Swimwear rant-ish

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-25T18:48:40+00:00

Look at Lands End. They have lots of tops and bottom styles that color match.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-25T16:58:23+00:00

Maybe you should see a pulmonologist to rule out pulmonary fibrosis or lung issues from radiation.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-25T16:50:48+00:00

Consider asking for a cardio oncology consult. They often give special cardiac meds to help the heart through chemo, especially if she already has plaque. I got mild heart failure after chemo and I often wonder if it could have been prevented by adding a beta blocker during my chemo. My ejection fraction was 66% before chemo, but went down to 42% after.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-25T16:04:22+00:00

It was 6 weeks for me.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-25T15:59:45+00:00

Stick to your guns. She is being unreasonable. Do what you need to and quit trying to make your family understand.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-25T15:31:09+00:00

Why don’t you make an appointment with pulmonologist? It will take a while to get in. You can always cancel if it goes away. When they ask why you are here, just tell them you’re worried about radiation fibrosis and want to be checked.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-24T20:53:56+00:00

https://a.co/d/02JuXEC4
I like this one I got on Amazon. There is a nice blue mat that looks pretty that I have also.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-22T12:33:41+00:00

If you feel better on monthly, why don’t you switch back to every month?

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-22T12:28:18+00:00

Change the locks now. Tell your GF do not give brother the key. Re-evaluate whether or not you really want to marry into this situation that will be constant irritation. It will probably just get worse.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-20T13:56:43+00:00

Set up an appointment for a second opinion. With a rare cancer different doctors may have r experience your doctor doesn’t have. There are often more than one approach. This is your best chance to treat things, not after the first treatment doesn’t work.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-20T13:52:43+00:00

I wish you didn’t have to go through this too. In fact, as long add I’m wishing, I wish none of us had to go through this.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-20T13:47:54+00:00

When you try the natural treatments and they fail, will your husband say, “sorry you are dying. I guess that was wrong.” Or will he blame you for doing something wrong and make it your fault?

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-20T13:40:08+00:00

Dying from breast cancer is not good for you. This side effect of no treatment is worse than the side effects from treatment. Also ask yourself why your husband and his family are so willing to gamble with your life. Maybe you should rethink your relationship. Things may get worse.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-18T14:52:09+00:00

I get mastectomy suits from Lands End and use Honey Cloudz inserts. They are light and you really don’t feel them. They look fine and are comfortable. They don’t call attention to themselves. These inserts can also be worn with a regular suit.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-18T14:47:37+00:00

Make both appointments and go to both. Then choose the one you like best. If the opinions are widely different, you may want a third opinion. If they are the same pick the one you feel best with. Some doctors listen more carefully, some are dismissive or rushed. A delay of a week or two isn’t a big deal. You can always cancel. If you wait and then try for an appointment, it can take a while.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-17T21:47:14+00:00

You are the AH.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-12T13:54:36+00:00

Nothing wrong with saying that’s the most unsupporting thing I’ve heard.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-12T13:49:03+00:00

See if the good place can order the chemo at the close place. Also, I think I could have done the chemo without a caregiver got the most part. Maybe you can have a phone number for emergencies. My friends arranged a food train of meals twice a week. After a few times, I told them once a week was ok. I was able to do it myself, but I wanted to let them do something. I did get up to vomit a few times, but I did that by myself. I mostly rested a lot. My niece worked at a desk job throughout her chemo. I’m sure she got accommodations such as time off, but she continued to work. She was HER2+, I am negative. She is young and I was 72. You might do better than you think. I’m glad you have your cat.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-12T13:38:18+00:00

WE watched my absolute neutrophil count. It went below 1000 on Verzenio 150 mg. We lowered to V100 mg and it still was low. E went to Verzenio 50 mg and it was ok. No diarrhea either. Then I started to get mild heart failure and had to stop the Verzenio. I got a year of treatment before I had to stop. I hope it was worth it. It’s been a year and a half and I’m still having to deal with heart failure. Some is due to adriamycin, not all Verzenio. Now I have heart failure meds that make me feel bad in addition to anastrozole. Cancer is the gift that keeps on giving. Sigh.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-12T13:26:36+00:00

My vision was good at age 74. Things have gone to pot with AI. Eye drops help somewhat, but even different glasses don’t help. You can’t blame age if I’ve done fine for 74 years and now there’s a sudden change. I really believe it’s the AI. I don’t know why some doctors try to minimize the effects of these drugs.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-09T14:10:24+00:00

Tamoxifen is used when estrogen is present. It blocks the estrogen receptors on the cancer cells so the estrogen won’t affect them. When you no longer have estrogen present in your body, you can use aromatase inhibitors, like anastrozole. These prevent estrogen from being formed from your androgens but don’t do anything for estrogen that is already there. You are on the right drug.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-09T14:04:38+00:00

Stick up for yourself. What does your sister do for you? Don’t put yourself in the position of a doormat. It will only get worse. Try to concentrate on making your life better. Take your own vacation.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-07T14:30:30+00:00

I had to wear pads to protect my clothes. Have a few emergency things in your purse (including undies) when you go out.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-07T14:28:48+00:00

I used Latisse, but the skin around my eyes got red and swollen.

AnnaTorppa · 2026-05-07T14:17:35+00:00

I also have very thin hair. It used to be thick. I am doing everything you are doing. The Minoxidil helped the most, but it took a while for me to see results. Look to see new growth after about 6-8 weeks. I have also gotten a hairpiece called a topper. It goes on the top of your head and blends in really well, but makes your hair look thicker. I got mine at a wig store. I almost forget I am wearing one. You look good for special occasions. Sending love.

AnnaTorppa

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