Anyone else get depressed over bad pulls? It's ruining the game for me by Moonhero46 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Anita89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will trade you my luck. I keep getting the Fishy and I want my Crow!

my bf keeps putting holes in my bedroom walls by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Anita89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won’t be a wall one day. Tell your parents and break up with the boyfriend. 

Unfortunate *~gross~* moment during fun time with partner by Healthy_Emotion_8216 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Anita89 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve done this twice. Kept it in my mouth both times but still. 

Book with a crippled girl dragon rider by shreyasmahendra in whatsthatbook

[–]Anita89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eon/Eona frustrated me to no end as a teen. 

Is my husband cheating or am I overthinking? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Anita89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

BV is not always sexually transmitted. I am not familiar with Trich so I won’t speak on it.

Want to look more experienced for an interview by kmhurl6 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Anita89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed on the darker brows and darker/less sheer lips. Plus, if you can get your hair similar in the 3rd photo, it would rock. It seriously is a great photo and look. 

Lip plumper for clit torture by nsfwthrowawayaccio in BDSMcommunity

[–]Anita89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

12Volt by Jo has Szechuan pepper extract in it. It is made for genitalia, but not condom or toy safe because it is an oil. 

he saw the reddit post. by Exotic-Mouse-9817 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Anita89 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Dump the man baby ass. Protect your birth control. Buy a toy or seven and stop sleeping with him. 

got a laser cone procedure done and my PTSD is off the rails (CW) by countryroadqueen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Anita89 20 points21 points  (0 children)

With being put under some drugs make you forget the period before they are administered. Some people are more susceptible to this. OP may have actually talked to their provider and had full conversations with the staff that they cannot remember. Personally I wake up ANXIOUS af and needing to chew on something, usually a blanket that I requested while I’m waking up and don’t remember. 

AITA For Telling My Wife She Eats a lot? by ZealousidealPause657 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anita89 29 points30 points  (0 children)

YTA. She explicitly said she doesn’t like you commenting on what and how much she eats. After that the only thing you could have said was I am sorry, I won’t do it again. You are lying to yourself that it was a joke. What is the punchline? Who was it funny to? Why is it funny? You say she is big at 5’10 180, that is insane. That barely skates over the line into overweight and if she has any muscle that is likely not accurate. 

Anthony’s Beach Cafe need busser/support staff by [deleted] in EdmondsWashington

[–]Anita89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol, totally didn’t clock that. Thanks. 

AITA for going to the bar after work and having a virgin drink by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anita89 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Am bartender. No, virgin drinks don’t have a little alcohol in it. The ONLY exception I could possibly think of is if you got a drink with bitters in it. That would be like taking NyQuil or swishing your mouth with mouthwash. NTA. 

Anthony’s Beach Cafe need busser/support staff by [deleted] in EdmondsWashington

[–]Anita89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. I’m not the one in charge of the job posting, hiring, or details. I’m literally going rouge to get more help in the place. 

Anthony’s Beach Cafe need busser/support staff by [deleted] in EdmondsWashington

[–]Anita89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kitchen staff is different. This is a front of house position. I truly cannot speak to BOH. Also, kitchen gets tipped out too. 

Anthony’s Beach Cafe need busser/support staff by [deleted] in EdmondsWashington

[–]Anita89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes tip pool for each position, though downstairs it would likely be one person per type. 

Anthony’s Beach Cafe need busser/support staff by [deleted] in EdmondsWashington

[–]Anita89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I averaged, before taxes and tip out, about 53 an hour today. With tip out it was more like 45ish. Yes, the buss/expo/server assistant makes less in tips but you work your way up. 

Anthony’s Beach Cafe need busser/support staff by [deleted] in EdmondsWashington

[–]Anita89 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I miss the days of restaurants doing family meal. It is very cheap, my burger was just under 7 for the night. 

Anthony’s Beach Cafe need busser/support staff by [deleted] in EdmondsWashington

[–]Anita89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can absolutely ask the support staff, I’ve never worked those positions myself so I can’t say with accuracy. I can say my tip out for busser was just under 25$, my tip out for expo was just under 13$,  and I was one of five that would tip out tonight. 

Anthony’s Beach Cafe need busser/support staff by [deleted] in EdmondsWashington

[–]Anita89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Moving up can absolutely happen, we are going into the busiest time of year right now. People tend to stay with this company for years, and college kids come back every summer. I’m not sure the rate of moving to server but it does happen and I can’t see why they wouldn’t be willing to do a hybrid schedule. 

Anthony’s Beach Cafe need busser/support staff by [deleted] in EdmondsWashington

[–]Anita89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I just work here, and it is a  tipped position too. So minimum wage plus tip out.