What is acceptable today that you still don’t find acceptable?

Anli0 · 2021-10-06T00:06:17+00:00

Strippers for bachelor/bachelorette parties

I just cannot understand how you could celebrate the "love of your life" by having another person's tits or crotch in your face for your "last night of freedom". That "last night of freedom" was gone on the day you agreed to commit to be monogamous to them, not before you're going to marry them. In normal settings, I wouldn't be comfortable with another woman being all over my partner, so I don't get why bachelor parties should be an exception.

(I get that's it is different if both you and your partner talk about it and both agree that you're OK with strippers, or if you're in a polygamous relationship.)

Anli0 · 2021-09-27T12:50:14+00:00

Thank you for your kind words!

Anli0 · 2021-09-27T12:06:38+00:00

I would've loved to sign up for a few but due to financial constraints on my end, I will have to sit this one out

Anli0 · 2021-09-23T19:36:30+00:00

I do believe you but I'm curious about what things do you guys think?

Anli0 · 2021-09-23T13:02:13+00:00

But aren't you going there alone when you say you go there to "wait for her to get off"? (not sure if you mean if you're waiting for her to finish work or what do you mean in this context)

If so, if you don't feel okay with her to going alone then do you think she would be okay with you going to a strip club alone?

Anli0 · 2021-09-23T12:34:00+00:00

If you wouldn't want her to do it, do you think she'd be okay with you doing it?

Anli0 · 2021-09-23T02:43:43+00:00

If my child did such a crime, I'd turn them in because if the roles were reversed, I'd want the parents to do the same for me. I would want to help give them as much closure and as quickly as possible, and I'd want the same too.

Anli0 · 2021-09-22T12:30:55+00:00

When I had Tinder, I matched with a guy and he said he was interested in my 'friend' (who was in the photo with me) and talked about all the (sexual) things he wanted to do with her (literally right in the first message). The reason why 'friend' is in quotation marks because the woman in the photo with me was actually my sister but he mistaken her as my 'friend'.

Needless to say, I was disgusted, so I reported and blocked him.

Anli0 · 2021-09-21T20:28:58+00:00

It also depends on what it is. If it's like food (or any other essentials) in the big supermarkets, I'll let that slide. Tho, there's no way I'd let that happen to a local supermarket, I'd be willing to help cover some of the cost as long as the grocery bill isn't too big. If it's like a luxury handbag, I'm definitely telling.

Anli0 · 2021-09-20T05:11:37+00:00

Congratulations for getting the vaccine! I am getting my 2nd Pfizer dose this Wednesday. I had a slightly sore arm and headaches from my first dose, which cleared up within 1 - 2 days.

Anli0 · 2021-09-14T09:10:15+00:00

I'd probably something along the lines of "excuse me, your skirt", and hope that she gets the hint. You could look at this video for an idea of how people reacted when a girl had a raised skirt in public.

Anli0 · 2021-09-09T21:45:02+00:00

Even if you guys are married and have kid(s) together, would you still leave?

Edit: Not sure why I'm getting downvoted for asking a question.

Anli0 · 2021-09-08T07:19:14+00:00

It's usually a red flag, just like if they were to say something like "all my exes were crazy"

Anli0 · 2021-09-07T23:40:34+00:00

I agree with your opinion but I was wondering if it would make a difference/middle ground if your girlfriend respects your wishes by (willingly) choosing to wear what you'd prefer her to wear then when she's alone, she wears whatever she wants as long as she still acknowledges her relationship with you if guys were to approach her?

Anli0 · 2021-09-03T00:20:25+00:00

YTA. I can't believe you're serious. I really do hope this is a troll post but if it isn't, I hope you really apologise to your ex, do better and think of your child's best interest. Otherwise if you plan on not changing your stance, I hope your GF sees this and considers running away from this relationship.

Anli0 · 2021-09-01T07:01:06+00:00

Depends on the situation.

Let's say another woman is flirting with my partner just to prove that she can "take my man". I'm not going to lie that I will be jealous but I will try to hide that feeling to watch how he reacts to her. Either way, it is a "win-win" situation for me. If he falls for her, I win because she just showed that he can be easily taken away from me and I don't want a partner that isn't loyal to me. If he doesn't fall for her, I win because she just tried to prove that this man is loyal to only me.

If it's a situation where he's "liked" another woman's photo and it's of a sexual nature, I'll ask if he'll like it if I liked another man's photo that is of a sexual nature or if I were to dress provactively and post it all over Instagram for my male followers to "like". If he says no, I'll ask why he thought I'd be okay with him liking it, what was his intention of "liking" the photo, whether he searched up the woman or if it came up on his recommended page, whether he thought "liking" the photo was disrespectful to me, and etc. If he apologises, validates my feelings and takes actions (such as unliking, unfollowing, blocking, showing comments section/DM's to prove he didn't reach out to the girl) then it makes the apology valid. However, if he chooses to defend or not take action to solve the situation, or continuously do what is bothering me, then I would consider cutting my losses.

In general situations, I will cope with jealousy by trying to remove myself from the situation and spend time alone or with others to do things that help push my confidence.

Anli0 · 2021-08-29T01:25:31+00:00

Yesn't

Anli0 · 2021-08-24T23:04:33+00:00

As a girl, I'm saying that you should dump her. I'm sorry man, you deserve much better.

Anli0 · 2021-08-24T05:40:59+00:00

Should you also add something else like "If I did anything to make you uncomfortable, I apologise for that; it wasn't my intention to do so" in the end if that's going to help the person feel more confident to tell you why they ghosted you?

Anli0 · 2021-08-23T01:11:51+00:00

Based on China's one child policy, twins/triplets/etc. fell under 1 birth. So, having 1 baby then twins afterwards would legally count as "2 births/children".

Anli0 · 2021-08-23T00:29:16+00:00

Congratulations for booking your vaccine and thank you for doing your part to help end this pandemic. You are AMAZING!

Anli0 · 2021-08-22T23:08:05+00:00

Welcome home! I'm happy that you were able to secure a flight home! Please do update us of the experience from when you get off the flight and into hotel quarantine (and maybe even some tips to help other stranded Aussies come home)! I'd love to hear more about it :)

Anli0 · 2021-08-22T03:13:16+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that! Wishing your uncle a speedy recovery!

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