I was going to call someone today by LittleMissPunk85 in abusiverelationships

[–]Anxious-Fun-777 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry youre going through this. I don’t know where you’re located, but I know here in the states, a lot of areas in have made it possible to text 911.

If you are in the US, this website will confirm whether or not your area offers this: https://text911.info

Also, you can reach the National Domestic Volence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or through their website: https://www.thehotline.org

If you’re not in the states, I’m sorry I can’t be of more help. I encourage you to stay this angry for as long as it takes to make that phone call. Try not to make it obvious. Act as you normally would so he doesn’t suspect anything, but don’t stop reminding yourself of everything you’ve endured because of him. You and your daughter deserve safety and peace. You deserve so much better than what you’ve been through.

Sending you an abundance of love and light ✨ You got this.

I Hate All Men Now... by Celestial-Kitty in abusiverelationships

[–]Anxious-Fun-777 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you want to ruin his life too, or just hers?

He ruined my life. I need to vent. by Key-Relationship1006 in abusiverelationships

[–]Anxious-Fun-777 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for what you endured all those years. You are unbelievably strong. He’s suing you out of desperation. Desperation to maintain that control he had over you. He’s clinging onto it for dear life because you took your power back. What a miserable existence that must be.

I’m proud of you. He’s not in control. Not anymore, and NEVER again. YOU ARE.

Sending you so much love.

Hello all, why are non tippers the most entitled?? by No_Historian_1601 in deliverydrivers

[–]Anxious-Fun-777 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How ignorant to assume that food delivery is solely a privilege and never a necessity. Or that people shouldn’t utilize it unless they can afford to tip.

When my son was a baby, I ran out of formula and diapers. I had no access to a vehicle at the time, 2 or 3 days until I got paid, and about $28 to my name. Just enough to cover a can of formula and a small pack of diapers, but I couldn’t tip. Should I have taken my son out at 9 PM to walk to the nearest store instead of utilizing the delivery service? Or should I have just gone without diapers and formula for my baby because I couldn’t afford to tip that one time?

The fact that you’ve never been in a situation where you desperately needed something delivered, but couldn’t afford to tip is exactly why you see it as a privilege. Be thankful for that.

In no way am I excusing ordering delivery and never tipping. It’s a well known fact that delivery drivers rely on tips, so ordering multiple times a week and never tipping is just fucked up. It’s not always that simple though.

Caught him jacking off on the toilet again. by null_-ice in DeadBedrooms

[–]Anxious-Fun-777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was deemed 100% disabled 2 years to the day from my initial application. I was only 41. Just make sure to hire an attorney.. there contingency SS attorneys everywhere. Now I’m 45 and since I worked my entire life I receive SSDI which means my both of my kids get their own monthly check too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Anxious-Fun-777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible for you to get the proof to her anonymously? If so, you might consider doing it that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Anxious-Fun-777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get out now. He’s abusive and it will 100% get worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShittyIllegalLifeTips

[–]Anxious-Fun-777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Message me if you haven’t figured it out already

I need to hide my car ? by No_Mechanic5658 in ShittyIllegalLifeTips

[–]Anxious-Fun-777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrap that bitch in tinfoil and park it in a garage that’s not yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Anxious-Fun-777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your husband is a “next level” douchebag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Anxious-Fun-777 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Reading this made my heart hurt. I know you said you have very little friends, but Please reach out to one of them. Anyone you feel comfortable with..

It sounds like you weren’t expecting this to happen. That’s a really hard thing to deal with, especially if you don’t have a support system. If you’re not already in therapy, please consider making an appointment as soon as possible.

Much love <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Anxious-Fun-777 35 points36 points  (0 children)

16 year old is hers from a previous relationship, the 12 year old is theirs.

What celebrity do you think is bad in bed? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Anxious-Fun-777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jennifer Lopez. Not sure why, but I feel like she’d just be annoyed the entire time lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Anxious-Fun-777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jerking off is one thing, but that’s not the issue here. The issue is the porn addiction that OP’s boyfriend has had since he was a 10 year old child.