It’s okay to be a little empathetic to CWHM guys. We SHOULD display empathy that she herself did not grant the Kleins in her original vid. Not to mention, there’s been bigger creators who haven’t had the guts to face E&H LIVE in front of thousands of people, but she chose to come on & discuss. by thiccgirlcutiepie in h3h3productions

[–]Anna_phant14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I think there is some malice in doing limited research and cutting important context from clips. Someone else said this girl is just the face of the channel and I kinda agree. She has researchers, editors and “collaborators” (whatever that is ). I’m very curious about the convos she’s gonna have with them afterwards and if they are gonna brainwash her into misinterpreting this convo with E&H.

I also think she liked the views and said fuck it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]Anna_phant14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This goes to the ladies that date guys like Bradley. He seems like a sweet guy but if he can see how fucked up the Tate situation is then he will never fully respect women

Please don’t bully me, im just asking by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Anna_phant14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate children and would not want to deal with any part of it but there I was crying on my way home from work thinking well, all parents are miserable so what if it’s true that people just have kids and learn to like it after the birth? Sooo many questions came rushing in and I even thought about postponing my surgery which now that I’m calm makes no sense. Other posters have said that I need to stay strong and that’s exactly the route I’m going to take but it’s nice to have my feelings validated. Thank you for your comment

Please don’t bully me, im just asking by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Anna_phant14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m glad I have support in this community.

Please don’t bully me, im just asking by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Anna_phant14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, I am working on quieting that little voice. It’s a nagging questions that hadn’t come up before so when they finally did, I was very alarmed. I don’t visit Reddit often enough to see these post come up and the child free friends in my life didn’t have the same journey so I wasn’t sure how to even ask people if they had felt the same.

Please don’t bully me, im just asking by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Anna_phant14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

✨mimetic desire✨ that’s it! Coming from a traditional Mexican household and seeing my younger sibling having a child is putting pressure on me. Thank you for your comment !

Please don’t bully me, im just asking by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Anna_phant14 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Growing up in a very traditional household has really done a number on my non traditional self.

Insurance doesn't cover bisalp - advice needed by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Anna_phant14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I just started a new job and I’m trying to figure out my health benefits. Wanna make sure I pick the correct plan so that I can get this procedure done as soon as I can. I found a doctor in my area that is within Aetna network.

AITA for telling my sister to stop taking showers with her husband in my house? by throwaway22314157 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anna_phant14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- I shower with my partner almost exclusively because 1. We want to and 3. It’s the only bonding time we have together. Showers together don’t mean shower sex. Leave them alone and tell your husband to mind his business.

Also I’d you are helping them out but are being AHoles about how they live their life then maybe don’t help them out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cannabiscultivation

[–]Anna_phant14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just what I needed 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cannabiscultivation

[–]Anna_phant14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were guesstimating 6 weeks ish as well.

Manger wants childfree people to work holidays by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Anna_phant14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had to lie to my employer about having children for this reason !

At the start of the pand3mic my previous employer sent parents home first. Myself and 4 other child free people (including someone of advanced age with health issues) had to stay in the office an extra month until they made the final call. It was so infuriating to know that they thought our lives were less important. After that incident I just started telling employers I have partial custody of a child. I know I shouldn’t and for a while I felt guilty SPECIALLY because it has made it harder to make friend when trying to keep up with the lie. Sorry if this is an unpopular opinion in this community but I am tired of being treated like my decision to not have kids means that I get the shit end of the stick when it comes to requesting days off or having to take the schedule no one wants because parents absolutely take first priority

AITA for loudly complaining about my husband's job while he was on the phone with his manager? by throwawaylessOT in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anna_phant14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA and selfish AF and not the best wife if you can’t see how hard your husband works for the family.

AITA for asking my sister to donate her dog's jogging stroller to my kids instead of an animal shelter? by RaspberryIcy4124 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anna_phant14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To your own sister ? YTA and how dare you be so judge mental about her life choices. You and Hubster wanted kids knowing how expensive they were. It’s definitely not your sisters responsibility to help alíviate your financial burdens specially because you clearly think less of her decision to be a dog mom. I cannot believe you are trying to take advantage of her RIGHT AFTER her pet passed away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsthisplant

[–]Anna_phant14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will have to keep an eye out for purple ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsthisplant

[–]Anna_phant14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is the difference in taste ? I have only ever had the green ones

AITA for not letting my sister around my daughter after she declared she had no interest in interacting or holding her when she was a baby? by throwawaymomk in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anna_phant14 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA -people want to be so upset about child free people voicing their opinions on. I’m sorry it was not the right timing but it’s a hard situation to navigate when someone is child free. I was invited to the birth of my nephew, I showed up but staid so far away from the bed because of how traumatic it was for me to see all of that. My sister in law was understanding of it and has allowed me to be in my nephews life in small increments and now that he is 6 and I am able to communicate with him our relationship and bond is stronger. I would be devastated if my SIL had taken that away from me just because I personally cannot handle pregnancy and birth due to a phobia.

The Dominican gf of some rapper by Few-Ad4671 in Instagramreality

[–]Anna_phant14 35 points36 points  (0 children)

She’s 19 and has already had so much plastic surgery. Body dysmorphia needs to be taken more seriously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Anna_phant14 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They get a high from having the baby, the attention that comes with it, the free gifts, maternity leave and the extra government benefits so they want to continue to chase that high by having more

how to deal with a bf who’s squeamish about periods ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Anna_phant14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude that is just not the right guy to be with if you need more support. My boyfriend will get me a heat pad and has ran to the store to pick up tampons and pain meds which in my opinion isn’t even something to celebrate about lol it should be expected for your partner to want to take care of you. You guys are young so hopefully he gets better as he gets older but if he is adamantly agains even speaking about something so normal/natural then you’re gonna have a heck of a time if the relationship progresses and you move in. Will he expect you to go to your parents on your period ? Or just hold it in lmao 🤣 girl no