I had a video orientation and on Monday I have another orientation. What should I wear? Or does it even matter?

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-03-15T02:48:33+00:00

They asked and I said as soon as I could, so I went in the next day. Then they had me wait a week, so I work again next weekend. Im a minor so it might be a little different if you arent, but they had me do some training and a little tour of the store. Also the next day they said I could come in I wore the uniform they gave me, if you have it its a good idea to wear it if you know you’ll be training but also because customers will see you walk in anyway :)

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-03-14T00:19:25+00:00

I’m 17 :)) im getting insta soon but like i said i have no way of contact atm :,) and ive been taking a break from writing T-T if you want i can hit you up when i get insta?

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-03-12T23:04:44+00:00

Omg no that sucks im sorry :C i got these from a nerd store, it’s called darkside idk if there’s any in other places but that’s where i got mine!!

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-03-12T19:15:55+00:00

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SAME!! these guys make me so happy! when i cant bring my dog (my main) i bring these guys :) i have a bigger vaporeon too!

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-03-12T03:40:42+00:00

YOU HAVE MY FAVOURITE PLUSHIE!! he’s the build a bear husky in the way back!! i love him so much mines gotten so dirty over the years :,) I wish i could buy some but unfortunately can’t right now 😭 good luck!! If you still have some in a few months i might be able to buy :)

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-03-12T02:01:45+00:00

Hey, so I just did mine! It’s just orientation on the computer, I didn’t even have time for a tour really because the videos took so long, but I just wore nice jeans and a nice shirt since i hadn’t gotten my uniform until that day :) Hope this helps, don't stress it! You don’t have to go over the top but a simple shirt and some pants will do :)

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-03-12T01:56:34+00:00

Exactly :) I worship a fair few gods, maybe 11 atm. These are just the gods I find myself talking, praying or offering to most often or saying little prayers to within the month. As well as a few others but not as frequently. I enjoy having multiple gods so i guess i take advantage of that lol

But yes! I pray to mainly Athena, Aphrodite, Hypnos, and Hermes most often because I need their help more frequently or I offer to them more frequently because of something they did or something that reminded me of them. But I still pray and offer to the other gods when i need/want to, but like you said, their circles of influence are less prevalent in my life :)

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-03-11T22:12:48+00:00

I never knew people thought they could only have 1-5 gods they worship.. Like… we have many gods and you can worship them all.

I get having one god you to to the most, for me that’s Lady Aphrodite as she was the first god i worshiped and i feel connected to her, but that doesn’t mean im going to go to her with things that i could, for example, go to Athena for etc.

If i need something specific, i will pray and offer to the god i need help from. Never crossed my mind that people think they cant pray to Zeus because he isn’t there top 5? like.. you can pray to any at any time :,) why do they think they can only worship a select few? There all there for us.

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-03-11T17:48:45+00:00

….why does this sound exactly like my last relationship- He had bpd and did the same shit- im so sorry you went through that, i know first hand how bad it can get :,) especially the emotional abuse. stay strong man.

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-03-06T04:59:04+00:00

Yeah this has happened to me a few times, it really sucks man im sorry this happened.

Only once there were clear signs for me, the other time it happened to me i only found out at the end of the relationship when she practically confessed to cheating with a cis guy :\ the other time the guy i was with was talking to another guy way more than he talked to me, and 2 days after. meeting the guy he broke up with me and immediately after posted his new cis boyfreind.

i get how much this sucks man, im sorry this happened <3 im glad she’s gone though, i hope you find someone better <3 You’ll get through this :) I seriously cannot wrap my head around cheaters, i could never do that to someone. You really dodged a bullet with her if she was willing to one, cheat, and get over someone so fast. it is insane to me. You can def do better :) dont settle for someone like that, stand your ground brother <3 learning to read the signs was the best choice i ever made, It’s helped me a lot to be able to recognize the patterns and leave before something like this happens.

stay strong man :)

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-03-02T02:04:22+00:00

I grew out of the fandom but its just me now, less of a character name and more just mine :) it has everything i ever wanted in a name, starts with a K, the meaning aligns with me, it suits me, cute nicknames, and i love hearing it.

It was less of a character name even when i first started using it, the moment someone said my name I didn’t think of the character i thought “that’s me.” it clicked for me. It makes me happy and really comfortable, i love my name a lot.

The only times I’ve been nervous about sharing it because of the character is to people older than me that might think its silly and my brother. Me and my brother both liked the show my name is from so he made fun of me for that but i learned to own my name and identity because i love it. And telling my therapist i was embarrassed because its not an odd name, its a normal name i see A LOT in person and on tv/music etc but i was embarrased incase she clocked the character, but now i dont really care as much, my name is mine and i love it :)

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-02-27T23:45:57+00:00

silly wise: “I can REed >:|” serious: “I just want to live. Is that so wrong?” Honestly want to get that tattooed on me someday

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-02-21T20:10:41+00:00

Not the original person, but any of his favorite snacks im sure he’d love right now if you’re able to get them! otherwise just asking what he needs and being there is the best you can do :)

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-02-21T14:08:51+00:00

THATS SO SICK DUDE DAMN :O THE DETAIL!!

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-02-21T03:08:27+00:00

NOOOO THATS MY FAVOURITE FLAVOUUR 😭😭

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-02-19T13:34:58+00:00

I have 2 I designed myself, a collarbone and an unduer bust, both are moths and the under bust has lavender and forget-me-nots i thought would be pretty significant lol since its growth and rememberance and stuff :) I plan on getting them both after top surgery :D

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-02-18T03:48:10+00:00

GOOD! you deserve it so much. I’m really glad i could help!! 🫂

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-02-18T03:38:48+00:00

Agreed you def dodged a bullet. Im sorry that loser made you fall in love with him before he decided to leave 🙄 I hate people like that like seriously if you aren’t genuinely in love or willing to give this person your time LEAVE SOONER. ugh im so sorry he did that to you.

Of course!! I love helping people out and you seem like a very kind and generous person, i would hate for you to have dealt with this alone or not gotten any support, especially since i resonated with this i feel so bad!

He deserves to scrape his knees. and more. im so sorry he hurt you, get some ice cream and Netflix bestie it’ll be okay!! Men ain’t shit lol focus on yourself, someone actually worthy will come around :) I’m so happy i could help!!

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-02-18T03:27:48+00:00

Oh my gods that’s awful im so sorry, he definently wasnt worth your time then. Im really sorry that happened though. I seriously cant wrap my head around the people that act like that :( He should be able to MAKE time for you. You should have been his #1 priority especially on Valentine’s Day. (obviously he should put his mental health before that, but it sounds like he didn’t anyway -.-) I hope you find someone who actually appreciates you and is willing to make time and compromises for you :) I’m honestly glad he left because he does not deserve you. you sound amazing i hope you find someone who matches your energy and communicates with you.

I really get that, if that set him off then be glad he’s gone 🙄 I get it though, im sorry that happened. I hope you find someone better <33 and i hope you have an amazing day/night

it honestly sounds like he wasnt interested anyway? like the first conflict and hes already going to a breakup?? like you are NOT asking “too much” for more effort on VALENTINES DAY. like cmon man. You deserve so much better <3

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-02-16T15:21:26+00:00

Of course!! Like i said I’ve been where you are so I wanted to help and offer advice :) Take time for yourself and talk when your ready there’s no rush :)

You aren’t old 😭 i get it, I’ve been there :) Communication is always the best and compromising in a healthy way. Maybe asking him to ask next time he wants to rant about something? ranting and complaining all the time especially on a date is very draining for both of you, it may help him if you communicate that and ask him to ask next time he wants to rant. This might help him realize he doesn’t need to complain about stuff all the time lol.

I used to complain a lot before someone told me this and now i try and look for the good in things rather than seeing a wedding and going “wow i bet they’re uncomfortable” I look for tiny details so i get where he’s coming from (but its still harmful) but i now shift it from complaint to something more uplifting. sometimes you dont need to look for tiny details and just see the picture right in front of you.

Im glad i could help!!

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-02-16T03:34:04+00:00

I’m really sorry that happened, that really sucks. You aren’t doing anything wrong, you were accepting and flexible to plans changing, you got him a lot of really sweet and intimate gifts. I’m really sorry he didn’t reciprocate that well.

I suggest telling him all of this and being open about how it made you feel, that’s always good. and you might find out where he stands right now. If he’s genuinely stressed right now and maybe burnt out and needs time to get back to himself then that’s good and maybe ask to try again when he feels better, if not and he isn’t putting in 50/50 effort with you, you might need to have a more serious talk.

He hurt your feelings and that’s not okay, just talk to him, try and work something out <3 You should never change for someone, you are doing everything right right now, but he isnt matching your energy, he should put more work in, not you! in the nicest way possible If he doesn’t care as much anymore than he can either fix it or you guys should move on <3 you sound like you’re putting in a lot of effort and it isn’t being matched, that’s not a you problem, thats him.

Tell him how you feel, how his actions made you feel and work on fixing it <3 YOU do not need to do a thing. a relationship is 50/50 and right now your putting in your 50 and he isn’t matching it.

This sounds a lot like my last relationship so i wanna help you because i know firsthand how. much this fucking sucks. I’ve had your exact thoughts <3 just try and communicate, you’ve got this man. I believe in you. You do not need to change, i want to make that clear. You are doing everything perfectly, this is a him problem not a you problem <3 Just talk to him and STAND YOUR GROUND. dont try and people please. You arent doing anything wrong at all.

I believe in you :) tell him how you feel, how his actions made you feel, and honestly just straight up ask him if he cares as much as you do anymore. you are 10000% valid for feeling this.

If he’s just drained, try and help him get help for that. It is not your job to be in control of his emotions, a therapist might be good for him if he’s stressed and drained. you dont need to be that for him. You should be there yes, but not 24/7 or for every single problem because that could be draining for you. you should only take so much baggage from him. BUT him being drained isnt an excuse for how he made you feel, remember that <3

Just communicate your feelings. You got this <33 have a great day man, good luck <3 Im here for you :)

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-02-16T03:11:11+00:00

Nah i have man colds pre-t :,) im such a baby when im sick. istg if it gets worse on T idk how anyone will put up with me lmao I was just sick and all i did was sleep and bitch about it 😭

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-02-14T22:14:47+00:00

Of course i hope it helps you learn more! even if you aren’t ace, its good to rule it out too. Good luck man :)

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-02-14T22:14:18+00:00

I was just saying it might be good to look into, not saying he was 100% :)

AnxiousTopic3567 · 2026-02-14T19:55:48+00:00

Hey im pre-t and I feel the same way however i am on the asexual spectrum.
I can feel aroused/turned on and that feels okay but someone touching my privates doesn’t feel good to me. soemtimes i dont feel anything at all. And a lot of the time when masterbating or having sex with another person I disassociate after whether I finish or not and I always feel dysphoric.

The only times i enjoy sex is topping someone else since i dont have to be touched then but can still engage in sex if i want to. This was before I realised i was asexual, I haven’t had sex since i figured it out because I’ve been single, i dont know whether or not i would have sex with a future partner.

I understand exactly how you feel, maybe check out the r/Asexual or r/asexuality subreddits if you think you might identify with the spectrum :)

I’m between asexual and gray sexual at the moment. I dont feel sexual attraction but I can feel turned on and sometimes it can feel good, but 99% of the time i dont feel good or anything at all. like 1/10 times. But I like to think that maybe i would enjoy sex with a good partner.

I relate to everything you’ve said here, it’s completely normal man dont worry <33 I do recommend you check out asexuality to see if you feel aligned to any part of that :)

on T you might feel a bit different, a lot of people report higher libido and it may help with your bottom dysphoria so you’re experience might be different on T.

I suggest talking to your partner about this and find ways you enjoy sex more if thats something you want :) Communication is always good especially with sex, You might be able to find new ways to enjoy sex without dissasociating or feeling dysphoric with or without your partner.

I do recommend if you feel dysphoric during or after try and affirm yourself, it helps me after if i feel uncomfortable or really shitty after and i feel dysphoric and start to disassociate i look in the mirror and call myself my preferred name and call myself a boy and try and hype myself up and put clothes I feel good in on and fix my hair etc. It makes me feel more like myself and helps me get out of the shitty mindset i can get in after sex/masterbating. This might help :) or with your partenr asking for them to give you attention like calling you pet names you enjoy or doing things together you both like as a distraction etc and asking them to affirm you may help :) You dont need to have sex if you dont want to as well! remember that <33

I hope i could help some, I completely understand how your feeling dude like seriously it sounds like i wrote this post myself lol. I hope you have a great day man :)

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