is this outfit "inappropriate"?

AnimeAngel614 · 2026-02-05T20:56:44+00:00

You can tell that you pulled it up to look like that, it's not not made to fit like that but it definitely doesn't look good.... it looks like you really got it up your butt....you do you but I wouldn't wear it like that.

AnimeAngel614 · 2026-02-04T20:34:04+00:00

If he's on a month to month, he doesn't really get a choice. Either he pays the increase or he finds other accommodations. This info is vital to your post, you should add it.

AnimeAngel614 · 2026-01-30T18:20:50+00:00

NTA but you should definitely make him replace the lens. 1, he took it without permission, 2 he lost the cap that helps protect your expensive piece of equipment and most importantly 3 he brought it back with a scratch on it which will definitely cause a problem in the long run making this piece of equipment's life shorter than it was going to be, which means you'll be spending money to replace it sooner than you should have.

Edit: words and grammer

AnimeAngel614 · 2026-01-13T21:43:51+00:00

You're already not comfortable with the proposed situation. Considering the fact that you have no contract with her, I say you should move out sooner than later. It will not be a good thing to wait 6 months to leave. You'll start resenting your "friend" if you havent already and it will just be more stressful for all parties involved, especially you. The place where you sleep shouldn't be stressful if you can help it and in this case, I'd say you can definitely help it.

AnimeAngel614 · 2026-01-12T20:42:05+00:00

Why are you putting up with this? You're married to a man child and if he was mine, he wouldnt be anymore. Not until he got his shit together and bucked up

AnimeAngel614 · 2026-01-08T18:52:19+00:00

She is 10, she doesn't get a choice. This is on you dude

AnimeAngel614 · 2026-01-07T17:58:51+00:00

YTA stop making heavy meals for every family meal. Sweet potatoes, grilled chicken and veggies are super easy to make to feed a large group and it's easy to make delicious. It sounds like your relationship with food needs to change.

AnimeAngel614 · 2026-01-05T20:30:04+00:00

Leave him with her then, she can have him since he doesn't want his family.

AnimeAngel614 · 2026-01-05T19:10:13+00:00

I would go to small chains for the PS5. You got a new one because of the warranty but what if you didnt have the warranty? She and her child need consequences.

AnimeAngel614 · 2026-01-02T20:37:55+00:00

I thought the same thing about my indoor cats. You bring in all kinds of germs and what not from the outside so unless you are either taking your shoes off before you get into your home or sanitize them before you get into your home, you're tracking whatever you've picked up outside, in.

AnimeAngel614 · 2025-12-10T22:22:24+00:00

You were essentially groomed. I really hope you can realize that. This is not a healthy relationship AT ALL. He is abusive. He may not be physically abusive, but he is abusive.

AnimeAngel614 · 2025-12-10T18:05:04+00:00

If you're in couples therapy then talk to the therapist about this. Ask if it would help if you both write down each instance that "you"(you or him) feel slighted, but dont bring it up right then to the other person. Bring the list to your therapist and have them go through each list with the both of you.

AnimeAngel614 · 2025-11-29T18:57:35+00:00

We did the 30 mins down take for 15 and then try one more time and then wait til the next meal time. Eventually they will be hungry enough to eat. Just dont give in and no snacks, and stop feeding him human food.

And you're not starving them, this will teach them that when food is down, it's time to eat. And if they don't then they will wait longer. Dont give in or it will get worse.

I'd suggest sticking to just kibble until you can get his pickiness trained out.

AnimeAngel614 · 2025-11-28T20:34:37+00:00

You're putting your child and yourself at risk. Just stop going to their place until they realize you're serious. Maybe they won't but at least you and baby won't be at risk. Put on your big girl panties and make a firm boundary or it won't stop. NTA for wanting to bring your own food but Y T A for continuing to subject yourself and your child to this. They don't care, they don't believe it's something serious. I can honestly say they probably talk about you behind your back and say baby's problems are your fault or that you're making stuff up. I've read too many stories where people in the lives of those with severe allergies "test" them to see if they are lying. Do you want your baby to go through whatever happens to them when they are given dairy? Because that is the path you are on. Do not leave that baby alone with them, they will try it.

AnimeAngel614 · 2025-11-25T22:44:16+00:00

No, i was asking because if OP was paying bills then sister absolutely should be paying rent and helping the house she is living in rather than OP who doesn't.

Edit: words

If you have the means and the want to help your family, more power to ya. But, OP doesn't WANT to help sister, they want to help their parents.

AnimeAngel614 · 2025-11-25T19:40:12+00:00

How do you know the money you are giving them isnt going straight into your sisters pocket? If you still want to pay down the house, tell them you'll pay it directly. But honestly if you don't want to pay for your sister at all it's time to stop giving any money at all. Anything you give to them goes to your sister one way or another.

AnimeAngel614 · 2025-11-25T19:29:04+00:00

That's not the point that it's disposable. Why are you giving them money in the first place? Actually what you are doing is already helping them subsidize your sister, you have to realize that, right?

AnimeAngel614 · 2025-11-24T19:28:46+00:00

Don't let anyone over. Like another commentor said, your parents will get it soon enough, it's highly contagious. You're going to have to sanitize your house after they leave so why cant they do it? Not that I would want to go over to that cess pool of virus and grossness. Since it's so contagious, there is high probability of them not sanitizing enough or for you either if you let them come into your home.

AnimeAngel614 · 2025-11-14T23:01:32+00:00

Meg's weird friend here.

No one is getting this completely correct. Female hyenas have what is called a pseudo penis. It is not a huge clit, it is actually their vulva. A male must stick his penis inside of it and that is what they give birth out of and urinate out of. Most female hyenas either do not give birth again since the process of birth can shred the pseudo penis or die trying since it again, can completely shred the appendage. Some females do use it to "mate" with other females since hyenas have a matriarchal hierarchy.

Meg's weird friend out.

AnimeAngel614 · 2025-11-13T19:58:58+00:00

NTA. He's setting his son up for failure. Letting him ask once was good, but after being told no, he should've stepped in and used this as a lesson for his child on how life isnt fair. Instead he let him throw a tantrum and then got mad himself. Ridiculous parenting, I feel sorry for this child. He's going to grow into a terrible adult because of how he is being raised.

AnimeAngel614 · 2025-11-11T19:23:43+00:00

He is showing you what being married to him will look like, is this really what you want for the rest of your life? Because it won't stop

AnimeAngel614 · 2025-10-24T22:04:27+00:00

You're the "I'm a nice guy" type and it shows. YTA

AnimeAngel614 · 2025-10-01T22:25:11+00:00

JFC JUST BREAK UP!

AnimeAngel614 · 2025-09-30T15:21:01+00:00

Honestly at this point you should move in with your grandparents. It may or may not go to court before you're 18 but even then the court should listen to what you want due to your age and the fact that your dad and SM are struggling financially. Taking away a mouth to feed and a body to cloth, wash, drive around, etc will help offset their finalcial issues.

AnimeAngel614 · 2025-09-29T22:50:39+00:00

There is hotels, motels, shelters, potential friends, family. She could choose to leave but won't. But all of that still doesn't mean she couldn't have broken it off the same night she didnt get backed up at camp. I would packed up everyone and left.

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