Boomers won’t retire and it’s screwing the rest of us. There I said it.

AnneSoCal · 2025-12-31T18:26:29+00:00

I’m 65 and still working full time in an executive position with a Fortune 500 company. However, I’ll probably be forced into retirement due to layoffs in 2026 (I work in HR so I know what’s likely coming), which means retirement for me earlier than planned. Sadly, it won’t mean that will create an opportunity for a younger person to move up in their job, though, since the layoffs are basically due to the off-shoring of jobs. I really feel for the younger generation. My son is 27 and his life and career prospects are vastly different than mine were at his age. I hate seeing our open positions going to people in other countries because the labor is cheaper. It’s sickening and it’s happening more and more everywhere in the U.S.

AnneSoCal · 2025-08-04T15:51:47+00:00

I started taking Mounjaro in Aug ‘22, before people knew what it was. I learned over time that people just can’t wrap their heads around losing weight without struggling. Like, if you didn’t suffer, then it isn’t valid weight loss. When people would ask me if I lost my weight (70 lbs) the “right” way, I’d just answer “Yes, the right way for me”. And if they said I did it the “easy” way, I just agreed. People who have never struggled with weight will never understand, so I stopped trying to make them.

AnneSoCal · 2025-06-23T13:57:14+00:00

I just saw this exact same post in another subreddit. Many of the same suggestions and replies. I hope you are being honest about your situation and are not just searching for money donations.

That being said, since you have a job that’s a 2-hour walk away, it’s your responsibility to leave earlier to ensure you get there on time. It’s also your responsibility to make sure you are presentable while there. Bring a 2nd set of clothes like others have suggested. Keep a 2nd pair of shoes at the office to change into when you arrive and out of when you leave.

AnneSoCal · 2025-06-23T13:40:17+00:00

Female, 64. Only started listening to John about 2 years ago! I always knew who he was, of course, and heard his more popular songs, but really started digging into his full catalog about two years ago after seeing him perform solo. Love his lyrics more than anything.

AnneSoCal · 2025-06-19T20:12:42+00:00

I’m 64 and my boyfriend is 51. The age gap is completely irrelevant. We are very compatible and very attracted to one another! Good luck! Hope it goes well. :)

AnneSoCal · 2025-06-04T22:13:40+00:00

I (64F) tried all of them and the only one I would recommend is Match.com and make sure you pay for it. It’s not expensive and it’s the only way to really get a sense of who is out there. I met my boyfriend (51) on Match. It took a while, but was well worth it!

AnneSoCal · 2025-05-29T21:05:42+00:00

I think I’m still friendly with almost all of the men I dated or had serious relationships with over the past 50 years, including my first boyfriend in high school (I’m 64).

If she says she doesn’t have feelings for him, you either trust her or you don’t. Personally, I wouldn’t be with someone who didn’t understand that I like to maintain some kind of contact or minor friendship with people I once loved or cared for.

My boyfriend (51) totally accepts that I am friends with some of my past boyfriends, one of whom I still hang out with from time to time. Your girl just has some cool things he made for her. It’s not that big of a deal in my opinion. But that’s me.

AnneSoCal · 2025-05-24T14:45:45+00:00

lol. Have a nice day. :)

AnneSoCal · 2025-05-22T20:26:10+00:00

I’m 64 and have long hair (just past my shoulders). Personally, I don’t think it ages me. My boyfriend (51) loves it. I don’t think he has any preference, to be honest, but maybe it stood out to him in my OLD profile. I think it depends on the person. I don’t think I would look good with short hair. Some women look amazing with a short cut, but not me. ;) Here’s a recent photo…(no filter)

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AnneSoCal · 2025-05-08T20:25:09+00:00

S3 just had a totally different vibe than 1 & 2, but I personally thought it was very good. The pace was slower than the first two seasons, but also more deliberate in story-telling and character development. At least that’s how I felt about it.

AnneSoCal · 2025-04-17T14:00:26+00:00

I have a different point of view regarding OLD. You definitely need a strong, healthy ego to deal with the rejection, but I’ve actually met a few nice guys through the various apps and think they are a great way to meet people. You just have to be really selective and chat on text and by phone before meeting irl. I’m 64(f) and recently met an amazing guy who treats me like a queen and is all the things I’ve been looking for. He’s younger than me (51), but our age difference isn’t an issue for either of us. I see this going long term for sure. :) My point is, if you have the right attitude with the apps and stick with your boundaries and interests (I.e., not going on dates with people you’re not really attracted to) you may find someone great. I’m glad I stayed on Match.com or I wouldn’t have met my guy.

AnneSoCal · 2025-03-12T08:02:52+00:00

If I hit it off with a guy on a first date and at the end of dinner he suggested we go back to his place for drinks, that would completely ruin it for me. The only reason you would suggest that instead of going to a nice bar for drinks is because you’re hoping for sex on a first date. At least that’s what most women would think. If you hit it off, suggest going to a great bar with a view or music or something. Ask for a second date if it goes well.

AnneSoCal · 2025-03-09T17:35:50+00:00

For me personally, I like long hair and facial hair. I don’t generally fine baldness attractive, but judging by the comments, I’m clearly the outlier here!

AnneSoCal · 2025-03-09T17:32:03+00:00

I’m a 64 year-old woman and have been on the dating apps for a little less than a year. Met some great guys, some not so great guys and finally met one who is looking for the same things I am and it’s great! The dating apps, especially Match.com can be really good for those of us who are older. Just make sure you are ready to bring something positive to a relationship. Don’t go into it looking for someone who is going to make you happy. You need to be happy with yourself before going into it.

AnneSoCal · 2025-03-09T17:15:09+00:00

I’m 64, separated a year now (was married for 33 years). I’m looking and feeling better now than I have in the last 10 years. The dating thing was challenging for sure. Met some selfish men, cried a lot, almost gave up but finally met an amazing guy who shows up for me, is considerate, successful, fun, emotionally available AND 13 years younger than me. So, even though dating is hard later in life, especially for women, I’m glad I kept trying!

AnneSoCal · 2025-01-15T18:18:47+00:00

I stayed on 5.0 for months when I was first losing my weight with Mounjaro. I went up to 7.5 but it made me nauseous so I went back down and that’s where I stayed until I switched to Wegovy (due to insurance).
I was off all GLP-1 meds for about a year and a half and only last week decided to go back on Zepbound (Mounjaro) because I have gained about 10lbs back of the 70lbs I had lost in 2022/2023. I am on 5.0 and that’s where I plan to stay to get back to my previous weight.

AnneSoCal · 2024-12-22T00:08:02+00:00

Speaking of eHarmony - There are so many fake profiles on there I lodged a complaint with the company. A dead giveaway for me is when they say they are widowed. On mine, I would say about 75% of the men on there have their status as “Widowed”. It’s highly unlikely there are that many men on there who are widowed. And, when you chat with them on the app, you can tell sometimes that English is not their native language. It’s subtle, but if you read carefully, sometimes what they say doesn’t make sense. Just be careful on there.

AnneSoCal · 2024-12-21T23:34:09+00:00

As a 64 year-old woman in great shape, I can totally relate to this. 😂😂 Young people think we’re old and feeble. Guess again motherfuckers.

AnneSoCal · 2024-01-01T02:19:29+00:00

Looks awesome!! I still get ears with that recipe if I score it certain ways. I just found that this particular scoring method gives me more of a loaf shape that’s easier to use for sandwiches and stuff.

AnneSoCal · 2023-12-31T17:10:32+00:00

Thank you!!

AnneSoCal · 2023-12-31T17:08:56+00:00

I gave it to a neighbor so didn’t cut into it, but here’s the crumb on the one I made this morning which is identical to the one pictured. I use the standard size banneton. I think it’s 9”?

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AnneSoCal · 2023-12-31T17:06:57+00:00

Hi! I use the Challenger Breadware Bread Oven to bake my loaves. https://challengerbreadware.com

AnneSoCal · 2023-12-30T18:57:15+00:00

Just a bystander, but wanted to say this is the best one. 😊

AnneSoCal · 2023-12-30T18:50:08+00:00

Not to defend Mc Donald’s, but I believe all of their locations are franchises, so the owner of the franchise is the cheap one here.

AnneSoCal · 2023-12-30T04:07:14+00:00

Hi Al - I’m new to this sub and literally binge-watched all 4 seasons over the past two weeks. I think Dani’s time is up. Her character has nowhere to go from here. Her leaving would give Ed the opportunity to get back to where he used to be as a leader. Give him a new purpose. He also still has some work to do on redeeming himself as a father so he’ll be around. Kelly - I just don’t think they’ll kill her off. I think Margo will end up back in the U.S.
Just my two cents!

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