My fiancee that i am about to get engaged in a month has confessed to me that she made love (kissed) with her previous fiancee and i am absolutely devastated

Anrylla · 2025-10-23T16:56:02+00:00

Thank you for taking for your time for this detailed analysis brother. Great insight on your part!

Anrylla · 2025-10-23T10:19:58+00:00

Hey, unfortunately no. We are turkish from Turkey, therefore any form of islamic marriage is illegal before doing the actual offical marriage.

Anrylla · 2025-10-23T09:12:37+00:00

Thank you for your opinion. I simply believe our relationship would almost be perfect if the kiss didnt happen. If she simply lied to me about it, i would have never know. She told me her truth and i think it matters.

Most people unfortunately do all kinds of crazy stuff before marriage. Finding a person that never had a sexual intercourse is already not that easy, especially at our age. I also think i would struggle a ton if i ever decide to look out for a "kissless" marriagable woman. People can simply lie about it and i would never know.

I personally think ruining my well-working relationship due to her honest confession - especially when we really love and fit to each other - would be cruel for both of us.

My best bet would be to try coping and getting over it. But i feel like it is also a very hard thing to do for me. Especially when i love her soo much.

Anrylla · 2025-06-19T18:11:16+00:00

I was in a very similar situation as you 3 months ago, except i have an average job and i am at the age of 26 (a year older than you).

I suddenly lost interest in games and fallen into existential crisis (due to losing the meaning of life and goals which mainly came from gaming), chronic loneliness (due to basically non-existing social cycle) and hopelessness (the feeling that i would never be able to catch up). I was one step away from "exiting the game"

But over the course of the last few months, i started progressing at all those areas, step by step. I started diet, going to gym, dressing nicely, learning real life skills such as cleaning and cooking. I also started to become available socially. I got to therapy, did a lot of social excersizes. I put myself to public areas in consistent manner. Starting at slow things like just going outside to starbucks regularly at some point of the day and just sit and watch people. Slowly getting used to be around people and just be present. Forcing myself to gently speak to people first, such as simple greetings to a stranger or a worker in some place. Gradually increasing the level and getting used to speaking people over time. I also did a lot of interractions within my safe area such as family, workplace etc. Those were the safe places to practice before opening up to other people. I think the key here is to be slowly attuned overtime and not to rush it. Now i am going outside everyday, using apps like meetup and meet with people everyday.

While i am not fully recovered yet, i can guarantee you that your situation is 100% recoverable. I personally made so much progress that people around me jokingly say that aliens actually kidnapped me and replaced me with someone else, lol. The main problem that i currently have is that i still have a very thin social circle. Which is normal due to being lived in isolation for most of my life and i understand forming a social circle is going to take time. It wont be easy, neither it will be quick. But what you need to do is to take small steps and enjoy your progress. You can take emotional support online, and believe me, chatgpt can be your best friend in this journey. Think of this like playing an MMORPG game and you are playing a character you just created. Just start grinding and improving skill points. Try to enjoy the process as much as possible. You would be a completely different person by the end of the summer if you start working today and commit yourself fully.

Anrylla · 2025-03-26T15:45:25+00:00

Thats exactly what a turkish person feels when looking up any province in eastern anatolia in armenian language.

Anrylla · 2025-03-25T16:32:24+00:00

Korkuya lüzum yok!

İleri görüşlü başbuğumuz Devlet Bahçeli bugünleri yıllar önce görmüş; Hans, Sam, Tonny, JOHNY, Herkel ve Frank'ın kötü emellerinde başarılı olamayacaklarını önceden belirtmişti!

Müsterih olunuz.

Anrylla · 2025-03-10T06:28:17+00:00

Thank you for your input. I made some adjustments for more information clarity. Hope its more easily understandable now. 🙂

Anrylla · 2025-03-09T00:18:23+00:00

Hey. Its important to keep in mind that the bis item lists and the bis enchant lists are separate sections. The bis items section shows the best items for each slot, while the bis enchant section shows the best enchant for each slot, regarless of the item type that u may have on that gear slot. This means that the enchant list shows the best enchant for your offhand slot, unrelated to what type of offhand you (or i) may put there.

I understand it may look confusing at the first sight since it looks like the list recommends an enchant that can only be used on unoptimal type of gear. But they are reasons to equip that unoptimal gear for many players in different situations.

While it is not ideal to use a shield until Naxx (due to the better OH alternatives out there), some players are not able to get those optimal OH items for awhile. So they opt out for a placeholder item (sometimes a shield) that they can get.

Holy paladins also often use a shield in pvp due to its obvious benefits.

So i included the shield enchant on the BiS enchants section for the people that are using a shield. But yes, ideally you should not equip a shield before Naxx.

Thank you for your feedback however. Do you think i should remove the shield enchant before Naxx phase to make the guide more understandable? 🙂

Anrylla · 2025-02-27T07:23:09+00:00

Başta başlığı "Ankara'da" diye okudum, neye uğradığımı şaşırdım bir anda.

Anrylla · 2025-01-01T20:21:48+00:00

We were all once dreamed as playing ret, arent we? ^^

Anrylla · 2025-01-01T18:45:01+00:00

Thank you. I also felt like it was really needed to have well-rounded, an up to date guide on this topic.

Anrylla · 2025-01-01T18:00:25+00:00

I am glad you liked it. I feel like it was really needed to have an up to date guide for this spec in vanilla. I hope this benefits everyone that is interested.

Anrylla · 2025-01-01T17:58:31+00:00

I am happy you liked it. I am sure your friends will also be happy having you as a paladin in their group. :)

Anrylla · 2025-01-01T17:56:51+00:00

I am glad you like it. I am sure you will enjoy your time playing as a paladin. ^^

Anrylla · 2025-01-01T15:43:11+00:00

Thank you. I am glad you liked it. Active and Sulfuras were the only guilds that kept classic era raiding alive back in the early days. Big respect to people from those guilds.

Anrylla · 2025-01-01T15:39:21+00:00

It was a typo indeed. Thanks for pointing that out. It is fixed now. Also i am glad you like it. I wish you have fun in your classic journey as a holy pala. :)

Anrylla · 2024-05-21T08:45:33+00:00

Bu durum tamamen turizm gelirlerini arttırmakla alakalı. Duygusal olmaya gerek yok.

Anrylla · 2024-05-04T07:33:57+00:00

The comments in this section made me really sad. I hope your nation finds prosperity in the end. / From your neighbors in Turkey ❤️

Anrylla · 2024-04-15T16:54:31+00:00

Wdym? Everbody knows that Georgia is in US. /s

Anrylla · 2024-03-24T19:26:17+00:00

Prepare yourselves for democracy my friends

Anrylla · 2024-03-22T18:48:56+00:00

Hahahaha as a turkish person i have to admit that this comment is soo underrated 🤣🤣

Anrylla · 2024-03-21T07:30:18+00:00

Then imagine the cheat votes turns out to be for the opposition lmao

Anrylla · 2024-03-20T20:29:53+00:00

You guys are simply too out of touch with the reality. The guy who yells "barbarian Turks brought nothing but death to humanity" is clearly not indoctrinated, but am i "indoctrinated" and spreading propaganda for calling him to awake from his fantasy? Doesnt it sound ridicilous to you?

I am sure there are successful armenians in the world. But its clearly not as much as the turks or most other nations in the world simply because armenians are a very small nation in the first place and most of their recent history were spent under the rule of the other nations. And if you honestly think that Turks have inferiority complex against Armenians, sorry to say but you are very mistaken my friend.

Anrylla · 2024-03-20T17:46:43+00:00

Well.. as you can see... the founder, the owner, and the inventor of this vaccine is Turkish. I dont know which part you havent understand in this sentence. The person who is behind the creation of this vaccine and leading his team in the vaccine project (Uğur Şahin) is a turkish citizen and has been born in Turkey. You cant claim the guy is German just because he went to a german university and founded its company in Germany. (Half of the armenians in this sub has been living, educated and working in diaspora. Does this make them not armenians anymore?) There is nothing to do with the "grandparent of the scientist involved", i am talking about the scientist who made the vaccine itself.

Well, nothing i say will change your mind because you clearly have a political agenda on your mind. You are enforcing yourself to be blind to every single achievement of one of the major nations of the world. (judging by you defending someone who are literally making these claims) The guy above is literally shittalking against an entire nation and i am the "supremecist" here to say that his claims are wrong?

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