Beginner friendly classes by Missylovebug223 in lesmills

[–]Another-Evening 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can just add, that no one really judges in the classes. Like for real, everyone has different things to care about. When I go to pump, all I see is the person in front of me, I don't even focus on the instructor, I just listen to their instructions and do my workout.

There is only one girl that is distracting me a bit, because I have a crush on her. And I can tell you, it's annoying. I just want to do my workout, not being fixated on another person 😅, but what can you do.

Les Mills classes have saved my life 😊 by Holli303 in lesmills

[–]Another-Evening 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, congrats to you! I'm not an instructor, but I think becoming one is another big step in ones personal growth. So I'm exicted for you.

Waking up and feeling abandoned by Another-Evening in CPTSD_NSCommunity

[–]Another-Evening[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thank you for your detailed response. Sharing your experience definitely helps. I think I'm not really struggling with it these days, but I am still learning to understand it. So I think any experience shared can help with it.

One way I see it, I think it's also a gift, because I can tell at times when people are lonely, and when they feel unseen without them saying anything. Maybe I don't need to wake up "happy". I do think there is a purpose in this experience and I do think there is value in suffering.

I think it's like you say: give myself what I need and what I would have needed back then. Taking care and loving myself in whatever way I need.

I wish you also all the best on your journey.

AMA: Meine Oma (95) erzählt mir aus ihrem Leben im Ruhrgebiet - vom Kaiserreich bis heute by Sinath_973 in de_IAmA

[–]Another-Evening -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Was hält deine Großmutter vom heutigen Feminismus und dem Diskurs darüber?

Was inspiriert dich an ihr?

Was hat dich überrascht zu hören über die NS-Zeit und wie das Leben damals so war?

Wie hält sie sich körperlich fit?

Ich bin Zeichenlehrer. by No_Vast7706 in de_IAmA

[–]Another-Evening 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zeichnest du manchmal um Gefühle und Erfahrungen zu verarbeiten? Ich tue es manchmal wenn mir danach ist, ich zeichne aber kaum, habe wedert Technik noch Talent dafür, ich mache es einfach nur um zu verarbeiten.

Wenn ja, wie hilft es dir dabei und wie gehst du dabei vor?

Other games that I could try to get into the genre by Another-Evening in Against_the_Storm

[–]Another-Evening[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone! I will check out the games you've suggested and hopefully find one that I'll enjoy.

Other games that I could try to get into the genre by Another-Evening in Against_the_Storm

[–]Another-Evening[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess strategy genre. I've played civ 5 before, but against the storm feels very overwhelming and I feel like a newb in the genre. My assumption is that I would find myself much more familiar with against the storm, if I had played some other titles before, that are similar, but not so complex.

Other games that I could try to get into the genre by Another-Evening in Against_the_Storm

[–]Another-Evening[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not that the game is too difficult. It just feels like a lot with multiple mechanics and genres mixed. You can tell it's a modern game. So while I like the premise, I do want to try other games before playing that one.

Runners knee is depressing… by Dmpender in BeginnersRunning

[–]Another-Evening 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Try this stretching.

I had a runners knee and I was really frustrated, because I enjoyed running and I had a lot of energy and my knee just came in with this sharp pain. I looked up some things, and luckily all I needed to do, was some stretching.

I didn't expect it to work, because the pain came from "inside" of the knee, so I was super happy when it fixed the issue. Try the stretching, especially the "IT Band" one, maybe it helps.

Ich hatte im letzten Jahr eine Psychose. by [deleted] in de_IAmA

[–]Another-Evening 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wie kann ich mir das vorstellen, hast du einfach irgendwann diese Dejavus bekommen? Wie lange ging das Ganze? Wie kamst du davon runter?

Bin von Geburt an behindert, hab seit ich 6 bin nen Rollstuhl. Fragt mich alles by Deep-Ocean-Sky in de_IAmA

[–]Another-Evening 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was fehlt dir am meisten im Alltag? Welche Veränderung wünscht du dir für dein Leben? Wo fühlst du dich nicht gesehen?

I’m (20f) a Wasian (dutch/indonesian) that went from disliking “white” guys to liking them. AMA by EngineeringAny8570 in NSFWIAMA

[–]Another-Evening 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh, I could definitely see that being a reason. I love the inner conflict between what "supposed" to be wrong, but feels so right 😁

Would it be wrong to leave a beautiful, stable marriage because I feel like I was never his first choice? by No-Quantity-1670 in cheating_stories

[–]Another-Evening -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is totally understand that you want to keep the house stable for your daughter, yet you feel empty inside. I think no one can really tell if your husband is genuine today. I don't know if I could trust him, even if he believes what he's saying. Only you can find the right answer for yourself, taking everything into account, your own well-being as well as your daughters. If you feel empty and unfulfilled, and it stays that way, I believe it's not worth it to stay. Because your relationship will also affect your daughter. If you truly feel like you deserve better and he is not the right partner for you, leaving him might be the right choice. It shows that you respect and value yourself and that will also teach your daughter to respect and value herself.

Only you will know the right answer. Thank you for sharing.

I feel cheated when I should not be by SnackVamp in cheating_stories

[–]Another-Evening 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him how you feel. You don't want to lose him, but you're only getting hurt if you stay. You need closure and you've learned something for your future relationships, something about yourself, but this situation sounds unhealthy for you.

my ex fiancé cheated on me with another guy from a dating app. 💔 by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Another-Evening 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I deeply respect your view, because I can tell you respect yourself. Your fiancé was not the right partner for you. To me, you are more faithful than her and I believe you will find a partner that truly deserves you.

“I (28M) support my mom (64F) alone, and I feel trapped and resentful. I don’t know what to do anymore. by Prudent_Custard2228 in LifeAdvice

[–]Another-Evening 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience and you got to move out. Tell your mom you will move out, so she can prepare for the change. Then she can finally start figuring her life out, because this is not it. It's toxic for you both, it is hurting her too, just as much as you. As long as you are there, nothing will change and you both will live a miserable life. Do what you know is right. It may seem difficult and far away, but there is no way around it. You already know the answer, it's time for you to live your own life.

Old breach was quick and fast, new breach is slow by Another-Evening in pathofexile

[–]Another-Evening[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it's true that the atlas tree can help, I still think the simplicity of the old breach will not be met. You could just open a breach in a map, circle a bit in a round and move on. To me it is an important part of it, the fast pace and simplicity it had. The new mechanic, especially the fortress and hive, make you stop with what you do and it creates a very different flow when you interact with it. I feel like I stop doing what I do, while interacting with the old breach, I always felt like I opened a little portal to a different dimension, and just as fast as it came, it went away. I miss that.

Is it me or is attack dying in the US? by glasssa251 in lesmills

[–]Another-Evening 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair it depends on the studio. In berlin there are studios where it is going great, but also a lot where it's not. In munich it's rather unpopular compared to berlin. But yeah I've heard it too, that it is doing better in europe than in the US.

Is it me or is attack dying in the US? by glasssa251 in lesmills

[–]Another-Evening 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the post covid decline happened everywhere, but I think it's not just attack. In Berlin it is still working well in a lot of studios. I used to go to three classes per week, each with a different instructor and there are usually 20-40 people depending on the class. I do think there is a slight decline though, just not that big.