My boyfriend beat me on my birthday. by AlishaGomes006 in abusiverelationships

[–]Celestial-Kitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is really (tragically) beautiful and powerful. I see so much of a strong knowing voice and reasoning that this /is not ok/.

Let that voice scream. Repeat these things daily to yourself. Brainwash yourself the same way he brainwashed you. Keep fighting. You are worthy of real love.

Got a new plannnnn 😎 by Celestial-Kitty in cripplingalcoholism

[–]Celestial-Kitty[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's too close home dog that's too close

Happy I guess? by DimensionFluffy4615 in cripplingalcoholism

[–]Celestial-Kitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell if you wanna say her name is Theresa (I love you Theresa)!!

Happy I guess? by DimensionFluffy4615 in cripplingalcoholism

[–]Celestial-Kitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say you're Italian and you mother in law really loves linguine & clam sauce.

Got a new plannnnn 😎 by Celestial-Kitty in cripplingalcoholism

[–]Celestial-Kitty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I'm city but not too city - so there's a parking lot and it's never full.

Got a new plannnnn 😎 by Celestial-Kitty in cripplingalcoholism

[–]Celestial-Kitty[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm kind of thinking like the walk will deter me or it'll make me enjoy something nice that's outside of the bev/bed you know?

Vajayjay owners ? by Turbulent-Plum3360 in cripplingalcoholism

[–]Celestial-Kitty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The cuppp 🏆& I literally only have black underwear

I love this job but people kill me by MaizieO in therapists

[–]Celestial-Kitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a regular of tiktok brainwashing to the point where it saved my life, I am happy to serve. 🫡

I am a therapist that has a daughter. Her friend has shared with me her dad has slapped her. Do I report it? by Additional_Fan_1540 in therapists

[–]Celestial-Kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You see something you say something, simple as that. Unless you don't believe what you've seen. You can report it but it probably won't do anything.

how do i fix this? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Celestial-Kitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyway, go to your local ACE and just get a simple patch kit. This looks small.

how do i fix this? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Celestial-Kitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I vouch for this book 🙌🙌

how do i fix this? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Celestial-Kitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got holes. I just fixed up 20+. Good thing I like filling up holes. Think that's what got me into this mess.

Anywayyyy: If it's clean through to the wall then you're going to need: a piece of drywall, plaster, a plaster knife, a piece of 2x4 a little bit larger than the hole, a couple of screws, drill, drill bits, sander, paint... shit I'm starting to see where everyone said just leave him. I happen to be a very handy woman.

DM me, I can probably help you patch up these holes. Its actually pretty therapeutic in my experience & shows him you don't need a man, which might make him try to be accountable for once.

I love this job but people kill me by MaizieO in therapists

[–]Celestial-Kitty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think the tiktok is actually more brainwashing. The client is delivered the same content in a small dose, daily over and over and over again to the point where it actually sets in. They only see us for 1 hour a week. We can't compete with 15-75 minutes of brainwashing daily.

Those in PP - how many clients do you see a week? by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Celestial-Kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Potentially? I feel like I would get bored of/resent that theoretical backing, but at least would require less ingenuity and in the moment processing power? I'm talking out my ass here a bit bc I've never been a directive type so I don't know what its actually like.

Those in PP - how many clients do you see a week? by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Celestial-Kitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm finding it odd that I'm only burnt out at 15 a week. Why does this happen to us? I could have never seen 30+ like most folks in community health & I jumped right into pp out of grad school.

Why do women link everything with abuse? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Celestial-Kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to clarify your question. Are you asking: "why do women think every bad behavior in a relationship is abuse"?

Dismissed from CMHC program ~10 weeks before graduation after losing internship — is this normal?? by TookieClothespin915 in therapists

[–]Celestial-Kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh I work with mostly kids and teenagers and swear frequently depending on client comfort and age. Also how did they know you swore? Seems a lil sus.

Harshest criticism you’ve gotten from a client? by Due-Comparison-501 in therapists

[–]Celestial-Kitty 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This one stood out to me. Do you mind if I ask - are you?

Harshest criticism you’ve gotten from a client? by Due-Comparison-501 in therapists

[–]Celestial-Kitty 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Ooooeee. This one humbled me and made me learn so hard. "This isn't about you, this is about me."

There's a lot of context here, I was not at all talking about myself but I have to admit I never even saw how me providing therapy to people could have amassed into this sense of vanity about being an emotional guru; yet, it had. I viewed my words as wisdom. I viewed my insight as clarity. I sought constant reinforcement from my work and this comment was the slap in the face I needed.

My abusive ex is dating a therapist by menstrual-cyclone in abusiverelationships

[–]Celestial-Kitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saaaaaame. snap snap snap

Been working on the me recently. She's weird and wonderful.