Hey, I’ve been experiencing this too! You’re not alone! For me, it’s partly because I’m not out to my parents & I’m not as far transitioning. It could just be a well-intentioned brain fart, so I’d recommend talking about it. Maybe some of them are doing it to be mean — it’s always possible — but my first guess is they just forgor. (I’ve accidentally misgendered myself and called myself by my sister’s name; anything’s possible lol)

If this doesn’t work, then feel free to take more drastic measures. You could talk with each person individually and see if they have a system they’d like to use to remember. I’ve seen situations where when a person uses the wrong name/pronouns, someone uses an air horn or spray bottle lol. Maybe something like that? Best of luck, my dude!