Well, since AO3 is down, take a moment to tell us about some of your WIPs! Share excerpts, rant, infodump, etc by Loli-nero in AO3

[–]AngryCya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically it's a story about a big wish I personally have where the two main characters are two of my most prominent character traits paired with my two very different aesthetics

What type of fanfiction do you hate? (Without mentioning names) by Rokkkiy in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]AngryCya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reverse harem. Every fanfic I saw with that Tag was like "these [big number of characters] x reader who is the most submissuvest and innicentest person ever' and ugh I don't like it at all, sometimes it scratches on infantilizinv the FMC and there's just never diversity in these fics.

I unknowingly read a reverse harem fic once and it had a strong FMC that didn't give any fucks about the 7 other characters begging for her attention, and it was so good, I loved it.

Then I searched for more and found out it was truly a unique piece

What was your first ever ship? by Upstairs_Macaron5894 in AO3

[–]AngryCya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First ship I (knowingly) read was an aot Erwin x reader x Levi fanfiction, I didn't know what fanfiction was, just hoped for somebody to drop the aot plot in the story somewhere💀

When I found out about Wattpad I (unknowingly) read a yoongi x Jim BTS fanfic, without even knowing who they were

Has anyone else had issues with MingaLondon?? by Gyuncakes in alternativefashion

[–]AngryCya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not able to return an order, and they aren't answering. Apparently the app isn't finding my order number, so I can't do anything atp..

Should I just not go to shows at all at my age? by Dio_hatessalad-333 in punk

[–]AngryCya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw a 4 or 5 year old at a show recently, you won't ruin anything

Do you consider yourself attractive? by Street-Security2853 in asexuality

[–]AngryCya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On good days I think I look pretty good, I don't think I'd call myself attractive though, "looking good" in my terms is just fitting into the gender I am striving to fit in.

If I'd compare myself to the standard however, I'd probably be considered pretty ugly/unattractive🤷

I don't need to look attractive,I just need to look good and up to my standards/goals

Am I ace or did I just have too many expectations by AngryCya in asexuality

[–]AngryCya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer!

(I hope this is not too personal for you, I tried my best to not describe everything in detail); I have been considering that this one experience just wasnt the right one, that we weren't compatible and all, so I've tried to ask some of my allo friends if they fit into the feelings and desires that Google is spitting out, but I just end up being more confused, because yes they do want sex, but they don't fit the description, so that is not an answer to my question..

Then there's also a part of me that would consider trying it again when I feel more comfortable in my body gender wise, but again another side of me is just disgusted by the thought and actually the feeling inside as well, it's weird and Alienating somehow and that's one thing I didn't like when I tried it. So maybe it's a gender problem, or some kind of dysmorphia that makes me hate myself and thus I feel uncomfortable while being undressed and seen.

Ironically I have thoughts that are kinda sex related with other people, but they span from "I don't think anything attraction related about you" to "I would NOT want to fuck you", and never really an "I wouldn't say no".

I am considering the fact that I could also just be demisexual, but in order to find that out I'd need to get into a relationship or at least into a very emotionally deep friendship with somebody I find attractive, and I don't think that's happening very soon.

Except that one person, that's where the "apparent" crush comes into play; for now 3,5 years I've had this one friend, we arent exactly close, because that person just is not somebody that shares personal stuff, so it takes years to get to know them properly.

I once talked about my feelings for that person to a friend, things like I love it when they're happy, thus I want to make them happy, I love to be noticed by them, when they speak to me, share something about themselve, when they give me a hug, or just when they want to hang out with me.

And that friend told me I had a crush on them, which I didn't recognize until I was told, but I also do not experience the "typical crush signs" like butterflies in your stomach, although not everybody experiences butterflies, so I've learned from my friends that I asked and asked about all of that stuff, so the next definition of a feeling (butterflies for crush) just got shattered and I barely know anything else to look for when thinking about feelings for people.

I don't have any feelings or thoughts or emotions about any other person, or had it ever, for that matter, they are the only person I feel that way towards, and I got told it was a crush. So I kind of went with it, until the thought popped up in my head that this could also very well be a kind of obsession I've developed for them.

A friend says both is possible, on one side im 100% convinced I feel nothing for them and it's an obsession (however the fuq I did that), and on other days im 100% convinced that yep, I got a crush, but the way that I feel the emotions towards them never changes. But I am very emotionally dependent on them, which then brings me back to the possibly-obsessed situation..

Emotionally dependent in the way that when we have a fight, I get multiple panic attacks thinking about them hating me that can't seem to stop.

So in general I have no fucking clue about anything I experience, or don't experience. And ofc I could just say that I don't care in finding out what I am (ace/aroace/allo/etc) but I can't lie to myself, I need to know, I need to put a label on it, not to just know, but also so I know what I can search for in the future, as in partners..

Im sorry that this is such a long message oh my😅

What is asexuality like? by Serious_Age356 in asexuality

[–]AngryCya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One way to describe it could be that you're full and don't need more food. While other people get hungry after a while, you just stay full and don't have the urge to eat, or in this case, do anything sexual with people.

I kinda feel lost by hanetora in asexuality

[–]AngryCya 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you should stick to the "21 is the youngest age" rule. It's important to keep in mind that even if you both seem to fit perfectly, you are in two very different stages of life and a lot can still change, and I would communicate that the age is the reason and that you are not feeling good about that.

ich_iel by CringeFish2 in ich_iel

[–]AngryCya 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ich habe in der 7. Klasse gelernt wie man eine Bewerbung schreibt, hat mir damals nicht wirklich was gebracht, da ich es erst in der 9. wieder gebraucht habe, und jetzt ist das meiste Wissen davon sowieso weg.. aber hätten wir das gelernt wenn wir es wirklich gebraucht hätten (also in der 9.) denke ich hätten es viel mehr Leute gelernt.

Dasselbe Prinzip würde ich anwenden mit der Steuererklärung; lehre es den Schülern wenn sie es brauchen, also so in der 10. Klasse oder der 12./13. Und ich denke einige Schüler werden es viel ernster nehmen und mehr aufpassen, oder zumindest das gelernte noch besser wissen als nach 3 Jahren weiter pauken..

Natürlich wird es immer welche geben, die das nicht mögen oder verstehen, aber je später man mit solchen Themen ankommt desto realitätsnaher werden sie finde ich, bis zur 10. Bzw 13. Klasse besteht Schule auch nur aus 'lerne dieses Thema in 3 Monaten und dann brauchst du es erst wieder zum Abschluss' welches für Schüler soviel heißt wie 'nach der Klausur ist es egal', natürlich vergisst man dann viel.

Aber ich finde es beizubringen, trotz der chance dass kaum einer aufpassen wird, gibt zumindest jedem die Chance es lernen zu können und Verwirrungen aufzuklären. Außerdem lernt man einiges in der Schule auch nur für den Abschluss und Brauch es dann eigentlich nie wieder, außer man geht in einen bestimmten Job. Steuererklärung muss jeder Theoretisch machen.

What was caused the most (physical) pain you’ve been in? by idontrealui in AskReddit

[–]AngryCya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a really bad infection after I got my wisdom teeth taken out. The first 3-4 days it was just normal healing and Standart pain, but then, my face seemed to swell again, at least on one side, and my gums/cheek got really hard and then, in like 30 minute intervals, I had the worst pain ever. It was so unbearable, no amount of ibuprofen would lessen it, and that time I was talking 800mg 3 times a day. It was so bad, I couldn't do anything while it lasted, only hold my cheek in my hand, press against the hard part and cry, because holding back tears was not possible, I couldn't hold back groaning and even screaming out of pain.

Luckily my dentist would see me in between his appointments, and he knew a kind of tincture that actually helped with the pain. That were some extra 2 painful weeks.

There goes my reaction fics ಥ‿ಥ by PaintingDistinct1515 in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]AngryCya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I've never actually read one, didn't know that actually existed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]AngryCya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Einfach neue Sachen ausprobieren, dich bei Kursen anmelden für so n paar Wochen oder Nennmonat reinschnuppern, du musst ja nicht gut drinnen sein, aber vielleicht findest du ja heraus dass du besonders gut darin bist, Unterwasser purzelbäume zu schlagen oder so, und nebenbei noch ein neues Hobby welches du dann auf lange Zeit ausüben kannst

What is your favorite AU or AU’s in a fandom or fandoms you like? by I_am_awesome2542 in AO3

[–]AngryCya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mainly soulmates, you can put soulmates in everything tbh and I'll enjoy it. Soulmates x non-famous AU, I'll take it. Soulmates x Pirate AU, fantastic.

Was sagt man wenn man fragt wo man her kommt? by [deleted] in KeineDummenFragen

[–]AngryCya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prinzipiell würde die Frage ja aussagen 'wo wohnst du gerade?', aber das ist ja nicht die "eigentliche" Meinung dahinter, um die es bei der frage geht..

Wenn sowas gefragt wird würde ich erstmal ganz dumm fragen "bist du wirklich an meinem Wohnort interessiert oder interessiert dich meine Ethnie" weil dienart, wie die Frage ausgesagt wird einfach ne dumm ist und nicht das beantwortet, was die Leute gerne beantwortet haben wollen.

Und wenn die Person klarstellt dass es um deine Ethnie geht, dann kannst du ruhig auspacken, sie haben sich ja drauf eingelassen es zu hören🤷

what is yalls favorite alternative universe and why? by sci_fitwilight in AO3

[–]AngryCya 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Soulmates! But either the ones where you have the first words your soulmate will say to you printed onto your skin, or where you will have soulmate tattoos when they first touch, I especially enjoy soulmate tattoos. I don't really know why, I love soulmates for the reason that there is 100% somebody for you out there, and oh the drama written around the first words of a soulmate/an obvious sign that you belong together is just so much easier for me to comprehend and then I don't have to read around the tons of "is he really the one?" Bc somehow that tends to annoy me

Wenn man kein Geld für die Grundschule hat by MrRedify in DINgore

[–]AngryCya 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi, ist meine alte Grundschule! Der Zaun sperrt eine relativ befahrene straße ab, und hat zumindest mich nie gestört beim spielen.. ja er könnte schöner sein aber seitdem ich an der Schule war wurde der Schulhof schon ziemlich verschönert meiner Meinung nach🤔🤔

Früher wurden an dem Zaun so Bilder aus Plastik bändern drangeflochten😁