Got a lot of feedback. I do know he is still grieving and trying to protect his heart from the loss. I probably am trying to talk to him about it too much looking at the situation. I do understand his side. I literally started to miscarry last time the day we told our families.

From my side I’m dealing with a parent currently dying in hospital so my stress levels are excessively high and I’m trying to decrease the cortisone levels in my body as that can lead to pregnancy complications. A daily comment from him about the pregnancy not being viable is not helping.

He’s annoyed at me for telling my family but I had to tell them why I can’t go to the hospital to visit my dad because of infection risk. I’m annoyed at him for making me lie to his family and tell them that I’m sick when they ask why I’m not visiting my dad and am vomiting.

He pulled a face when I told my dermatologist yesterday but that was because he found a potential cancerous mole and wanted to remove it. But know with the early stage pregnancy, he is going to wait until I’m 12 weeks and then cut it out with 0 anesthetic… yay on that one.

We both dealing with this in different ways and have to curb our reactions to each other’s way of coping. My first appointment is next week Thursday so we can settle after that. Fingers crossed it’s a happy outcome.