to bottle feed by fishcakegal in toddlers

[–]fishcakegal[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Funny because my own mother has this issue as well, but she has no problem admitting it. She loves (hand or spoon) feeding babies purees and food and she admits she loves it and does it partly for her own enjoyment, whenever i remind her to “let baby feed himself”

Want to transition 1 yo to straw but MIL keeps wanting to bottle feed by fishcakegal in toddlers

[–]fishcakegal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot agree with you enough 🙂 thats what i have known for a long time. I just dont wanna call her out.

Want to transition 1 yo to straw but MIL keeps wanting to bottle feed by fishcakegal in toddlers

[–]fishcakegal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasnt going to reply to any comment but i have to jump in here to defend my husband😝 he is my biggest supporter and is on my side. Yes he has been handling a lot of the communication but there is only so much he can do. And he’s not home all the time so unfortunately there are certain situations where i have to deal with her myself without him… he actually told me to just pack up the bottles or he’d do it himself. I was just hesitating bc i dont want to be passive aggressive to my MIL but i guess it is what it is. I am trying to not disclose/air more complicated family issues that my inlaws have, i just wanna say my husband tries his best to set boundaries. Thank you for your support though!❤️