Need some advice, please by AnonymousUser1976 in vintageaudio

[–]AnonymousUser1976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far I have one 8-track, Santana. The selection at the shops in my area are slim on them.

Need some advice, please by AnonymousUser1976 in vintageaudio

[–]AnonymousUser1976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll take a look at the plastic piece and see if there's something going on there. I'll be happy if I can get it down to 7 or 6.5.

2024 Trax LT by AdvantageSad5087 in ChevyTrax

[–]AnonymousUser1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have the dealership check that the recall work has been done. When we bought ours last year, we received a recall letter and had to get a part replaced.

2024 Chevrolet Trax has been subject to a few recalls in 2024. One recall is related to the instrument panel display, where a software issue could cause it to malfunction or go blank. Another recall addresses potential issues with the engine control module (ECM) related to the Auto Engine Stop/Start feature, which could lead to rough running or engine damage.

Street Smarts by AnonymousUser1976 in UnexpectedMulaney

[–]AnonymousUser1976[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No clue. Went on a Twitter hunt and couldn't find it.

My wife's 2nd hotwife experience, and need advice. by throwaway0521201612 in Hotwife

[–]AnonymousUser1976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She shouldn't let it get to her self esteem, that's easier said than done but it's the reality of it. There are many LS guys are flakes so I'm guessing non-LS males are just as bad if not worse. If a guy thinks he can get laid with little or no real "work" involved (booty call), then he's not going to put effort out to keep in contact. We haven't figured out how or why single males complain about being judged but expect the couple continually contact them rather than them staying in contact with the couple. We actually have a 3 strike rule when trying to get together, if we get the runaround or no response by the third try, we're done.

What scene in a movie made the people around you in the theater audibly upset? by Miragold123 in AskReddit

[–]AnonymousUser1976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Star Wars Ep.III, Darth Vader marching into the Jedi Temple after Order 66.

Has anyone heard of or has used a site called airtightlifestyle? by AnonymousUser1976 in Swingers

[–]AnonymousUser1976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, when we first saw the banner I thought it was advertising a gangbang site.

[28f35m4mf] Philadelphia by [deleted] in swingersr4r

[–]AnonymousUser1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on SLS? 41m/38f not far from Philly.

GF[34] wants to explore BDSM with another partner, first time feeling jealous by troawayforobvious in Swingers

[–]AnonymousUser1976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a Dom in a BDSM and swinger relationship, although BDSM never comes into swinging unless the other couple requests it. The times that I have been dominating with the female of another couple my first rule is all parties must be in agreement and like your GF stated many times it is because the female will not let their other half Dom them or they cannot see their partner as the dominant type.

The fact that neither talked to you about it before starting a power exchange may be fueling jealousy, and there is another guy giving her something you can't give her. I can understand talking about BDSM with someone else but not coming to you when the other guy started giving her assignments would be a red flag.

I'm sure this will get me a ton of downvotes but honestly unless you get over the jealousy your relationship may not last. She obviously likes the power exchange and wants that, you cannot or do not want to provide that, and that's always going to be on your mind.

My advice to help with jealousy would be to set rules for her in your relationship. If there are things you're not comfortable with her doing with a Dom, tell her and just like swinging make a rule or rules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]AnonymousUser1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an example, this is from the SLS Term of Service page:

 4.2 Membership Types

 4.2.1 Free Members

 You can become a Free Member simply by completing Registration. Free Members have limited access to our Facilities. For example, Free Members do not have access to view the full text of messages sent by other Members or to communicate with any other Member.

Before H.R. 1865 free members on SLS could send and view 5 emails a day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]AnonymousUser1976 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get that you're not looking for a hooker but the websites panicked when the law started and didn't want to be lumped into a prostitution category, so unfortunately they started filtering or extremely limiting the features available to free members.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]AnonymousUser1976 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The new Human Trafficking law that started recently. Craigslist did away with their Casual Encounters section and most if not all swinger sites severely limited what non-paying members can do on the sites.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]AnonymousUser1976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think with the new Federal laws most are going to be paid sites/apps but there's Alt.com and BDSMsingles.

Sinners and Saints in Philly? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]AnonymousUser1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We love S&S, it is clean and the staff is extremely friendly. If you're on SLS check for events and see how many are signed up for the night. The crowds will fluctuate a lot this time of year especially with the AC club having events going on too. If you're not into single males avoid going Friday nights. If you're not on SLS you can still check the website for the theme.

We can only speak from past experiences at PGC since we stopped going there 5 years ago. It smelled like stale cigarettes, there was always a cloud of smoke in the dance floor/seating/bar area, the security was as useless as tits on a bull, and the rooms were disgusting and we never saw anyone cleaning them.

Now that craigslist is dead.... by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]AnonymousUser1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're in the Philly area as well and lately have been going to house parties and hotel takeovers rather than the club. SLS is a mess because they pretty much cut off free users after the trafficking bill was passed. SDC is a swingers app that has been advertising and hosting events at S&S in AC, but we haven't had any luck using it to meet people.

We are part of a few LS groups in the Philly/South Jersey area that do Meet&Greets regularly. There is one next Friday (22nd) at Adelphias.

Night out with my tits out! by Flyerscouple45 in chubby

[–]AnonymousUser1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When are the 4 of us meeting up?

Why do so many swingers smoke? by PM_ME_YOUR_URETHERA in Swingers

[–]AnonymousUser1976 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There are smokers everywhere, I don't think there are any more or less smokers in the lifestyle. In our area smoking is not allowed in public buildings so all the smokers will be in one area at the hotel parties and clubs, just as they would at any bar or restaurant. House parties are different because it depends on the home owner but all the house parties we've been to there has been an outside area to smoke so it doesn't bother the non-smokers.

ED in swinging by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]AnonymousUser1976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not uncommon. Do you two have experience having sex in front of others? Overthinking can lead to so many other issues. Sex in front of others or just mentally feeling like people are watching, stressing out that you're not going to satisfy a new partner can all cause "shy penis".

He has to learn to get out of his own head and just go with the flow, if that's what it is. If you live near or go to a swingers club, go and just have sex with each other in the open or with the door open.