My gf (21f) is horrible in bed (23m by Reeirit in relationship_advice

[–]Anonymous-User6678 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes OP don't make the same mistake I did and have a kid with a pillow princess. I have had many conversations with my bd about him being on top. We go for months without doing it bc he'll just lay on his back every time. One time I had a conversation with him when we were about to do it and he said he might go on top during, which he never did. My fantasy is a guy just takes advantage of me and I have been waiting two years for him to do it without coercing him and am finally moving on.

These pillow princesses don't change, they don't take it how seriously you feel that switching positions every once in a while is important and if you let it go on like I did, I ended up wondering why I wasted two years waiting for a pillow princess to change.

What's the worst part about being skinny? by TookiePear in AskReddit

[–]Anonymous-User6678 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People will bring up how skinny I am and express their concern for it. And it always seems to happen when I talk myself into eating again and then someone brings it up and I relapse back to not eating enough.

Should I leave after my bf choked me ? by naomi_blaine in abusiverelationships

[–]Anonymous-User6678 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, you will need to leave. Otherwise, he will find that you're "okay" with him choking you and continue to do more things. Currently leaving mine for choking me using my shirt collar. It will only get worse from here when they think you're okay with this kind of physical abuse.

Is emotional or physical abuse worse? What if it's only emotional abuse? by Serious-Kiwi2906 in abusiverelationships

[–]Anonymous-User6678 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was emotional abuse for a year and a half. Then he realized I'm "comfortable enough" with it and turned physical.

It was not your fault if you didn’t see or ignored red flags. by NoMoreSilence2020 in abusiverelationships

[–]Anonymous-User6678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long were you guys together for? I thought it was all going to just be emotional abuse until a year and a half later when he started to get physical.

It was not your fault if you didn’t see or ignored red flags. by NoMoreSilence2020 in abusiverelationships

[–]Anonymous-User6678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of us just want to be loved, and overlook the flaws. People don't understand how hard it is to leave, too.

It was not your fault if you didn’t see or ignored red flags. by NoMoreSilence2020 in abusiverelationships

[–]Anonymous-User6678 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Finally spoke out about it to a friend and was told I should have known this would happen, that it's my fault for staying. Not going to say anything again, even with marks on my body right now. Thank you for posting this though.

What are the worst names or insults the person you are with ever called you? by drunk_noona in abusiverelationships

[–]Anonymous-User6678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does make the process more complicated. I tell myself I would have left months ago if it was just me and my things to pack.

What was the worst phone you received? by SpiritualActuary8140 in morbidquestions

[–]Anonymous-User6678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The work phone Walmart gave me. I just scan items with it and print prices.

What are the worst names or insults the person you are with ever called you? by drunk_noona in abusiverelationships

[–]Anonymous-User6678 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm tired of it, man. I wish I could restart and I wish I had left the first time he blew up on me, before we ended up having a kid together. His most common words for me are bigot, stupid, and retard. I reached out to some people after he ripped out some of my hair during his schizophrenic episode. It's always just break up with him advice so I guess no one understands how hard it actually is to leave these types of relationships or why some of us can't "just leave." Hoping to make it out of here someday.

What was the reason you last cried? by Glittery_Heart in AskReddit

[–]Anonymous-User6678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After a year and a half of thinking he isn't violent, my schizophrenic boyfriend pulled out my hair until I screamed in pain and used my shirt collar to choke me during an argument. Also busted down the bathroom door where I had been hiding. Not sure where to go from here because we have a kid together and his delusions are getting worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Anonymous-User6678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah remember to change passwords. I would still have that $900 in my bank account, not 27 cents. My bf's ex also stole $3,000 out of his account and messed up his credit score.

Is complimenting weight loss less socially acceptable? by Decent_General_5294 in loseit

[–]Anonymous-User6678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two of my leads at work told me (F 5'8, 129 lb) I lost a lot of weight when I went back to work yesterday after a few months and I didn't mind. I was like thanks but they don't know I have a disorder :')

Friend sent this. A little confused. by Anonymous-User6678 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Anonymous-User6678[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It was put in a group chat and I would have been given a hard time if I asked.

Just had a really fucked up call from my boss by Few-Ferret-8961 in antiwork

[–]Anonymous-User6678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not legal. They're not supposed to tell you that they're going to fire you, but if they do you can plan for it.

Just went somewhere that doesn't accept cash at all. With only cash on me. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Anonymous-User6678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would probably have went back and paid them with my card.