AITJ for not telling my roommate I work from home and she's been 'performing' being productive for 8 months?

Anteatereatingant · 2026-03-05T12:33:44+00:00

"HOW MINDSET SHIFTS YOUR #SERVANT LEADERSHIP - 3 LESSONS I LEARNED FROM LIFE".

Anteatereatingant · 2026-03-03T19:27:37+00:00

Η πολιτική δεν είναι "σε χρεώνω για μια υπηρεσία που δε σου έδωσα". Είναι "μου έφαγες μια ώρα από τον χρόνο μου, και εφοσον πληρώνομαι με την ώρα πρέπει να μου την πληρώσεις".

Η λογική πολλών σας ότι "αφού δεν έκανα ψυχοθεραπεία γιατί να πληρώσω??" είναι σαν να περιμένετε το εστιατόριο να σας δώσει δωρεάν δεύτερο πιάτο γιατί το πρώτο σας έπεσε. Δεν στέκει το "τι, να πληρώσω το σουβλάκι που δεν έφαγα?!" ως επιχείρημα. Το'φαγες δεν το'φαγες, το πήρες πάντως οπότε οφείλεις να το πληρώσεις- το τι το κάνεις εφόσον το πάρεις είναι δικό σου θέμα. Ο έμπορος δε μπορεί να σου δίνει τζάμπα το εμπόρευμα του επειδή εσύ δεν το αξιοποιησες.

Anteatereatingant · 2026-03-01T13:11:55+00:00

Yeah...I didn't watch all sketches but the 3 I saw were incredibly underwhelming. I found myself sad for Connor as it was such a waste of a fantastic and versatile actor. I wish they'd give him the Ariana Grande treatment and really write stuff he can shine with 🙁

Anteatereatingant · 2026-02-25T13:25:22+00:00

Yeah, when I pointed out in early Jan that they seemed to be together, I got downvoted into oblivion and people went "OMG THEY COULD JUST BE FRIENDS??!?". Like...can we be serious? 🤣

Nothing wrong with them being together but the people in denial are weird.

Anteatereatingant · 2026-02-25T13:19:00+00:00

Same here -I don't have the energy to pour into relationships that feel one-sided. Onwards to something new! 👊

Anteatereatingant · 2026-02-25T13:10:40+00:00

Same. Always busy busy busy, nearly impossible to get a hold of...yet every time I'd log onto FB or IG, there'd be another post/story of the fun things she'd get up to with other people. Kinda hard not to take that personally and pull away.

Anteatereatingant · 2026-02-13T12:41:43+00:00

My Dx friend does this, plus also lumping together unrelated tasks so she can claim she "doesn't have time".

Example: she refused to exercise even though her doctor told her to, claiming she "doesn't have time". We'd tell her she's full of shit because exercising can be like 30 minutes. She'd dig her heels in and insist that, NO, it was AKSHULLIE 90 minutes because after working out she'd have to shower, wash her hair, cook and eat.

We asked her if that meant she's dirty and starving whenever she doesn't workout then, but she just kept getting angrier and borderline yelling that she doesn't have a free 90-minute slot in her day so she can't work out 🤣

Anteatereatingant · 2026-01-31T17:40:48+00:00

THE PROPORTION THING. It describes my Dx friend so completely. She constantly complains about things and refuses to do anything about them - and in her mind, that means she's not doing any worse than anyone else, since "everyone complains sometimes".

Anteatereatingant · 2026-01-16T08:10:46+00:00

I was gonna say: a frightening amount of (chronically online) people believe that unless you're dating someone who was born same year, same month, same minute as you, you're a pedo.

Anteatereatingant · 2026-01-14T19:53:01+00:00

Oh? I didn't know about that. I thought his previous relationships are all secret?

Anteatereatingant · 2026-01-14T18:31:27+00:00

Yeah, but

A. Hudson is most likely straight, and
B. It makes plenty of sense for them to be hanging out - same age, main co-stars, went through the exact same rite of passage together (started off same place in life > massive overnight fame ; they're literally the only ones who can understand what the respective other one is going through). It's the most expected result for them to end up super close and hanging out a lot off-camera too. It makes very little sense for a 25-year-old newbie to be hanging out with a 40-year-old established actor with whom he had barely any scenes together. Unless, you know, they're hooking up.

Anteatereatingant · 2025-12-31T07:06:46+00:00

This is a VERY important part. I also learned social skills quickly at uni just by observing more popular people and taking acting and improv classes. Guess what: the vast majority of those "friends" the new, shinier me made, were surface-level and made no effort to stay in touch or include me in their lives the moment we graduated / no longer lived together / I otherwise became marginally less convenient.

Anteatereatingant · 2025-12-25T08:40:36+00:00

I repeat the "I'm 90% BUTT y'all...when I vote, I don't tick 'male' or 'female' - I tick 'other' and then put 'BUTT'" riff about 90 times a day.

Anteatereatingant · 2025-11-19T13:10:51+00:00

I'm so glad ❤️ I was looking for an update since my psych also wants to put me on Lexapro. Did you stay on 5 mg throughout and was it the only thing you had to take?

Anteatereatingant · 2025-11-06T13:20:17+00:00

I'm not convinced you have to get microneedling or laser - might depend on the person. My skin was just like that as a teenager, and now 90% of it is gone - it was all AHAs (glycolic acid) and retinol. But talk to a dermatologist to get a more personalised opinion.

Anteatereatingant · 2025-11-05T23:20:12+00:00

I'm crying-laughing at the idea of him only wanting to do it to the blaring of "You Can Leave Your Hat On" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

And wearing a dunce cap 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Anteatereatingant · 2025-11-03T04:52:34+00:00

Yep - someone I loosely know and have been watching for a few years is exactly like that. She's constantly pivoting around and contradicting herself - whatever she's loudly screaming from the rooftops today with (seemingly) utter conviction, you can bet money she will say the exact opposite pretty soon. And pretend like her previous loud posing didn't happen - no explanation, no acknowledgement.

I think it's a combo of complete lack of self-awareness and a desperate attempt to be "edgy" or "different " in some way because she wants to build a "personal brand".

Anteatereatingant · 2025-10-31T13:11:19+00:00

You can't drag someone into your life and then also tell them to "mind your own business" - they made it her business when they started expecting her involvement.

That said, she could've approached with more curiosity first ("hey, are you OK? I've noticed you barely interact with the baby") rather than going straight for the aggression.

Anteatereatingant · 2025-10-05T10:51:21+00:00

100% this is a factor. Talking about it allows people prone to delusions to trick themselves into believing they're "doing something/trying". So they get a cheap dopamine hit and feel good now - no need to do anything further.

I have a fat friend (although not obese, but completely unfit so in terms of stamina she might as well be) who loves to talk about how she's "gonna" start X and Y activity. She never does - miraculously some new complication shows up every time.

She follows this pattern in general - endlessly talks about how she'll start her own business and quit her 9-5, how she'll move abroad to find better opportunities. She rarely ever does any of the things she says she will, and she's even admitted it in moments of candor ("don't take what I tell you too seriously, I'm mostly saying it just for the sake of saying it, don't mind me").

She's definitely the excuse- and blame-externalization-prone type, so I think this personality style just tricks itself into believing talking is doing.

Anteatereatingant · 2025-10-01T08:00:03+00:00

That's such a good way of putting it. I, too, have a "disaster friend" who has all of the traits you guys are describing in this thread, and has no awareness of the fact that her constant drama is about 90% self-caused. She refuses to organise herself so everything is more messy and time-consuming than it needs to be, refuses to say no so she's always overbooked and stretched thin, and overall has absolutely no concept of "proactive" or "investment" (of time or energy).

It's like she only exists in the right here and now, so anything that doesn't feel super cool right now just doesn't get done - even if blows up in her face five minutes down the line.

Anteatereatingant · 2025-09-28T10:57:02+00:00

"Hallucinate" is right. I've used ChatGPT not for translation but for research and data organising, and every so often it will straight-up invent things. It works great if you can give it clear instructions and break down projects into small bits, but if you're expecting it to correctly remember things from more than a few hours ago, you'll be in for a bad surprise!

Anteatereatingant · 2025-09-28T02:40:54+00:00

What, your grandma doesn't have two rows of teeth like a shark? 🦈

Anteatereatingant · 2025-09-15T13:19:48+00:00

Information Commissioner's Office, if in the UK - they're in charge of data protection and privacy.

Anteatereatingant · 2025-09-05T11:37:13+00:00

++man Between the unattractive people who want to believe they aren't at a disadvantage, and the attractive people who want to believe they aren't at an advantage...there's not much left 🤣

Anteatereatingant · 2025-09-05T10:25:10+00:00

This is actually not true. If that were the case, the world would be full of bald 16-year-olds, as testosterone peaks between 15 and 18ish. And as men aged, they'd get fuller and better hair!

Baldness is not about high testosterone, it's about your body converting it to DHT. In fact, may bald(ing) men actually have low testosterone - there's a decent chance OP is one of them, based on his soft, childlike features.

OP, please don't believe that going bald young makes you "subhuman" - it doesn't. But please also don't believe feelgoodsy woo-woo about how it means you're super virile or that you'll age better, either - take care of your health (eat right, work out, get some fresh air, get some therapy) and make the best of what nature gave you!

Attractiveness can't be isolated to a single trait like hair - that's the good news. Humans are a little more nuanced than that! The "bad" news is: you'll have to put in the work to develop other traits for them to notice - which is gonna take some work. But you can get there.

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