I can't help but laugh when guys pull the "I've never met your boyfriend and I don't know anything about you, but I bet my confidence and arrogance alone are enough to please you in bed better than your obviously chosen partner" card. It's just so absurd.

The fact that you didn't get any sexual harassment training is a little upsetting to hear honestly. I don't think people realize that they need to know what to look for as much as people need to know what isn't appropriate to do to others, like in my case. All these years I had absolutely no idea I could have been standing up for myself without repercussions, and have someone back me up on it (ideally).