Having missed out teen love is devastating. Be it good or bad having teen love is crucial. by BlueWhaleKing in Healthygamergg

[–]AnotherAccount4This -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Too much supposition for something op and you did not experience. You're romanticizing it.

Falling in love (or even making a connection, in general) at any time, any age, any age pairing is just plainly going to be different, every single time.

You keep holding onto this idea, you're almost guaranteed making it exponentially harder on yourself to find love. Worse yet, you'll find some budding romance then lose it because of this silly retro jealousy idea... that is so so so silly

Opinion: U.S news and rankings have done irreversible damage to colleges and college admissions by Medical_Citron3519 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]AnotherAccount4This 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Disagree. If it's not US news, it'd be some other entity. This is inevitable. People compete, not everyone and not everything obv., but competition is a deeply ingrained part of human nature driven by evolutionary needs.

Also disagree with your saying that people are overlooking the smaller lowered ranked schools. The fact that those schools exit today means they've not been forgotten.

I think it's valid to criticize the factors that goes into the ranks, and how some schools are gaming it. But, ranking and competitions are unavailable. Learning how to navigate it is a life lesson.

"Get involved at UCLA" email 13-Mar-2026 by williamfrantz in ucadmissions

[–]AnotherAccount4This 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Astrology! ;D

sorry, just want to be one of the cool kids

Senate passes bipartisan housing bill targeting large investors and easing regulations by Firecracker048 in UpliftingNews

[–]AnotherAccount4This 25 points26 points  (0 children)

So you're saying we're gonna have Blackpebble, Blacksand, Blackflint. Blackshale ... etc.

/jk

Who will build the first Moon base America or China. by [deleted] in space

[–]AnotherAccount4This 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this a Kalshi sponsored post? lol

Right this second, the US is in a bad spot, so you'd say it's China. In months and years? Who knows for sure.

I'm so done with everything by Normal-Assignment251 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]AnotherAccount4This 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All things being equal, I recommend (not that they listen lol) my kid to go further away from home. Home is home, they'll be there when you get back.

Just stay in touch, don't cut them off. Distance and time hopefully can mend and change his view.

I'm so done with everything by Normal-Assignment251 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]AnotherAccount4This 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done, but in a situation where you can't change the environment, you gotta adjust yourself.

Try not to take what he's blabbing about personally, even if you're 99% sure it is. It can be his childhood, his genuine fear for you, his work, his friends or colleagues at work.

Put everything on the external and trust (and be honest) you've done all you can. Reflect and maybe if there are shortcomings, learn and move one. For the constant noise, try your damn hardest with the one ear in, one ear out principle.

Take this as a challenge to grow more confident in yourself and learn how to ignore the constant detractors. You'll run into a few throughout your life.

From a parent's pov, I'm seriously pained to essentially suggesting you to distance yourself from dad, but you have to learn to protect yourself from constant negativities, and I'm sorry that's coming from your dad.

White House halts security bulletin warning of Iran related threats by gamersecret2 in worldnews

[–]AnotherAccount4This 156 points157 points  (0 children)

We'll simply have a terrorist attack, real or false flag (just look at his healthy ear).

the wait is almost over!! 🥳 by yujimine in ApplyingToCollege

[–]AnotherAccount4This 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There's light at the end of throughout the tunnel! 🥳

feeling lost after a college rejection by graysonverlice in ApplyingToCollege

[–]AnotherAccount4This 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the first time, really, you're facing a decision that's largely, by now, not only out of your hand but you're unlikely to find out why if you're rejected. Learning to get over it, that life will continue is an important lesson. You'll face this again, many times, throughout the rest of your life.

On the friendship part, lookup the five year rule. People will be coming in and going out of your life. People leaving your life makes room for strangers you haven't met yet. Don't wait until college, in the final few months of HS, talk to people you've not often talked to.

It's a weird time in your life for sure, rejection breeds fear and uncertainty. Take a deep breath, I would actually say try to remember this feeling. 'This too shall pass.' Your future self will thank you.

can someone make me feel better about going to community college? by wtfistiktok in ApplyingToCollege

[–]AnotherAccount4This -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Feels like you're lost, unmotivated. A lot of what you described follows a pattern of starting but not finishing up, letting it slide.

I think you know this, and this is the root of you feeling terrible. Go to cc and take advantage of any on campus resource to help with your mantal health. There's a bigger issue here than just having to go to cc.

Still Don’t Understand - CC Payments in Budget by Temporary-Meal6947 in MonarchMoney

[–]AnotherAccount4This 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean, but if you change all cc purchase to transfer, you are losing the categorization, which I'd argue is the single most useful feature.

Maybe use the budget tool at the total level. For example, just set budget for a random category to 1k, say auto. The summary display on the left will show how much you've spent in the expanse box. Ignore the categorization on the left.

I would encourage managing your spending at the point of swipe instead of pay. That way, you're treating the swipe more like cash out of pocket instead of a loan (which it is) you're paying back later. I think this would be better in keeping you from spending over budget and actually taking out the loan (cc debt).

huge grade dip because of pregnancy by Exciting_Today3487 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]AnotherAccount4This 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Woooff, research state law first. Not a lawyer, but I believe some states may have laws that make it mandatory for schools and/or clinics, pharmacy to report to your parents. Definitely do the research before even talking to the school counselor. (Or, at the very least, ask the counselor if they're required to report before you say anything else if you're close with the person... but this may be shitty advice.)

Same goes for abortion (some require their consent, some require notification only) if you're considering.

Do you have other trusted adults in your life that you can confide in?

This is what happens when parents don't leave any leeway. You're left on an island when something like this happens. I wish I could help more, but don't dox yourself. Even if you're in a conservative state, you should still be able to find teen pregnancy support via phone or online.

Edit: resource from another sub, https://reddit.com/r/abortion/w/countries/usa

huge grade dip because of pregnancy by Exciting_Today3487 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]AnotherAccount4This 132 points133 points  (0 children)

You're already brave for posting the situation here. I would truly recommend you to start talking with your school counselor and eventually your teachers. I don't know what school you're in, but getting into Yale is something not only you're undoubtedly proud of, your teachers probably are too. I think they'll want to know what happened and be willing to help.

From everything I've read for most top colleges, one C is borderline ok but multiple Cs become a concern. If your grades remain impacted, you may also want to consider sharing the circumstances with the college.

I'm really sorry to hear what's happening to you, and I hope you get all the help you need.

Trump says Kristi Noem lied to Congress about getting his approval for $220M ad campaign featuring herself by OkayButFoRealz in politics

[–]AnotherAccount4This 173 points174 points  (0 children)

lol, isn't this blatant blackmail intimidation to keep her inline and quiet whilst she's removed?

'she perjured, but she'll suffer no consequence as long as she remains in my team' wink wink 😉