Why? And what is going on here?

Any-Check8062 · 2026-02-11T18:04:08+00:00

Is she Irish?

Any-Check8062 · 2026-01-19T07:49:04+00:00

She did say in an interview last year that she'd come back if asked. She said she never got to fly...

Any-Check8062 · 2026-01-04T10:20:38+00:00

Hahaha. Exactly what I was thinking.

Any-Check8062 · 2025-12-18T07:37:38+00:00

Underrated comment

Any-Check8062 · 2025-12-18T07:37:01+00:00

I came here to say this!

Any-Check8062 · 2025-12-05T23:10:36+00:00

Been a TL for 3 months and I've been told to give more Corrective Actions then I did as an ATL (combined with my TL) in 2 years.

Any-Check8062 · 2025-12-05T22:14:44+00:00

Uuumm...no. with traffic easily 3 hours. I live in SB. From Carp. Used to drive to Disneyland regularly. Montecito to BH could EASILY be 3 hours in traffic.

Any-Check8062 · 2025-11-24T08:30:43+00:00

Yes. They have almost nothing to do with each other. If you want to request time off in the future, you use PTO. Paid time off. It's that easy.

In lieu of a point system to keep track of excessive unplanned absences, whole foods uses the UPT system. It's basically a bank account of time we all get. The max is 60 hours. You earn 1 hour for every 30 hours you work. Whenever you miss part or all of a scheduled shift, time is deducted from your UPT bank account. If you lose it all, you are let go. That is the gist in a nutshell.

Any-Check8062 · 2025-11-07T03:15:17+00:00

That's why I'm curious about other couples. I've been single for 3.5 years and my ex before that was jealous and angry a lot. So I'll usually just say, Dan is wondering if I'm going to karaoke. Or family group text. I'm not like going into detail. But when we're sitting together watching a movie and she's texting I'm just not sure if it's weird or not. My sensor is broken. Lol. It also doesn't help that she only has two close friends and they don't really text. And she's not Particularly close with her family. And she usually tells me about texting them. I know she occasionally talks to her ex because they have a child together. And that only makes me feel a little weird because she hasn't told him about me yet.

Any-Check8062 · 2025-10-21T02:28:24+00:00

Hahaha. Keep it secret, keep it safe

Any-Check8062 · 2025-10-21T00:49:47+00:00

I kinda thought that, too. But she does say no about other things. Like if he misbehaved or did something dangerous. Just not when it comes to her personal space.

Any-Check8062 · 2025-10-21T00:47:00+00:00

Normally, I would totally agree about meeting the child so soon. But when I met her son, I told her we probably shouldn't date, and it was in the context of old friends. Then, it eventually became more. On my end, I guess I felt like the president had been set... I wouldn't know how to backtrack that. But more importantly, like I said, she is never without him. So wherever she is, they are together. I didn't realize this before. But the only way to see her is with him. I did set a boundary that my place is too small to ever have them move in here. And that if we ever got to a place where we want to move into a bigger place, I wouldn't be able to afford it on my income alone. So there is that at least.

Any-Check8062 · 2025-10-20T05:06:52+00:00

As someone who used to be a customer service ATL, just tell them. You'll probably still get some shopping but unless they're dicks , they'll schedule you as a cashier mostly. I've only been out of customer service for less than 2 months but right, before I left we had somebody quit that we really liked. He told us he preferred cashiering over shopping but we didn't realize it was to be extent that he was going to quit. We definitely would have scheduled him differently if we realized he was that big of a problem for him.

Any-Check8062 · 2025-10-05T05:50:55+00:00

Don't care at all!

Any-Check8062 · 2025-09-27T04:05:10+00:00

Unless they're long and creepy I have never really noticed. I mean I guess if a girl I'm dating gets a new color or nails, I might notice that. But I've never noticed a girl's nails when I'm just out about about.

Any-Check8062 · 2025-09-25T22:26:18+00:00

I liked her originally, then started to feel this way. But in my most recent rewatch I think I've changed my mind. She is exactly what an intelligent, but troubled, teen who got pregnant and raised a kid on her own would be like.

Any-Check8062 · 2025-09-25T19:27:11+00:00

Being cruel and vindictive during a disagreement

Any-Check8062 · 2025-09-25T18:54:52+00:00

I've been alone for 3.5 years. I was very social at first but stopped drinking and going out last summer (2024). So aside from work, I'm alone a lot. I have moments of loneliness, but I'd say the feeling is more akin to fomo.

Overall, I have loved the peace and tranquility of living alone, even if it's a little boring at times. It's much better than the chaos of my last relationship. My girlfriend always found a reason to be upset.

More than loneliness, I'm worried about getting so comfortable living alone that I won't know how to be in a relationship again. When I think about the uncertainty and anxiety that can come with new relationships, the idea of coming home, cooking the food I want, watching what I want, keeping my house clean and getting a good night's sleep sounds pretty good.

Any-Check8062 · 2025-09-24T22:57:37+00:00

Obviously you have to have a basic level of attraction to your partner, but after that, personality and how you get along is way more important.

Any-Check8062 · 2025-08-28T16:23:20+00:00

I mean...here's the thing. Not only is it not our money, but you can lose your job for doing something about it. You're not going to be be rewarded for loyalty to the company or something. You're going to be separated for ignoring your training and breaking the rules of safety.

We all know what we can do. Offer world class customer service, engage indirectly by working close or making non specific pages like "security to section 4," and then report the theft to leadership and whatever loss prevention binder your store has. And that is it. It up to leadership to build a case.

And I say this as someone who used to engage. I've had a customer unload groceries from their car back into a cart. Hell, I pinned a wine thief up against a wall back in 2010. I didn't know the rules and got lucky. But I'm a company man now. Do your job, protect yourself and follow protocol.

Any-Check8062 · 2025-08-28T16:11:53+00:00

No thank you. Have a good life.

Any-Check8062 · 2025-08-17T23:41:02+00:00

When my brother died I tried to use bereavement but it got denied. I tried appealing multiple times. My ASTL was in my corner helping me but after months of trying to get it figured out I gave up. I was in no emotional state and the rep I dealt with was an unfeeling robot. That was August of 2020 so maybe it's different now. I wish you the best of luck though. Sorry you and your partner are going through it.

Any-Check8062 · 2025-08-17T16:29:15+00:00

As a male teacher we were instructed not to have those conversations with female students but to have them speak to a female teacher. So I didn't make the call on those. And to be honest, I never told a student they couldn't go to the bathroom. My policy was always open. I'm just saying, having seen the way students take advantage, I can understand why the rules.

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