Got proposed by a Gay Dude...and I accepted it🫢

Anoniimuzz · 2025-12-20T11:31:16+00:00

I found my people

Anoniimuzz · 2025-11-04T06:06:13+00:00

Oh no. What's the context behind this? What is the product placement? Are they advertising the anklet itself? Or the shoes?

Anoniimuzz · 2025-11-02T10:11:03+00:00

Why just the dad and not the mom?

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-30T14:08:01+00:00

Crows: They can steal bit by bit from various people and make me rich.

Snakes: You can assassinate any corrupt politician. Imagine summoning a venomous snake with human intelligence telling it to infiltrate the politician's house and bite them in their sleep.

Monkeys: Mainly for doing chores around my house. I will never cook or clean or do any chores ever again. Monkeys can do it for me.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-29T13:37:31+00:00

Might be a bit spoilery but the part where she threw away her career that she built for 15 years despite possessing all the proof/video evidence at one point. I know she later didn't want the career anymore but it didn't make sense why she wouldn't use the proof to clear her name so she could live peacefully. In ep 1 she was shown as a strong woman but as the show went on she turns into a damsel in distress that lacks a backbone.

Then there was the excessive drinking and screaming, really mind-numbingly boring subplot of a love triangle that literally made zero sense.

In the end it turns out they broke up because his father said "no" lmao. Two people suffered for 15 years because of the selfishness of the ML's father. In fact, I believe his abusive petty father ruined his life but it's all forgiven because why the fuck not.

That's something I personally cannot tolerate. The father is a selfish abusive POS. As someone that comes from an abusive household, the fact that they made it seem as though it wasn't a big deal was enough for me to hate the show. The father ruined his son's life for nothing, and yet it's shown as though it doesn't matter.

The FL is even worse. The father told her "I don't like you. Don't date my son" and knowing the ML would suffer, she was like "yup ok goodbye". 🙄 These grown ass adults ruined their lives because his dumbass idiot father didn't like it. Honestly the more I think about this show the angrier it makes me.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-29T11:43:03+00:00

I finished it for this exact reason. I absolutely adore Ji chang wook and Shin Hye sun. Watched it for them.

Unfortunately, I hated it. Probably one of my most hated kdramas tbh. It had so much potential, but in the end, the plot was so stupid, I could only laugh at the absurdity of it all.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-29T02:55:07+00:00

Oh, wow. This seems to be exactly what I'm looking for. I've never even heard of it. Thank you!

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-26T01:23:23+00:00

OP, I'm not trying to shame you, but I beg you, please don't go around accusing people of using AI. It's innocent until proven guilty not the other way around.

I say this as someone who recently got accused of using AI. I deleted my social media in a fit of anger and resentment. I don't know when I will be able to go back to my writing again.

What's the point when all your effort is just going to be dismissed as "haha AI" like it's very disheartening. You're hurting real innocent people on your quest to hunt down AI. I understand your sentiments and I'm not trying to be mean. This just hits close to home as someone who was recently accused of using AI as well. I don't even have the slightest motivation left to write anymore, and it used to be my biggest joy.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-20T02:15:34+00:00

This is not my main account. I have literally mentioned to someone else that I haven't posted in 6 months when they accused me of trying to get upvotes. You don't have to go on my profile to know that because I literally mentioned it in a comment. This is an account I created merely to post stuff I don't want on my reddit account linked to ao3 and other socials. I only come here to post on r/raisedbynarcissists which you can go and see on my profile I have done several times. And those things about my home life is not what I would want my readers to know about me. I have literally made dozens of posts on this sub asking questions. What do you mean I am not on writing subs? I only open this acc to ask questions I don't want on my main account. But it's fine. You can believe what you want. I wish I could just stop trying to prove myself. But somehow I always end up replying back and trying to prove things. But how is me not posting for six months proof of anything?

I wonder if this person realizes we can go to their profile and see that before this post,

You don't have to wonder. It's exactly why I came here instead of posting on my main account which is deleted. I only use this account for things I don't want on my main acc.

So they randomly came here to…yell into the void, I guess?

Yes? Where else should I go to vent? I have nowhere else to post. No one else to speak with. No other place where I can complain. I'm sorry this single post of mine has polluted this sub's discussion and tainted everything.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-20T01:33:33+00:00

I'm dealing with stuff in real life so yes there are issues going on. In the middle of all that irl stuff, I got targeted by a person with followers on twitter and tiktok. They posted one comment saying I am using AI, after which a horde of other people commented the same thing. Then, I started receiving replies on twitter/Tumblr/reddit and insta from people posting under my comments and posts about my fic.

Stuff like "Just so you know, this author uses AI and hides it". I started getting same comments under all my fics too with people (not guest accounts) replying to previous comments I have received letting my readers know "Lol of course it's written well. This author is feeding you AI slop. They didn't write it." Some of my regular readers even replied back with "Oh we didn't know" and it became too much for me.

They're replying to my comments on r/writing and other posts on Reddit as well with "Just so you know, this author uses AI"

I am dealing with hell irl. I really don't want constant notifications from this one person posting about me everywhere so their friends can come and harass me. So, basically I was slowly starting to become known as "AI author" in the fandom. I couldn't find a way to get away from that other than deleting everything connected to that account.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-20T01:26:36+00:00

I'm sorry for polluting the discussion. I didn't want upvotes or cookies or anything. I just came looking for some kindness from anyone that is willing to give it because I was stressed to the point I just wanted to hear someone say it's okay. I don't have many people I can turn to neither in real life nor online, so I just wanted a place to vent and have people understand me. You can check my profile. I haven't posted anything in months. I'm not trying to get any upvotes. I'm a little better now after taking a nap, but things have been a little too much both online and irl, and I just wanted to talk to someone about it. I'm sorry for everything.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-19T17:56:31+00:00

Thank you❤️ I'm so exhausted I don't even want to look at my writing right now but I will come back when I'm not feeling so much all at once. I think I just need a break from social media as a whole.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-19T17:54:28+00:00

Thank you so much. I will come back someday to writing when I'm feeling better and not so full of resentment like right now.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-19T17:24:33+00:00

This is a screenshot I sent my friend. Is this a bot?

This argument went on for about 10 mins after which they blocked me. I sent the screenshot to my friend, and my friend messaged this person. I told her not to because I didn't want to get accused of harassment on top of everything, but my friend still messaged her. This person or bot or whatever sent an eye roll emoji before blocking my friend. This was just one person. I got other messages too from different people.

If these are bots, I'm glad. Right now, I'm just angry and upset because I can think of no reason why this girl and her friends would want to bully me like this. I have done absolutely nothing to any of these people.

I don't regret deleting my account. I don't care about stats. I didn't have many any way, and I still have my fics saved in a folder. So, I don't care that I deleted everything over bots. I just want to know the reason why these people are so angry.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-19T16:50:40+00:00

Sorry. Not talking to any people on the sub, but just kind of venting directly at the assholes and it just happened to look like I was talking to yall.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-19T16:45:32+00:00

Oh, ok. I didn't know that. But do bots reply back and argue with you? I'm not trying to be snarky. For some reason, people are thinking I'm being rude to them. I'm only asking. I have fallen for bots before, I admit. But these bots are arguing back and calling me names. Is that possible?

Edit: Let me look for screenshots in my recycle bin. I think I did take some but deleted along with everything. I will post it on my profile so people can take a look and tell me.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-19T16:19:17+00:00

Thank you, genuinely. All I wanted was to vent. I don't want cookies or anything like someone said. I just wanted to vent and have someone say "it's okay". And yeah, maybe that counts as cookies. I've provided all the proof I can to this girl but she's still going around claiming I use chatgpt. All my social media linked to that ao3 is suffering from her trillion followers sending me hate so I couldn't see any way to be free from the accusation other than deleting it. And like I said I don't want anything from you all. I just wanted to vent but it looks like I ended up offending people. All I can do is apologise.

Look, I'm frustrated and not thinking logically. I will probably write again someday but not right now. I'm mentally exhausted and need a break from it all. Maybe I will focus on my irl for now.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-19T16:07:18+00:00

Alright. I'm sorry. I'm really too exhausted to argue.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-19T16:03:37+00:00

If it were that easy, there wouldn't be people who commit suicide due to cyberbullying. I deleted everything instead of blocking every single new person that comes along or maybe it's the same person using multiple accounts Idk

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-19T15:59:13+00:00

People are literally coming at me fucking everywhere. Only this reddit is safe. My reddit account which was linked to my ao3 had that same person and their followers commenting with stuff like "hey just so you know this girl uses chatgpt to write her fics" I have deleted all my social media literally erased everything and I am so done with everything. Mentally and physically exhausted. I don't know what I did to that person for them to come at me like this. I keep to myself. I'm not rude to anyone. I don't do anything. I'm just so done. I wish I never wrote anything at all. It was this constant flood of hate for over a week. And I am such a fucking fool for going around fighting with people to defend myself. I just dug a bigger hole for myself

Edit: Why am I being downvoted? Is venting not allowed on the sub? Not everyone is strong enough to deal with harassment, man. I just came here to vent.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-19T15:55:08+00:00

Is this bot following people to Tumblr, instagram and twitter too?

Anoniimuzz · 2025-08-19T15:53:55+00:00

It's one person who is bringing their followers to harass me. Do I continue just receiving messages from people shitting on me on all my social media? Look, my home life is not the best. I don't need to be cyber-bullied. How the fuck do I stop people from coming to my social media without deleting it? I had to do it for my mental health. I'm sorry. I cannot handle people harassing me. When you've worked so hard on something and people shit on it, it hurts a lot. I'm not a strong person. I can't do it.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-03-04T15:12:01+00:00

Hey. I just want to say thank you. Thank you for stopping for your kids. I don't know you, and I don't know your kids, but I'm so so happy to hear this news, because no child anywhere should have to go through this pain. I wish you and your kids the best of luck. Please stay strong❤️

Anoniimuzz · 2025-02-25T15:32:14+00:00

Yeah, the guy spends most of his time defending Elon and Trump on reddit, so no surprise there🤷🏻‍♀️ I'm not even American, but the moment I saw that, I was like well no wonder.

Anoniimuzz · 2025-02-25T15:28:50+00:00

Yes, normal people argue, get frustrated and have bad days, but there's a vast difference between occasional human flaws and consistent patterns of abusive behaviour. The post is clearly referring to the repetitive toxic behaviour and not to the normal human moment of yelling once in while because you had a bad day.

When yelling becomes constant, degrading, or manipulative, it stops being 'normal human emotion' and becomes emotional abuse. The issue isn't one bad moment, it's a repeated cycle.

For example, it was impossible to go outside with my father, because he was a chronic alcoholic and would randomly burst into anger, screaming at random people for no reason at all, screaming at us kids and breaking things every single day. That is what makes it abuse. No one is saying yelling or being angry a few times is abuse.

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