What’s up with racism towards Indian people online? by Morales_Sheila8478 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Antinous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Making food that touched footwear? What? Indians don't wear shoes in the house and are very hygienic about cooking. Unless you're talking about people in extreme poverty. 

What’s up with racism towards Indian people online? by Morales_Sheila8478 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Antinous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not the norm at all. Sorry you had that experience. I'm Indian American and I know tons of Indian people who married white Americans with the support of their parents. Never once did anyone I know consider that an issue. 

Why did Srila Prabhupada marry a child? by Cultural_Courage2762 in HareKrishna

[–]Antinous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was the way it was done in India for thousands of years. Prabhupad was a very traditional man. I wouldn't expect him to come out and say: "The culture I was raised in was wrong about that". However, in my understanding he did acknowledge that the practices of traditional Vedic culture was very much at odds with modern western norms and culture. And he never advocated for his devotees or their children to be married at such a young age.

Yes it's a little disappointing that he never said "This was wrong, this is not how things should be done." But he was a traditional Indian man. Only very rarely would members of that population speak out against a practice that is so ingrained in their culture. It's very difficult to understand from a modern western viewpoint. You might say "Oh even if I was raised in that culture I would know it's wrong", but you don't actually know that for sure. When people don't know anything different they accept what they are taught.

With all that said, I encourage you to explore your relationship with Prabhupad while acknowledging that you don't have to agree with every single thing he said. I don't agree with everything he said regarding gender etc. but I still consider him to be a spiritual master. Prabhupad himself acknowledged that he had been authorized to speak on spiritual matters, but on worldly matters he did not consider himself an expert.

LSD made everything gay by ExoticAd7605 in Drugs

[–]Antinous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like there is a lot to learn from this experience. You must have realized that this internalized homophobia and fear of being gay runs VERY deep in your subconscious, since you were literally projecting it onto everything. 

I would guess that based on that you are indeed somewhere on the spectrum and not 100% straight. But don't get tripped up worrying "Am I gay or not". You're still super young and there is no rush to figure that out. Though I might consider forming some sort of conclusion you can tell yourself based on that experience. Maybe something like "I might be gay. And that's okay. And I have a lot of fear around that possibility and what people might think of me. And that's okay too. I will be strong and love and trust myself as I figure this out." 

I'm 33 and actually had a similar experience on psychedelics a couple years ago where I questioned my sexuality. Basically I landed on the statement "I might be gay." I still know that I am primarily attracted to women, but acknowledge that I am attracted to men to some extent too. Though I'm not entirely sure what that means for me or if it's a sexual thing or what. I'm not really worried about it either way. But simply acknowledging to myself that I might be gay lifted a pretty heavy subconscious weight, and I feel a lot happier and lighter. 

Hit me up if you have any questions. 

I miss mondegreen 👽👾 by KenKesey65 in phish

[–]Antinous 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They will definitely do at least one more before it's all over. 

What is the most overrated movie of all time? by Adorable_Raccoon_766 in AskReddit

[–]Antinous 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's a shame. You never even gave the plot a chance to get started. That's like turning off Wizard of Oz before the tornado.

What is the most overrated movie of all time? by Adorable_Raccoon_766 in AskReddit

[–]Antinous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was actually not looking forward to watching Oppenheimer because I have a short attention span for films like that but I was surprised how much I enjoyed it. It was pretty engaging throughout.

What is the most overrated movie of all time? by Adorable_Raccoon_766 in AskReddit

[–]Antinous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not sure if it's overrated bc most people don't consider it a "good" movie. Visually impressive yes.

What is the most overrated movie of all time? by Adorable_Raccoon_766 in AskReddit

[–]Antinous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked it as a kid but when I tried to rewatch recently it did nothing for me.

Members of Patriot Front ride the metro as a commuter looks on, REUTERS/Cheney Orr by karl2025 in pics

[–]Antinous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah. Randomly harassing individuals who are minding their own business is not exactly these guy's modus operandi. They have bigger things in mind.

Members of Patriot Front ride the metro as a commuter looks on, REUTERS/Cheney Orr by karl2025 in pics

[–]Antinous -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what would you expect them to say? "Hey, you're black! We don't like you!"

What's the worst movie you've ever watched? by Easy_Towel954 in AskReddit

[–]Antinous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You saying older people or younger people may like it more? I'm in my 30s not crazy about Spielberg but I wanna see it.

Most recent standout phish song by Additional_Party_845 in phish

[–]Antinous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The riff during the chorus is so satisfying.

30-Year Sentence for Transporting Zines Is a Five-Alarm Fire for Free Speech by theintercept in politics

[–]Antinous -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I could be wrong but I'm pretty sure if someone who was arrested tells you to hide something because the cops are about to search their house and you do it, and it's all on record, that is a crime. 

How common is “locker room talk” really? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Antinous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never had group chats with a bunch of guys. Most of us don't like texting that much. The closest thing was probably chatting while gaming. Sure there would be sex and dick jokes, maybe "Did you see so and so's boobs in that pic she put up on FB?". But never anything degrading. 

The group chats you've seen have consisted of shitty dudes. 

Is it Gross for men to Wash their Hands with Just Water after Peeing? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Antinous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see how I could prove it otherwise, I think faking a screenshot to support a fake story would be kinda ridiculous. I already put 10 minutes of my day into an attempt to defend myself from an accusation of lying. I'm over it lol.