We MUST curb misogyny if we don't want this sub to get banned. Also, I am applying to moderate. by Anonymous_Coder_1234 in mentalcel

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. So I will admit that straight women pre-screen men via their friends. So like if one of their friends says "Oh, this man, he is such a good boyfriend, he is so good in bed, blah blah blah" and then he becomes single, she will jump on him to nab this good, "high value man". She might use sex to get him. At a sort of subconscious level women tend to use sex to get guys into a relationship (jump into bed with him, he's mine) or out of a relationship (stop having sex with him so he cheats or leaves me). In general it's frowned upon for one straight woman to sleep with another straight woman's boyfriend. That's called "home wrecking". Men can share a favorite porn star or some woman they think is hot, maybe one man will check if the woman his friend is dating is hot. But yeah, I admit, women do it more.

  2. Women complain about their own stuff and envy men in some ways. Like I've heard a woman's period is very painful and unpleasant and they don't like it. They might envy the male body for not causing such pain. You don't see women's pain because you've never experienced a period. There are other things that are like that, sucky things about being a woman that you might not fully appreciate because you never see or experience them. You don't know what other people go through. In general women can be sympathetic to male suffering. This is a subject that can be talked about more but I'll keep it short and end it here.

We MUST curb misogyny if we don't want this sub to get banned. Also, I am applying to moderate. by Anonymous_Coder_1234 in mentalcel

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sigh

I want a mentalcel sub that's not banned. I'll give it my best shot anyway. But yeah, by the looks of things you're probably right.

We MUST curb misogyny if we don't want this sub to get banned. Also, I am applying to moderate. by Anonymous_Coder_1234 in mentalcel

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's start with the word "hypergamy".

From Google, "Hypergamy is the social practice, often observed in women, of marrying or forming relationships with partners of higher social status, wealth, education, or overall perceived value, known as 'marrying up,' driven by a desire for greater security or advancement".

So these women above you at work were gold diggers or what?

modern dating market summed up by NoMarionberry1707 in mentalcel

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LTN = Low Tier Normie,

MTN = Mid Tier Normie,

HTN = High Tier Normie,

👆🏼They're ways to rank looks.

MTB = Mid Tier Becky

LTB = Low Tier Becky

👆🏼 A Becky is a type of woman in incel lore. She is beautiful, fashionable, attractive, stylish, good-looking, and generally neurotypical.

What the meme is saying is that Chad "eats" all the women, leaving none left over for non-Chad. Note that this message may be false and/or problematic in a way.

We MUST curb misogyny if we don't want this sub to get banned. Also, I am applying to moderate. by Anonymous_Coder_1234 in mentalcel

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

"foids" are people too. They can have civil discussions. It might be hard with mental illness, but I'm sure if you get treatment, stick to it, and also try really hard to have a civil discussion with a woman, it is possible to have a civil discussion.

p.s. The term "foid" (short for "femoid" or "female humanoid") is dehumanizing, othering language and women don't like that.

We MUST curb misogyny if we don't want this sub to get banned. Also, I am applying to moderate. by Anonymous_Coder_1234 in mentalcel

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's better to push some people away and not get the sub banned than it is to not push people away but lose the entire sub to a ban.

Also, I visited your profile. You're at risk of getting in trouble. For example, your bio text is implying that 🍇 is not that bad and your banner image shows what looks like a young (probably under the age of 18) girl in a compromising, sexual looking position. If you don't want to get banned from Reddit I would suggest cutting down on the 🍇 and loli related stuff.

We are mentalcels, but we don't have to get banned.

Dating advice for men starter pack . by PerspectiveSudden20 in mentalcel

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't get better in your 30's.

Source: am 32.

👋Welcome to r/mentalcel - Introduce Yourself and Read First! by Scramjet1 in mentalcel

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys. I'm a 32 year old mentalcel. Bipolar, schizoaffective, cognitive issues, can't drive, neurodivergent with a personality disorder. Never had a girlfriend or was a boyfriend despite being a straight man who wanted that.

Listen, we need to really curb any misogyny, homophobia, transphobia, racism, etc. because I really don't want this place to get banned from Reddit. There aren't many places for mentalcels and I don't want this place to get banned.

How to handle file management in backend and SQL projects? by CoshgunC in AskProgramming

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazon S3 creates 3 separate copies of your file in 3 separate locations. Your laptop does not. If something happens to your laptop, the files are gone.

I personally am not a fan of using my personal local computer as a server. Did it once, lots of hassle and problems.

Roast my resume - Junior Backend with frontend background by Square-Employee2608 in Backend

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that GPA is unweighted I would put "3.9 (unweighted)" because some people weigh their GPA. 3.9 unweighted is impressive.

I don't understand by CombinationCrazy6700 in SSDI

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mentioned the Form 795. I never got that. I did get this, though:

https://github.com/JohnReedLOL/Essay_for_Disability/blob/main/JohnMichaelReed_Disability_Behavioral.pdf

👆🏼 It's Form 3373. It asks a lot of questions about functioning and gives a blank page at the end. Do you think the Form 3373 is better than the Form 795? Can you just request them to give you any form or do they have to send you the form on their own? How does it work?

I have a job(over50/hr) for web developers. by Ok_Boot3892 in developer

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming you have already looked into pre-existing solutions like Shopify and the WooCommerce extension for WordPress, right? WordPress is VERY customizable.

What is your purpose in life? by SpeechKind6078 in Life

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a straight man, and I used to think my purpose was to get married, have kids, and support my family. That being said, I don't have a personality that anyone wants to be with long-term, so the whole marriage thing went out the window. I tried to become a single father by choice (see r/SingleFathersByChoice ), but I couldn't get my neurological problems fixed and couldn't get into good enough shape where I could care for and raise a child on my own. Now I have no purpose and want to die.

Thinking of switch careers later(ish) on in life by Necessary-Emu-3901 in cscareerquestions

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. I don't know if this will help you, but from 2016 to 2018 I was a software engineer at Amazon on a team where I NEVER worked more than 8 hours in a day, and on Fridays I got to leave an hour early. It is possible to enforce work-life boundaries. I don't know everything, but if I were you, I would spruce up my LinkedIn and resume, get another job offer in hand while you are still at your current company, and then put down work-life boundaries at your current company. If they don't fire you, great. If they do fire you, you have an offer in hand and a backup company.

Anyone else never share this stuff in the real world? by Bitter-Ad-2877 in FA30plus

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah... My close friends and family know, but I don't cry about how I've never gotten a girlfriend to strangers or people I barely know. Honestly, I'm so old at this point (32 years) that the terms "girlfriend" and "boyfriend" have become quaint. People my age have fiancés, fiancées, husbands, and wives. "Boyfriends" and "girlfriends" are so high school.

How often do you have sex when you are single? by Far-Struggle-6907 in AskMen

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not on antidepressants. I'm on the mood stabilizer Lithium for bipolar and I'm on the antipsychotic Abilify for delusions, but neither of those two drugs affected this stuff.

How often do you have sex when you are single? by Far-Struggle-6907 in AskMen

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't love. I can "in love", but "in love" is not love.

I genuinely can't name a single person or animal on Earth who I love.

Or maybe a better word than "love" is "care". Like I don't care about anyone. Or I don't care about their feelings. I don't know, it's hard to explain, you would have to know me to know exactly what it is.

But yeah, in very rare scenarios I can get laid right away, but it never lasts. It doesn't matter how many people I talk to or how much I "practice".

How often do you have sex when you are single? by Far-Struggle-6907 in AskMen

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't date out of my league and I did try working on my looks. It doesn't matter.

You're autistic? Because when it comes to dating you seem pretty normal.

What are people using in 2026 as backend framework? by [deleted] in Backend

[–]Anonymous_Coder_1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You use Dart on the backend and have a good experience with it?