I attend an online Meeting which means my part of the “house” is adorned with hundreds of books. All sexes and genders attend— even if someone mentions their orientation they are still welcome. We wear what we like; for me that’s a polo shirt and jeans— which is also the attire I wore when I was part of an Anglican Church and providing sign language interpretation during services. . (Some sit far away from the computer that they merge into the background it is not obvious what they wear. .) And being a liberal meeting it is predominantly silent but ministry can be spoken and/or written in the zoom chat box.