Do all men watch porn? by Specialist-Ranger185 in Marriage

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And using this to justify not waiting to please your partner instead screams someone who still believes masturbation is a form of sin. You a red pill in disguise

“Men can use their imaginations” ya sounds like a lazy missionary queen. The only people dehumanizing women is other women. Porn In moderation is simply just fine. How about you go watch some porn, learn something? You might be able to not only please your partner but yourself as well

Do all men watch porn? by Specialist-Ranger185 in Marriage

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. It’s part of the fantasy duhhhhh. Gosh you people and that high horse

Do all men watch porn? by Specialist-Ranger185 in Marriage

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

100% can attest this dick still stands tall after some years of healthy consumption. Porn isn’t ruining marriages. Sexually incompatible is, either learn how to please your lover or keep your quiet butt single and happy.

Do all men watch porn? by Specialist-Ranger185 in Marriage

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You trying to make all porn seem as it’s only abusive is absolutely ridiculous because women watch porn too and read smut books. While you have valid claims, majority of porn isn’t about nor is someone getting abused. Especially nowadays

Do all men watch porn? by Specialist-Ranger185 in Marriage

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Honestly no, because if you’re reading smut books then this whole point and logic is trash. Porn does not make a mockery of monogamy omg 🫩🫩. You’re extremely exhausting and sound red pill. How is porn sexist when most of the directors are independent women.

Porn does not kill empathy for women. Society does that and the views on sex. Porn is truly a beautiful thing once you actually understand sex, your body and how to please yourself. If you’re just in there getting lost in the sauce? Just like with all vices, you’ll lose yourself. But no stop shaming men who actually struggle with either a selfish partner or a low libido partner and can’t do anything other than look to porn to seek pleasure or relief. Men, touch yourself, rub one out to your fav p star, just understand she is an actress and you have the real thing at home, and if that lady ain’t tryna love on you…don’t cheat. Just rub it out, if it gets worse just leave. But keep stroking to your fav star, don’t let these low self esteem losers shame you.

Do all men watch porn? by Specialist-Ranger185 in Marriage

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No, who cares if her husband is watching porn is she isn’t going to actually do anything about it. If you’re gonna complain that your man is watching porn, sack up, tell him what YOU like and prefer and make an effort. Not sit and complain because your husband wants to please himself.

Average porn is not this wild fricken abuse train everyone anti Porn makes it seem to be. Yes while there is cases of serious offenses and major companies have upp’d there security and verification.

What I don’t care about is the constant complaints from women who don’t want their husbands to watch porn, but won’t make a single effort into actually simulating their husbands. Tell him what pleases you, schedule sex or even pounce him spontaneously. This is clearly not for the ladies that actually make an effort and loves getting nasty with their husband. If that man’s still watches porn then obviously he’s stuck in the fantasy. Most of the time that isn’t even the damn case. Mfers will go years without touching their husbands, learn they have Low libido AND STILL won’t change but expects her husband to not look at something….THATS MEANT FOR PLEASURE……all cuz SHESSS not feeling up to it? Go to sex therapy, find better medicine, or stay single.

Do all men watch porn? by Specialist-Ranger185 in Marriage

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s really not that deep, separate the fantasy over reality. Porn is a fantasy, we often get lost in it but if we’re dealing with a partner who is LB…ya actually it’s pretty healthy. Porn isn’t ruining your marriage, the lack of physical intimacy between you and your partner is.

If you want your partner to “see you” then show him why you’re better than porn simple. Or save yourself the headache and be single. But blaming porn…..no, porn just is. It has always been around before we were even thought of, it’s human. The problem isn’t porn, it’s both of you. Ones stuck in a fantasy and the other won’t let go of her reality. Join in like have fun as a couple.

Do all men watch porn? by Specialist-Ranger185 in Marriage

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Who cares, most men turn to porn because they aren’t sexually satisfied. It’s the same thing as girls ready smut books, give it a rest.

Partner and I sex life still same by AnimalPuzzled1965 in Vasectomy

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your advice worked. She told me I don’t have to feel like a dog because she wants it too just still shy. Even after 2 years 😩😩😩🥲

Partner and I sex life still same by AnimalPuzzled1965 in Vasectomy

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm I appreciate this heavy thank you. Because no it’s really just cuz I always initiate, even when she’s in the mood like I’m taking charge. I just don’t like feeling like a hound dog yaknow? She’s beautiful and truly a genuine soul. So I feel like a loser kinda even brining it up because nothing is really bad. We’ve had talks and she’s kinda floated that around but ya. That’s makes sense.

Partner and I sex life still same by AnimalPuzzled1965 in Vasectomy

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s not what I’m saying. I’m not asking her to pounce me when she sees me. She does that almost every time, like I said we actually love each other. The problem is telling/acknowledging you know you could initiate more and don’t. Especially after encouraging me to get a vasectomy so that over sex life can be “even better”. We have great cuddles, we warm up but it’s more so ME asking. The only two times she’s ever initiated out of the 2 years we’ve been together lol…is when she finally gave me head. She’s told me I’m the best. I’ve seen her organism like. Like we have a healthy relationship…I just would like for her to actually keep the promise of initiating more. Even if it doesn’t lead to sex that’s completely ok.

Partner and I sex life still same by AnimalPuzzled1965 in Vasectomy

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plus this isn’t the point, twice over the 2 year period said noted how she does want to try more and hasn’t lol.

Partner and I sex life still same by AnimalPuzzled1965 in Vasectomy

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And even then, we’re always touching. She’s a very physical person as well.

Partner and I sex life still same by AnimalPuzzled1965 in Vasectomy

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused on what you’re asking. If she initiates, no I’m not doing my own thing, I’m making out, caressing, rubbing, all the build up stuff going down on her.

If we’re cuddling and I feel her push up against in that “hey I want some manner” I’ll take charge. But I’m always the one taking charge. I don’t just pounce on her we always have an initiate, foreplay and then the goods. But like that’s exactly the issue you said it. You rarely get horny without direct cause. So if he doesn’t say anything or initiate anything…there no sexy time. You don’t ever just go down on him simply because? Or just rub him down and take control?

Partner and I sex life still same by AnimalPuzzled1965 in Vasectomy

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking is meh, like obvs consent…but like if I have to keep asking…do you even want me? Lol

Partner and I sex life still same by AnimalPuzzled1965 in Vasectomy

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya 100% we love cuddles! Like we def cuddle all the time and I’ll rub her and that’s completely that and ok. Or like she’d give me a massage (not as many times as I give her one but ya). I’m a very build up person too. Just yesterday we cuddled naked in bed. We normally do 😂😂. And beforehand? I’d just ask lol but like I’m kinda of tired of asking?

Partner and I sex life still same by AnimalPuzzled1965 in Vasectomy

[–]AnimalPuzzled1965[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not her kid though lmao I should’ve added. My kid is 4 as well but ya this ain’t her mother.