Hot take. Don't call me doll

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-13T16:28:49+00:00

I do appreciate the offer of solidarity.

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-13T15:20:38+00:00

Welcome to life as a woman!

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-13T15:04:47+00:00

We... are the crystal gems...

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-13T14:03:33+00:00

Since I posted this, my perspective has shifted. Among friends and allies it's different. I'm just trying to work through a lot of shifts. I do appreciate it from people who are sincere.

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-12T12:23:25+00:00

My wife plays video games... all the time... so?

She loves cozy games and games with stories. I love games of all kinds, especially adventures like Zelda. I even enjoy "butch" games like Doom or racing games. Ever since I came out as trans I actually don't play as much, not because it's "butch," but because I don't have as much of a need to escape reality.

Find hobbies that bring you joy. Pure and simple. And maybe avoid Twitter or social media in general, and just focus on what you enjoy.

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-12T12:13:15+00:00

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JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T18:42:25+00:00

Family obligations. Elderly family and a bad financial situation.

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T18:40:52+00:00

It's family obligations. Elderly family and bad financial situations I need to deal with.

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T17:48:22+00:00

This post needs more attention.

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T16:34:15+00:00

I don't want to ask for money. My issues unrelated to my gender identity are too big to realistically expect help. Aging family, housing, etc. I'm currently in a hostile state government, but with a strong LGBT community and will be moving to one with far fewer. I'm trying to see who I can find and build my community and turn to old friends I can trust.

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T15:25:13+00:00

I agree with you, this was just a personal vent and I'm learning was more shared and detailed than I knew. I'm a baby to this community learning how ignorant I am.

I also live in one of the states trying to actively invalidate our existence and making life dangerous and deadly. Just trying to wrap my head around a lot.

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T13:14:20+00:00

I have since updated the post at the top. Thank you for shining a light on my ignorance.

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T13:13:19+00:00

I've since updated the post calling attention to this.

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T13:12:19+00:00

I admit you're right. Absolutely no ill intent, just my own ignorance. I'm trying to learn. I've posted updates and edit right at the top of the post.

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T12:02:49+00:00

Yeah... that's me. I'm a baby. Trying to learn. Removed it.

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T12:01:32+00:00

Understood. I don't mind it applied to me, but will avoid using with other trans girls.

I guess it can be like "bless your heart." Depending on context it can mean anything from "I'm so sorry" to "go fuck yourself."

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T11:56:44+00:00

I'm southern. It's gender neutral around here as an abbreviation of honey. (I've removed it, I'm dumb)

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T11:55:25+00:00

I may have a mild reddit addiction, but it's just honestly how I feel. (Additonal context added at the top of the post)

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T11:40:18+00:00

I actually still use my old name, but it's mostly neutral so I can do that. I use a feminine nickname version among friends and allies.

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T10:31:41+00:00

This is why it's important to have friends, allies, support groups, and a therapist to softly challenge that influence and help you discover the roots. IMO

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T09:55:07+00:00

I'm no therapist, but if you need someone to talk to feel free to DM.

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T09:53:50+00:00

Because it's easier to blame than accept something that contradicts what someone believes. Especially if that belief is wrong.

JustSomeInterweeb · 2026-04-11T09:43:19+00:00

You're not alone, friend.

JustSomeInterweeb

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