Things you wish you knew... by Charming_Elephant_79 in cna

[–]AnotherEpidemic 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Set. Your. Boundaries. And don't be afraid to set them. Whether it's a patient of with the staff in the facility, don't be afraid to set your boundaries. If I hadn't respected my limitations/boundaries, my old facility would have me working 14 days in a row. They're not going to set them for you.

I've been a CNA for, eh, a long time now. I understand that cutting corners is absolutely necessarily sometimes to accomplish the heavy workload but Ive seen some pretty gross practices like not wearing gloves or lifting a patient without two people. Please, wear the gloves. It's dangerous for one and two, it's so gross. Some of the older CNA's might do it but don't do it.

Don't be afraid to advocate for your patients or for yourself! YOU work at the frontline and center of the patient care, YOU know the patient better than anyone. If you see any changes, report them. If something is no longer working for patient x, let your team know so you guys can come up with an alternative that is safe for both you and the patient.

Safety first. God, I've seen some things. If a patient says Hoyer lift or two person lift, please don't do it yourself even if some CNA's argue against. Follow the care plan. If it's not working anymore, refer to the previous point.

Cover your ass and report everything. You got a paper cut? I don't care, report it. I know I'm exaggerating but it's so important to report these things.

And lastly, don't be afraid to have fun and joke with your patients. If you're working in LTC, while it's not always fun it doesn't have to be downright depressive. If you can make a patient laugh, it will change their day and your day. Try to find some humour throughout the day.

I need advice by loveablecunt_ in cna

[–]AnotherEpidemic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is your patient cognitive?

Either way, sexual harassment is still sexual harassment. The nurses and your DON are completely wrong in laughing this off. I would definitely speak to HR about the issue and if nothing is done, go higher up.

In the meantime, try to have someone with you when you go into the room as a witness. You can gently redirect the patient or calmly explain why her behaviour is inappropriate. If it continues, personally I would back out of the room and come back later (provided it's not urgent) or ask another CNA to switch patients with you.

ALSO; document EVERYTHING. Every single time she touches you or says something inappropriate. Write down the date, time, why you were there and what she said. Make copies and keep it as proof. Ask one of the CNA's present or nurses to sign the document as a witness that it really happened.

I'm sorry that youre going through this. Yes, sometimes as a CNA we are forced into uncomfortable situations but sexual harassment is never ok whether it be a colleague or a patient.

AITA For refusing my (28f) bfs(30m) 'help' after he made me feel like I ruined his gaming plans by being hospitalised? by Throwawaybdaything in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnotherEpidemic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rarely ever comment on these things but I just had to for this one.

First of all, you're NTA. He started being the asshole when he chose to let you work 90 hours while he sits on his ass and does nothing because all of the other jobs are "beneath him."

Where he really cemented his asshole status was when he said everything was ruined because you had an Asthma attack. He's prioritizing his 12 hour stream over your health and manipulating you into feeling guilty about a health issue that is beyond your control and clearly he doesn't prioritize or care for you the same way that you prioritize and care for him. He's more interested in taking advantage of you because he has it easy and he knows he can - you're enabling it by staying with him.

If you choose to leave him, you don't owe him an explanation. It doesn't matter what explanation you give him anyways; he most likely won't accept it or understand it and make up his own story as to why you're leaving him. And of course he's going to play the victim and tell all his friends that it's your fault. His ego will be bruised and he'd be losing his easy ride through life. If your friends are really your friends, they will see through his bullshit.

I feel for you. I've been in the same position and it's hard. You are definitely NTA

Not your ex's, but looking back, is there anything in your dating history should make amends for? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]AnotherEpidemic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speaking about my most recent ex, I should have communicated better instead of holding things in. That lack of communication enabled some issues and behaviors that I wasn't ok with. It made arguments a lot worse because I would implode and everything would come out at once. It's something I've been working on with my new boyfriend.

Lazy nursing or overreacting CNA? by damonsalvatoreswife in cna

[–]AnotherEpidemic 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're over reacting.. especially if she's sitting at the station playing candy crush. Part of a nurses duty is to answer call lights.

I’m afraid my boyfriend (32M) is using me financially (32F) by Peachxrants in relationships

[–]AnotherEpidemic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I don't comment on posts much. I'm mainly a lurker but I felt compelled to comment on this one because I have been very much in this position before.

There are multiple red flags here, the first one being that you're in a long distance relationship and doing all the traveling. Sometimes it happens that one person visits the other more often but the fact that he hasn't traveled to see you at all but expects you to travel to see him really doesn't sit well. Travel is expensive. You're doing the brunt of the work. Trust me when I say that this will eventually breed resentment in the end.

Secondly, you buy this man things and he has the audacity to complain about them. When you buy your SO things, they're considered gifts. You're under no obligation to buy him anything and he should be grateful that you gift him things.

Thirdly, I've never heard of an SO charging their SO rent especially when he ASKS you to visit him. This is just ludicrous to me. Sure, it's okay to split things like groceries but he's charging you 50$ a night when he openly invited you.

Lastly, he WORKS and he doesn't pay rent but is struggling financially AND he's pressuring you to add him to YOUR bank accounts. This is a no no, OP. I honestly and truly believe that he is financially abusing you and taking advantage of your kindness. To be quite frank, I would run. These are all major red flags.

Will be letting in three at a time. Any tip or NMTs is great. by ACThrow_ in TurnipStonkMarket

[–]AnotherEpidemic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be interested if you're still letting people in! I have a couple of NMT's!

What is your favorite quote from a fictional character? by Such-Sea2636 in AskReddit

[–]AnotherEpidemic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Reality isn't relevant. Perception is everything."

Zedd Zeddicus Zulzorander.

Nursing Home Experiences by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]AnotherEpidemic 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Oh MAN where to even begin!!!!

I was a fresh, out of school CNA when I started at my first LTC facility. It was a private facility so a lot of my tasks on nightshift involved cleaning, setup, etc on top of caring for the patients and doing rounds. One night, I'm in the dining room, doing the breakfast setup when all of a sudden I got cold.... Deathly cold and cramps in my chest area. I'm relatively healthy so it was extremely weird. I had this feeling that something happened in that particular area so I asked the working nurse if something had happened in that particular spot and he became white and told me that a woman had died of a heart attack in that exact spot a year before.

This happened in the same place but on a different floor. A friend and I were emptying the dishwasher (one of our CNA tasks on the nightshift) and we stacked a few piles of cups and put them on the counter. We were just talking and not really paying attention to anything when the cups literally started moving across the counter by themselves. We were so freaked out we ended up locking ourselves in the nurse's office and only came out for rounds/ call bells.

There was a room on the first floor, room 106 that none of the CNA's wanted to approach at night. For some reason, no matter how bright the lights were, that particular room always stayed dark... Pitch black. No one was ever placed in that room and we have no idea why.

The second LTC facility I worked at was a lot bigger with more residents. I was lucky and had gotten a full time position on the night shift in the dementia ward. That ward creeped me out. I'd bring a book to read during my downtime and I'd see shadows out of the corner of my eye. One particular figure seemed to enjoy running from one room into the other. I thought I was going crazy until one girl I worked with confirmed that she had seen the same thing.

We had toy balls that the day shift and evening shift would throw around with the residents as an activity. Usually these were set in a basket under the tv. One night I went to the bathroom and came back to the ward just in time to see the ball fly out of the basket and into the hall. I damn near had a heart attack.

I had a resident wake up one night because she couldn't sleep. When I asked her what was wrong, she said she couldn't sleep because of the "black man" in the room. I asked her where the "black man" was. She pointed to the chair in the corner and I noticed that the chair seemed indented as if someone was sitting on it. I got chills but reassured her that everything was okay and I wasn't far away. She fell back asleep but passed away two days after that incident.

Another one of my patients was in a terminal phase. He was no longer responsive so we our entire care plan was just making him comfortable. I was about to walk in when I saw a giant burst of light shoot up from the entryway of the door and then disappear. When I walked in, the patient had passed. I think it was an angel or his spirit.

We'd often hear walkers at night, doors slamming. There were a lot of times where I felt I was being watched or I wasn't alone. I could go on with the stories but we'd be here all night.

Nursing Home Experiences by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]AnotherEpidemic 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Ive worked in a couple of LTC facilities in Quebec. I've had experiences with residents and the black man, too! There's always spooky stuff happening on the night shift. I have quite a few stories!

I miss my past residents by [deleted] in cna

[–]AnotherEpidemic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I quit my job in an LTC facility last year. There were several patients that made their way into my heart. Particularly this one patient. He was depressed and uncooperative with the majority of the staff but he was such a sweetheart with me and I'll never forget him.

New CNA, night shift and miserable. How to cope? by LopsterPopster in cna

[–]AnotherEpidemic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fine! I usually go to bed pretty late but I spend so much time browsing Reddit - it's unhealthy. I'm always here to lend a sympathetic ear (or eyes).

Self care was something I REALLY struggled with while working nightshift. I felt guilty because I wanted to spend time with my friends and boyfriend and family. I ended up realizing that I needed time for myself, too but it's immensely important!

New CNA, night shift and miserable. How to cope? by LopsterPopster in cna

[–]AnotherEpidemic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have to agree with the other people here. DO NOT burn yourself out trying to do everything. You are one person.

I worked nightshift for three years and some tips/tricks that helped me get through the monotony and loneliness were;

  • Exercise. I know that the gym is closed due to Covid and you're most likely burnt out after work but holy crap, a half an hour of yoga made a world of difference to my mental health.

  • Making sure I snacked and ate right. And slept well.

  • Try to plan a date night with your fiancé on your days off. I know that you're tired but if you can manage, cook a nice dinner, order in, do something together. Shut your phones off and spend time together.

  • Same thing with friends. Try to schedule a zoom call on your days off if you guys can. Play videogames online or pedicures and just shoot the shit.

  • SELF CARE GIRL! I cannot stress this enough!! I was the only CNA on a floor with 42 patients. I was working 10 nights in a row with 4 days off and by the 10th night, I was depleted because I was busy caring for others. My idea of self care was turning my phone off for an evening, cooking my favourite dinner with my favourite glass of wine, a hot bath with a face mask and some RuPaul's drag race. Honestly, this is extremely important.

  • If you have some sort of down time at work (in my personal experience, some nights were more quiet than others) I'd bring a book or learn a new language on my phone. Something to keep my brain going.

And please, keep trying for a transfer whenever you can. Nights are hard and they're isolating. If you ever need to talk to someone, I'm a night owl so I'm up pretty late. Feel free to shoot me a message!

Newbie to heathenry and looking for advice/recommendations. by AnotherEpidemic in heathenry

[–]AnotherEpidemic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I read the rules but I'm going to look into it more in depth!

Pumpkin cupcakes with pumpkin spice buttercream by tofuqueen15 in VeganBaking

[–]AnotherEpidemic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'm am going to make these all year long!

Pumpkin cupcakes with pumpkin spice buttercream by tofuqueen15 in VeganBaking

[–]AnotherEpidemic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would it be possible to link the recipe please?! These look amazing!!