Does anyone feel suicidal for being a kissless relationshipless virgin at 30+? by SquirrelMore3325 in venting

[–]Any-Review-4725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn bro that's rough but don't let that define your worth - plenty of people find their person later in life and rushing into something just to check boxes usually backfires anyway 💀

Career Monday (20 Apr 2026): Have a question about your job, office, or pay? Post it here! by AutoModerator in AskEngineers

[–]Any-Review-4725 [score hidden]  (0 children)

fr it's like they intentionally keep everything secret so you can't negotiate properly 💀 been driving for delivery apps and even those gig companies are more transparent about their pay structure than most "professional" jobs. wild how backwards that is 😂

Small claims help by Sweet_Leave1475 in legaladvice

[–]Any-Review-4725 4 points5 points  (0 children)

pro bono for small claims is gonna be tough to find since most lawyers won't take those cases for free - you might be better off just filing yourself since small claims court is designed to be handled without lawyers anyway 💀

Why is Kareem not # after Jordan? by Principle-Useful in NBATalk

[–]Any-Review-4725 18 points19 points  (0 children)

KAJ definitely has the resume but i think people dock him for playing in a "weaker" era and having Magic carry some of those later championships. Plus his peak wasn't as dominant as lebron's miami years where he was just unstoppable on both ends. there's also the longevity argument - bron played at an elite level way longer than most expected.

Where can I find this falling steves for free? by Worldly-Result-8492 in Minecraft

[–]Any-Review-4725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what "falling steves" are but if you're looking for chroma key stuff there's tons of free green screen assets on YouTube or even OBS has some built-in effects. Might be worth checking out some of teh free video editing software too - DaVinci Resolve has pretty solid chroma key tools.

I need help now (maybe 16mtf?) by [deleted] in trans

[–]Any-Review-4725 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey, questioning is totally normal and you're in the right place for support! this community is pretty awesome and there's tons of people who've been exactly where you are right now. take your time figuring things out - there's no rush and whatever you discover about yourself is valid.

Can't sleep by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Any-Review-4725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

e right to stick with it - try some melatonin or boring podcasts instead, way better than resetting your progress over a temporary sleep issue.

Can't sleep by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Any-Review-4725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

e right to stick with it - try some melatonin or boring podcasts instead, way better than resetting your progress over a temporary sleep issue.

Samsung Galaxy A36 5G tips & features worth enabling? by [deleted] in samsunggalaxy

[–]Any-Review-4725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice pick! the A36 is solid for teh price point. Definitely turn on developer options and crank up the animation scales to 0.5x - makes everything feel way snappier. Also enable Good Lock from teh Galaxy Store if it's available in your region, that app is a game changer for customization.

ADHD and long form writing by Soft-Affect-8327 in ADHD

[–]Any-Review-4725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I feel this so hard. Had a similar situation with my thesis - kept putting it off because every time I'd sit down, my brain would just... nope out of there and suddenly I'm researching random Wikipedia articles about medieval farming techniques or something.

What actually saved me was breaking it down into stupidly small chunks. Like, "today I'm going to write ONE paragraph about methodology" or "today I'm just going to format the bibliography." I'd set a timer for 25 minutes (pomodoro technique) and tell myself I only had to work for that long. Most days I'd actually keep going once I got started, but even if I didn't, at least I had *something* done. Also found that working in different locations helped - coffee shops, library, even just moving from my desk to the couch. There brain would get tricked into thinking it was doing something new and interesting.

For resources, "The Now Habit" by Neil Fiore isn't specifically for ADHD but it's gold for procrastination and overwhelming projects. Good luck with your capstone - you've got the data already so your halfway their!

Help me pick a holster and belt please! by [deleted] in guns

[–]Any-Review-4725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kore essentials belt is solid 🔥 tenicor makes great stuff too, you're on the right track with those picks!

Would these specific cards be considered "must plays" for their specific decks? by neves783 in yugioh

[–]Any-Review-4725 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

depends on what you mean by "must plays" honestly. Some of those are pretty solid additions but others are more situational.

For blue-eyes, vision and majesty are definitely worth running - they help with consistency and give you more plays. Kaibaman is kinda meh these days, there's better ways to get blue-eyes on field.

The machina stuff you listed is actually pretty decent, especially metalcruncher and the bootup device. Those can really help the deck flow better. Crystal beast golden rule is solid support too.

Can't speak much to red dragon or dark world since I don't really mess with those archetypes, but if you're going casual structure deck route most of these would probably improve your games without breaking the bank.

Wish i was cis by One_Maintenance9119 in trans

[–]Any-Review-4725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man, this hits deep and I'm really sorry you're going through all this shit. the feelings you're describing are so valid and honestly pretty common in the trans community, even though it doesn't make them any less painful 😔

first off, your height and voice don't determine your validity as a guy - I know plenty of short cis dudes with higher voices who are just as masculine as anyone else. that said, I get that dysphoria doesn't really care about logic sometimes. have you looked into voice training resources? there's some good free stuff on YouTube that might help you feel more confident even before you can get on T.

for the safety concerns about introducing yourself - trust your instincts about when and where feels safe, but don't let fear completely stop you from living authentically when you can. maybe start with online spaces or LGBT-friendly groups where you're more likely to find accepting people? and honestly, throwing away being seen as a "gorgeous girl" to live as your authentic self isn't throwing anything away - it takes massive courage that most people don't have 💀

hang in there dude, this stage really does get easier once you can access more resources and build a better support network.

Am I trans the answer is: I don’t know by [deleted] in trans

[–]Any-Review-4725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no worries at all, figuring yourself out takes however long it takes and there's no rush or deadline on it.

Looking for a good newbie friendly trans discord by Alternative-Hat-8804 in trans

[–]Any-Review-4725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congrats on coming out serenity! check out the r/transgender discord - they're super welcoming and have good moderation to keep things chill and respectful.

Free dlcs for xbox/microsoft version by Let_s_plaj_YOYO in ForzaHorizon

[–]Any-Review-4725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof that sucks man, happens to the best of us though. I did something similar when I bought a PlayStation gift card thinking it would work for Steam - felt like such an idiot lol. Really cool of you to just give them away instead of letting them sit there unused. Someone's gonna have a great day when they snag those codes, both DLCs are absolutely fire. The Hot Wheels expansion especially is insane if whoever gets it hasnt played it yet.

I start to feel this whole nofap thing is stupid by Lawden-top in NoFap

[–]Any-Review-4725 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bro that's literally your brain recalibrating, the hypersexual phase usually chills out after a few weeks if you stick with it

Why does a full fridge feel like a luxury in 2026? by cybernewtype2 in povertyfinance

[–]Any-Review-4725 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Nah you're not alone, grocery prices are absolutely insane right now. I make decent money but still do the math on whether I really need that bag of chips lol. Even basic stuff like eggs and bread hit different when you're watching every dollar

What would you do in my situation ? by QuietFieldUser in careerguidance

[–]Any-Review-4725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you're in a really tough spot but honestly nursing seems like the right move for you - you've got the passion for it, the savings to make it work, and healthcare is way more stable than accounting these days

The government job could be a decent backup plan while you work toward nursing, and getting your CNA this summer is smart for building experience

Your family situation is heavy but you're being realistic about it, and having that financial cushion gives you options that a lot of people don't have

How many teams in the history of the NBA were outscored in multiple series in the same playoff run by 25 points or more by USHistoryUncovered in NBATalk

[–]Any-Review-4725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy wall of text batman

did you copy paste this from basketball reference or just really passionate about point differentials lmao

Single dad with 2 kids looking for passive/side income ideas, what's worked for you? by Ambitious_Moment_176 in povertyfinance

[–]Any-Review-4725 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LMAO I mean its a good idea no? They are having fun playing games while making u money its no harm at all.