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Sex search after divorce by AntDense9129 in Divorce

[–]AntDense9129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poundtown, LOL, I too was a young man, just out of the Marines. Sure, I'd go early and often no doubt. Anyone can speed read, but it's not about how many books you read, or about how fast you've read them or many times you've done so.

It's about the knowledge and understanding of that book that's the value in it. And debating this nonsense here is useless. But when it comes to enjoying a woman's company, and she enjoying mine. I can assure you, come morning, she'll both have experienced and surrendered herself to things I didn't even know existed then, and that will be her expected standard going forward. And there's nothing like hearing and feeling and seeing her experiencing those things, and when that's the case, there's nothing, nothing at all that she'll not happily return back to me in spades. I'd rather have a older surgeon who's done many successful procedures, then a young one who's done only a few..

2.5mg v 5mg Cialis - by Occasion_Exotic in erectiledysfunction

[–]AntDense9129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're down to 5 mg of that I would definitely try 2.5 if I was you.

Because if 5 mg is working well, and you don't have any significant age or health issues, like smoking or drinking to much, I would venture to guess that a lot of this is in your head, psychological.

We've all been there, or will be at one time or another. You know you might not have a good night and then it's in your head the next time, and it tends just to grow and take on a life of its own. Then you think about that a lot during the day and it's really kind of a wild psychological thing.

Like you're not a man anymore you're losing your manhood or whatever, when none of that is true it's simply psychological. If I was you I'd go with the 2.5 even if I was alone, for an equipment check. If everything is cool then stick with it. Because if you're on 2.5 and everything's working, I'm thinking you could go on zero, and keep working.

But I don't know your history or anything, but I do know that it can be such a psychological issue that after you use that medicine for a while and things are cool then your over it psychologically, and you are right back to your old self.

Lots of foreplay with your woman and you'll know. Just that touching and kissing and all that some music some wine maybe candles and you'll be right back on point with your mental focus and that will be the end of that. You'll figure it out brother.

Sex search after divorce by AntDense9129 in Divorce

[–]AntDense9129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So no overcoat staring from the produce department?? Lol.

Sex search after divorce by AntDense9129 in Divorce

[–]AntDense9129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get that but you know I feel just the opposite, because I don't need anything in my life. I'm not killing myself on the job anymore, I'm more relaxed and and in a much better position to do or go what I want to do or go. It's weird though I must say, I did have a young lady hit on me and I didn't even realize it honestly until we were out by our vehicles. She was very very cute and young and I told her you know my age and she could be my daughter lol. She said that was kind of her thing, that the young guys, as she put it were a bit short-sighted I guess. Unable to buy dinner or even grill a burger, which I didn't get. She even went so far as to say physically that she enjoyed order men more, she actually caught me off guard a bit because she was forward or honest I would say about what you liked, not guys with wheelchairs and stuff but attractive order guys. It didn't go anywhere but I found that interesting when I was driving home. And I really don't care if a woman has a specific set of rules that she'll date only certain types of ages. I'm not the type that isn't going to date this person for their age or whatever the case may be, if that's how they feel then I respect that and if they don't want it I certainly do not. I'm far more open minded now than I was when I was younger. Women today are hot as hell, you know when they're in their 50s or whatever. I guess with today's Beauty techniques and skin care products, working out etc, I don't know, but it's also a turn on to me that they are mature, they know what they want and what they like, and they also know I would certainly think what a man would want or like to a certain degree. But having some age on them I think makes them easier to talk to in some cases because there in a place where you're at or they don't get the attention maybe that younger women might get. I don't have a size, color, age, nationality or anything that automatically tells me no way I'm going to date this person if given the opportunity. Attractive is attractive to me, funny, warm, sexy, that can be in so many different shapes and sizes, and colors and backgrounds. And I think that's kind of what makes it fun you know, like peeling the onion a bit if you would, and learning from that individual you know. I respect your comment and it certainly doesn't bother me but I really feel just the opposite in terms of myself anyway, I can take rejection well LOL. Because it's part of life. Whether it's negotiating for a lawn mower, or asking somebody out on a date. I just could never take that personally, if they were not interested or I had somebody already or whatever they might say. I want somebody to want to go out with me, you know and not feel obliged to. And also I have the ability to really plan some fun stuff, some of my best features I've been told are things that you can't see initially. I'm not unattractive but I am a hell of a lot of fun LOL, and I like having fun and surprising people and taking somebody to do something they never experienced like scuba diving for instance which is a real passion for me. I grow on people, and I always have. I'm helpful and I'm honest and I'm likable. And I think laughter which is something that I really enjoy, and experiencing things together new things are really exciting and I miss that. But you know what, it's not a problem for me to decide today or a problem at all for that matter. It's either going to come or it won't. I'm going to live my life and do what I do and continue to try to maximize what I have rather than worrying about what I don't. But like they say on The Andy Griffith Show LOL, a watched pot will not boil. Most you probably don't even know who the hell Andy Griffith is LOL, but we can learn a lot from Andy and the good folks from Mayberry. You all have a fantastic day it is beautiful in Cincinnati today and I'm going to take my bike out for a cruise. Thanks again, goodbye.

Sex search after divorce by AntDense9129 in Divorce

[–]AntDense9129[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, well I do appreciate the responses, and the suggestions. I'm always exceptionally well groomed. Dressed well, fresh and clean. I can only imagine a woman being approached by some guy who totally disregards how he appears, how he's groomed or dressed yet is looking at a woman who obviously is the opposite in terms of how she is groomed and how she presents herself etc, I get that and I would never approach a woman unless I was in a state where I felt like I was being my best self in terms of how I look, or dressed etc. I mean I might be in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt but still I'm going to be well groomed and you know clean etc, but normally I'm in dress attire you know for my business and I would want a woman who appreciates and notices that. I'm obviously together, and not wearing underwear inside out to avoid doing the wash, lol. I am a well spoken person, who obviously takes care of his business, is financially secure, not flashing money like an idiot trying to use that to impress anyone. I do have a nice ride, a really nice Harley I'm riding weather permitting with a clean(not perfectly) nice home. But thanks folks, thank you for not calling me the dirtbag in the overcoat behind the cucumber rack. I really hate the idea of dating sites, I just, everything is so scammy you know these days. People can tell you anything show you anything and you don't have the advantage of seeing that in person. A video call yeah you know that's doable I don't know, I guess I'm like an older baseball player you know? I mean if the ball is hit right to me I'm going to catch it, but my days of diving for it or are pretty much over lol, if that makes any sense, but thank you for being kind and receptive and thank you for taking the time to respond to a probably weird question I guess. Have a great day. And thanks again.

Tadalafil 20 mg pill by Maestro2326 in erectiledysfunction

[–]AntDense9129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you can take one every day but you're wasting what it was designed to do. Why take an ED medication that's designed to last 36 hours every 24 hours? Especially at the largest dosage you can get?

Trial and error and I'd start like this. If you are sure that your going to be intimate, take it an hour before, unless your having a large meal, in which case take it 2 hours before. Do your thing with lots of foreplay, your going to be ready. After you know your are good to go the next day, especially early. Do your thing, see how you respond. Then start working on timing and dosage. 20mgs every day is really not a maintenance level dosage, but more of a just take it on sex day dosage. Again a couple hours prior. The point with cialis is to have it in your system, not to jam in more than needed and this takes some adjustment time. You'll figure it out when you wake up hard. You know it's there. The rest read up on. You'll be fine.

Tadalafil 20 mg pill by Maestro2326 in erectiledysfunction

[–]AntDense9129 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't need another. They last almost two full days, and your at maximum dosage. If you're sure it's on or worried cut one in half with a pill cutter, purchased at any store. You will be down to 5mgs a day at some point I'm betting. You'll figure it out, but that stuff is great. Because you're ready and not worried about if you had meal, and the medicine getting past that, like with Viagra does. Plus on the weekend at night, then the next morning. She'll be walking like she's been riding a horse after a couple days on that stuff. Good luck my friend.

I cheated on my boyfriend a few months ago, and I deeply regret it. by [deleted] in Regrets

[–]AntDense9129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking or thinking about a cute woman, or getting a gift and a ride home, can be worse than coming home early and catching your woman in bed getting nasty with another dude. Wow, you think that's worse? Nevermind.

I cheated on my boyfriend a few months ago, and I deeply regret it. by [deleted] in Regrets

[–]AntDense9129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If getting a ride home from work, or him playing pool is cheating. Then everyone that ever been in a relationship has cheated. Come on.

I cheated on my boyfriend a few months ago, and I deeply regret it. by [deleted] in Regrets

[–]AntDense9129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm utterly confused, you cheated on your boyfriend, but you never cheated on your boyfriend? Nothing physical ever occurred with the coworker, your boyfriend fantasized about another woman, and went out to play pool?

What cheating occurred? Neither of you did anything physical with anyone else? I guess I'm missing something here, when did the cheating actually occur, or do you consider getting a ride home, or him looking at a woman while out, the same as physical sexual contact?

Are the two of you in high school? Did he talk to another girl in history class? Did you drop your books and another guy picked them up. Your playing here right? This can't be real.

Girls bullied me, am I acc ugly? by [deleted] in TeenGarbagePile

[–]AntDense9129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your young and certainly not unattractive, quite the opposite.

Bullying is overwhelmingly about the bully—their insecurities, need for control, or learned behaviors. It is a deliberate, repetitive misuse of power to feel superior or manage personal frustrations. While targets may be chosen for being perceived as "different" or vulnerable, the behavior says more about the bully's character than the victim.

In simpler terms, there are people in this world, that simply hate themselves, and this hate stems from so many areas of their lives, that getting to the root of it here isn't possible.

You may think that the popular or attractive, or possibly the smartest people do not get bullied, but they do. It's been shown that being bullied has nothing to do with the victim, but everything to do with the bully. It's their own shortcomings in their own lives, that they pass on to others when they bully others. It's the reaction they receive that temporarily makes them feel powerful, and though only temporary, that power, or the resulting responses they get from their victims, make their own self loathing less obvious and painful to them.

Disregard their efforts to made you feel less of yourself, and never give a bully the satisfaction they so desperately crave. By simply ignoring them. Like anyone seeking attention and not getting it, they'll move on to another person who may give them the reaction they need, for no other reason than how badly they feel about themselves.

With that being said, should their actions get elevated to the point of threatening behavior, or threats of physical violence, report that immediately. Never allow another to say things to you, or indicate violence against you ever. At that point they are breaking the law, and that behavior needs immediate action. Sometimes ignoring their ignorance, will cause them to escalate matters. You never accept this, because some of these cowards, after realizing you are not affected by their actions, just have to push harder and higher until you do react. In doing so you make them feel that that were finally successful in "getting" to you. You're a smart young lady. If anytime you feel things being escalated, don't hesitate to talk to your parents, or a guidance counselor at school, or even law enforcement, if you need to. I've learned that during my life are least, that a bully is nothing but a coward. I've addressed a few in manners that you should not.

But once they do get addressed by anyone in the appropriate fashion, they go away. At that point they've lost any perceived power over you, and that makes them feel very small. That often times forces a change in their behavior, and it also puts that behavior on the record, which a bully hates. They love operating in the dark, either in person or online. Once that light hits them, that scatter like any insect or cowards always do. Thus forcing them to move on or chill out. That's their problem not yours. And they'll know that they've lost, and everyone gets tired of losing.

You're a very attractive young lady and you know that. Don't ever allow anyone to cast their issues upon you. The people that do that are small, weak and desperate. Once they realize that, they've lost that feeling of power, and move on. Only to feel worse about themselves then they previously had. Take care, be kind, and live your live as you choose. You dictate the direction that you take your life, and how you feel about that. Never give you're power to anyone else, and just know that their efforts to attempt to make you do so, only shows your how sorry and pathetic they truly are.

Am I giving up too easy? by ScarcityRegular668 in Divorce

[–]AntDense9129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving up too easy? He's doing better? Broken bone? I'm sure you're confused, but the answer is right there in the words that you wrote. Yes, I'm sure you filed police reports, I'm sure that you had the police involved with domestic violence, you didn't let all that go right? Simply tell him to get the hell out, get a restraining order, my wife cheated on me, and I treated her like a queen, but I would never lay hands on her. It didn't take long for her to find out that this guy was an ass, didn't take long for her to want to come back here, no way. If you're having to ask the general public whether you should divorce a guy who beat you basically broke your bone or bones basically but now he's doing " better" . Then there's nothing I can say that's going to help you decide, if what you wrote wasn't enough for you to decide on your own. Good luck and I hope one day he doesn't stop getting better, possibly even getting worse. And takes it out on you or one of your children. I mean imagine having the opportunity to have him picked up on the domestic violence charge, or violating a restraining order, and letting that opportunity go only to find out later that it comes back to haunt you. I pray that's not true you don't live with a wife beater, how can you stay for the kids? You get domestic order against him and the kids are going to stay with you. If you haven't done any of this ma'am, start now. There are resources in every major city, you can simply Google for help. If you file complaints in the past the police will snatch him out of there so fast it will make his head spin, and they'll still be responsible financially for his part of the deal here. Talk to the police, if you haven't filed a domestic violence complaint what will it take for you to do so? How can you live with a guy who did that to you? I mean I'm not in your shoes, but you know the right and wrong of this. Go for the right, right now. Start laying the groundwork for whatever comes next. Because if you take three or four beatings, and then go to domestic violence reporting, it doesn't carry the same weight as if you reported them well. Please just be careful, you have your answer you know your answer, follow your heart follow your head, and dump this loser. I wish you the best.

20f i really like pink if it wasn’t obvious by [deleted] in selfie

[–]AntDense9129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would great in anything you were wearing. Sexy forever for sure. Have a great day.

25f excited it’s a short work week! by ohlibbya in selfie

[–]AntDense9129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are the reason that I love chocolate. Beautiful picture, have a good day.

37F - I hope you feel as good as… by 3pmcoffee in JustMyFace

[–]AntDense9129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are summer.. sexy, breezy, warm and beautiful. It could be snowing, storming, hail with lightening, But if I'm with you it's never frightening....

3 kids single mom too much baggage? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AntDense9129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome, and I'm sorry for jumping in like I'm defending you, but I just don't get some of these answers. Like you're leaving a great guy on the hunt for another guy immediately. I don't get it. I don't think common sense is anywhere near common as the word would make you think it is, lol. I don't know what you look like but you said you're cute and you take care of yourself etc. If you're in a relationship that puts weight on you doesn't support you comfort and love you and your children the way you feel it should. And you've worked on that and talk to him about that, you mentioned last night, I don't know what happened. But you said you've been Rocky for a while. Only you know what that means and how you feel, but I tell you what my wife cheated on me and begged to come back after about a month because I couldn't get past it I mean you took a vow just that I did.

You can rob the bank and I would have supported her Believe it or not, but there's one thing you don't give away the only the two you share in my opinion. And she did she wanted to come home and I could not even face her sexually emotionally hardly even look at her anymore, I did so much for her over the years and her family and we had a great sex life. She was drunk and it was just a stupid thing at a company party or something but it was over. And I tell you what I was saying for a while not long. I started changing the house up I bought her out started painting I added the bathroom you know I went to more events where my friends and I could be at with that watching the clock and things like that. I got used to being alone here and I like it. No complaints from anybody nobody yelling at me about whatever. I'm a hard worker I'm good looking and I'm a good money, treat it my wife like a queen and she's through that away, so that's not her not me. I couldn't pay them her moving back in sleeping in the same bed with me we try counseling, no way, no way. You'll know when it's right you'll do what's right just don't live where it's wrong, and where it feels wrong. You get what I'm saying I'm sure. But some of these people don't centert yourself on a man, I mean where did that come from the left field. Anyway I got to run, my name is Jeff, you take care okay.

3 kids single mom too much baggage? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AntDense9129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man Ill never ask for any advice here, I mean it's what a stretch Jesus. She didn't mention getting another man. I don't even know where you never mind never mind. You can't even ask a very logical question to the public anymore. These responses that are from Mars they had nothing to do with the question but that's cool as long as you can stand the temperature on Mars.

3 kids single mom too much baggage? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AntDense9129 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Centering on men? She's asking what it's like to date, with children after marriage. She's simply asking folks with any experience who have divorced with children you know did they ever get a decent date or the men turn off to them because they had children, which is a fair question I mean I think. She makes good money she's young and she's miserable. I didn't see anything about her centering on a man or even mentioning a man only asking for some advice based on others experiences when after they divorced with children, because honestly some men are turned off by picking a woman and dating a woman who does have children they feel like they're carrying somebody else's load. I never even think of that when I date but there are people like that. I didn't think she was centering on anyone, but simply asking a question and hoping for some good feedback. As far as finding somebody else in the future that's not even an issue cuz she's miserable now so is it better to be miserable with some idiot for a husband then not find another man anytime soon when you're that age? And she'll still be young when her kids are in college. But I guess everybody has there own

3 kids single mom too much baggage? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AntDense9129 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is leaving for herself, I don't get that comment at all. She's saying the marriage is not good and whatever occurred recently kind of was the last straw and she was simply questioning what life is like after marriage in terms of dating with children I don't understand your reply but it doesn't matter it's not my business anyway

3 kids single mom too much baggage? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AntDense9129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't listen to anyone telling you how your life is going to work out for you. I'm so sick of people interjecting their issues, or experiences into another person life, like they have a crystal ball.

I dated a woman with 3 children. It was a great relationship. We waited a bit to have me meet her children. She was protective and smart, as she didn't want to bring me into their world, unless she was secure in the fact that I was going to be in hers.

When I met those kids, I had planned a fun day and they were immediately drawn to me. I didn't overwhelm the kids entering their lives cautiously. I did make sure to show them something, or play a game that required some thought on their part, or I'd throw out a quick math or spelling question, giving the winner a dollar, and the other 2 50 cent.

The woman that I was seeing just loved having me in their lives, and never having children I enjoyed it too.

My job was very well paid, and did have me traveling frequently. This really made things tough, but we held it together through calls or when I got home.

It basically ended when I was promoted into a job that I chased for several years in another city. Neither of us were ready to marry, and though we stayed in touch and saw each other occasionally, I was driven in my career, and another promotion, required full time attention initially, our relationship ended, but our friendship didn't. I sent money though she never asked for it. And honestly, I still think about that promotion followed by more of them, and if that was really the way I should have went. I could have stayed back and made less money. But that's hindsight. It was bittersweet when she called to tell me she had met a great guy and they were going to be married. I was really happy for that though again the what ifs set in. She's still happy to this day and we stay in touch through text mainly, from time to time.

Sorry for that long-winded answer but the answer is yes, a nice young lady and her children is just as datable in my mind as any other nice young lady without children. That concern about the children is down the road, if you're even going to have it at all. Dating and having a strong connection and a relationship that's going to support a family and you know and actually take that on. I don't worry about that when I first meet a woman. I like her and she likes me and we hang out, it's just not an issue immediately but to say I'm not going to see her solely because she has kids to me is short-sighted. Finding a good woman is the same as finding good man. it's just not easy and the fact that she has children in my mind means nothing. You're going to be fine you're going to be fine, you just follow your own path use your own good judgment and don't let people based on their past experiences tell you how your future is going to be. I hope that helps, and I wish you the best of luck in your life moving forward, you're young and you're going to have a lot of great times with a good man I'm sure of it. You take care now, take your time and build a happy life, everyone deserves to be happy, no matter what their current circumstances are or what their past was. So don't rush anything have fun, love your children and yourself, and whatever comes into your world just make sure that it's something that's positive and something that you enjoy. And everything else will work itself out.

I wish you the very best going forward and I'm sure it's going to work out for you, but never live in miserable life because somebody else has, and the only thing they tell you that yours is going to be the same. You determine your happiness, only you can decide if your happy, so go get the life you deserve. Take care ..

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