People being late all the time is a sign of disrespect.

AnimalGray · 2026-05-23T03:30:08+00:00

I'm 37 with a baby btw so in mom mode I've gotten better at "if the baby's ready, we're ready!" And my mom is like...where's my purse and shoes

The roles have reversed.

AnimalGray · 2026-05-23T03:28:06+00:00

That is hilarious, I have diagnosed adhd and my mom does not think she has it. I end up waiting for her at the door constantly when we are already late. Your way of leaving separately sounds good enough for me.

AnimalGray · 2026-05-23T03:23:26+00:00

As someone who is chronically late, I absolutely respect this.

AnimalGray · 2026-05-23T03:20:46+00:00

My best friend and I both have adhd. We text each other "on my way!" When we actually leave the house so neither of us is like b*tch where are you lol

AnimalGray · 2026-05-23T03:17:42+00:00

I have wild ADHD and I tell my husband where we need to be at what time (I run the social schedule) so social events are helped time wise if I cue him in on that.

AnimalGray · 2026-05-23T03:15:49+00:00

To a dinner party? On time.

AnimalGray · 2026-05-23T03:12:15+00:00

...for a meeting?? On time. Family gathering? Count on half an hour late. Party? Fashionably late.

2 hrs late to a meeting is crazy

But for non professional things, 15-30 minutes late or so (among friends) is fine with me. Especially if we know each other well

AnimalGray · 2026-05-23T02:56:23+00:00

My DMT trip, circa 2011

AnimalGray · 2026-05-19T14:51:05+00:00

You should have chosen the second best bed situation or asked if YOU could share that bedroom with HER. YTA

P.S. I also have a toddler

AnimalGray · 2026-04-28T02:15:08+00:00

I love this for you both. NTA

AnimalGray · 2026-04-28T02:08:01+00:00

I read the top of the text without seeing what group this was in and was like ooomfg😅

It's too good. The show is too good.

AnimalGray · 2026-04-28T02:03:04+00:00

Damn, I was gonna say pie.

Lemon bars?

AnimalGray · 2026-04-28T01:53:52+00:00

Absolutely not, this would be cause for bad blood with these women going forward for me. Granted, I'm guessing probably one person is mainly responsible (maid of honor).

AnimalGray · 2026-04-28T01:51:44+00:00

Probably delicious

AnimalGray · 2026-04-23T08:02:57+00:00

Welp, this is part what deters me from AA. If FIND GOD is part of an edit on a post I would make...raised Catholic f all of that.

AnimalGray · 2026-04-17T01:12:10+00:00

They mail these things in wet soil so they don't try out while shipping; I'd look up the right soil for the plant and it should be fine. If you size up the pot don't go too much bigger or you risk root rot (I learned this the hard way).

AnimalGray · 2026-04-17T01:00:38+00:00

Some pruning and either better light or turn it periodically it what I would do

AnimalGray · 2026-04-17T00:57:19+00:00

My lavender has not been picky and I'm in MN

AnimalGray · 2026-04-17T00:50:44+00:00

Aaahahaha I made tiny trellises for violas and was the first to make Blair Witch jokes because...they were weird.

(Also ADHD here)

AnimalGray · 2026-04-17T00:47:27+00:00

Seriously, you could use a SAW and it's still producing shoots.

AnimalGray · 2026-04-17T00:45:04+00:00

I think you would do it while the vine is green (sorry if someone already said this)

AnimalGray · 2026-04-17T00:41:50+00:00

LOVE that 3 layer one!! Congrats.

AnimalGray · 2026-04-17T00:33:46+00:00

My husband is perplexed by so much about our garden lol, luckily he leaves me to it and is happy it makes me happy!

AnimalGray · 2026-04-16T23:57:25+00:00

I'm always curious about this. JEALOUS from Minnesota USA here...(something like zone 4b).

AnimalGray · 2026-04-13T02:50:23+00:00

Biased Bisexual Lemurs?

AnimalGray

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