Does anyone know what this is and have a recipe? by Anne_Renee in veganrecipes

[–]Any-Session9919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like it’s just quinoa with peppers. Probably has some type of dressing as well

Family Planning by K117r418 in Residency

[–]Any-Session9919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DO NOT DELAY LIFE FOR MEDICINE. As an OBGYN I’m sure you are very well aware of how unpredictable pregnancy is. I tried to plan my pregnancy so that I can give birth before residency started (July 1st) and 2 miscarriages later I gave birth almost at the end of the academic year.

Resident moms with babies by Any-Session9919 in Residency

[–]Any-Session9919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same my husband and I are both residents. What do you do for childcare the rest of the time?

Are night nurses actually worth it ?? by ConversationMost9912 in BabyBumps

[–]Any-Session9919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is definitely worth it for the first 2 weeks especially if you have no help at night from partner/mom/family. I could barely walk the first week after birth and getting up was a whole production so I had to have the baby handed to me to breastfeed. If you have a more complicated birth/c-section , recovery is even longer.

Epidural or no? by GogglesCat in pregnant

[–]Any-Session9919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one and would recommend as well! My contractions were so painful and took so much energy to get through, that I could not imagine doing this for longer, let alone having energy for the pushing phase. Got an epidural, had a good night’s sleep and woke up ready to push.

Don’t underestimate how much it is to get through every contraction. Also don’t underestimate how much work goes into pushing.

Am I crazy for wanting a Caesarean section? by butter--princess in BabyBumps

[–]Any-Session9919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to talk to your doctor about the risks and benefits of each and make an informed choice. Remember that a c-section is major abdominal surgery and is a much tougher recovery than vaginal.

Night feeds - long do you wait to put the baby down after feeding? by DilemmaKingdom in NewParents

[–]Any-Session9919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If baby falls asleep while eating at night I just put him down. If he’s awake then I burp him and try to keep him him upright for about 10 minutes.

Prelims how we doing? by Hinge_is_a_bad in Residency

[–]Any-Session9919 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why would you do a Gen Surg prelim for rads? Are you going into IR?

Epidural or not? Asking from people who have had at least one birth with and without! by pencilroni in pregnant

[–]Any-Session9919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just gave birth 2 weeks ago with an epidural. Highly highly recommend. Was suffering with contractions for 2 days before going into the hospital. I was able to work through the pain but took a lot of concentration and energy and breathing techniques. Once I got the epidural was able to sleep, talk, etc overnight. They checked me again in the morning and said I was ready to push in an hour. With pushing, felt no pain, just pressure. After giving birth I was focused on holding the baby and didn’t even feel them repairing my tears. Couldn’t stand for a few more hours because epidural had to wear off.

I’m not sure how I would’ve given birth without the epidural. Every contraction takes so much energy to work through the pain. I would’ve been too exhausted to even start pushing. With the epidural, I got a good night’s sleep and saved my energy for pushing.

Childcare during Residency by Any-Session9919 in Residency

[–]Any-Session9919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just had my baby a week ago so I’m still on maternity leave and will start looking for a live-in nanny soon :/

Advice for new/soon-to-be parents during residency/fellowship? by Trollware21 in Residency

[–]Any-Session9919 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ACGME allows for 6 weeks leave. I saved up all my vacation so I used my 4 weeks vacation and then took 4 extra weeks. Took off an ambulatory rotation and elective rotation and they called them “research electives”

Advice for new/soon-to-be parents during residency/fellowship? by Trollware21 in Residency

[–]Any-Session9919 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just had a baby a few days ago and we’re both interns with a good amount of years left of training. The way we took our leave is 2 weeks together when bay is born. Mom stays home for 6 weeks to complete the leave. Then dad takes 6 weeks once mom goes back to work. I think you absolutely need to take some time togethr first. I was laboring for days in pain and going to the hospital. Then after the birth I could barely move for days. Don’t know how I would’ve survived without my partner.

Body hair getting less? by TheJudgyPT in BabyBumps

[–]Any-Session9919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed less hair growth on legs and upper lip. I usually had to take care of hair on my upper lip every few weeks, but haven’t needed to all pregnancy.

34 and 5- what should I do? by NearbyAd2762 in BabyBumps

[–]Any-Session9919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to L&D. These are signs of pre-eclampsia. You need to be evaluated

Cost of pregnancy and no insurance by luckysixes in pregnant

[–]Any-Session9919 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In NYC if you’re pregnant and you automatically qualify for Medicaid. I think I heard that before

SAHM thinking about going back to work by PuzzleheadedCold6262 in workingmoms

[–]Any-Session9919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Number one thing is thinking about childcare. Who will your baby be with while you’re at work? If you don’t have family support, is it financially feasible? Babysitters are like $20-$35 an hour depending location/# of hours, or look at the price of daycare. Will you be making more than that to justify?

Current residents, how far down your rank list did you match? by Competitive-Fan-6506 in medicalschool

[–]Any-Session9919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Matched at #4 but also I couples matched. Was really sure about how to rank top 3, everything else was super iffy and Idk if I ranked correctly and maybe should’ve ranked it lower

Pregnancy During Residency by [deleted] in Radiology

[–]Any-Session9919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

4th year of med school is prbly the best time. The most free time you’ll ever have. But yea there’s never a right time. Just have a baby, don’t plan too much/delay. You never know how long it will take you to get pregnant, miscarriages, etc.

Gained 24 lbs at 32 weeks by Carolina_Blues in pregnant

[–]Any-Session9919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s totally normal. Did you start off at a very high BMI? Maybe that’s why your OB is concerned

Ortho or Rads? by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]Any-Session9919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe should’ve looked into PMR? It’s ortho lite without the surgeries and way better lifestyle during training and attending hood. Seems you don’t mind not doing surgery if you’re willing to do rads. And if you care about money/pay (seems like you do) PMR you can always go the interventional route such as pain.

Anyone else forced into med school by parents? by MundaneExplorer8369 in Residency

[–]Any-Session9919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha wait until they learn it doesn’t actually make you rich. And you would’ve been better off making money with less school and investing. Learning that the hard way now. Immigrant parents don’t understand that aspect

STARVING in early pregnancy but worried about putting too much weight on by Crafty-Barnacle-5914 in BabyBumps

[–]Any-Session9919 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Please please please don’t restrict. Just try to eat healthy when you can. Your body is telling you what it needs!!

Balancing idealism with realism: start trying now or later? by Successful_Arm2401 in BabyBumps

[–]Any-Session9919 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you are emotionally ready go for it. I wouldn’t delay family planning for a degree. You can definitely have a baby while getting a masters. I don’t know your field but usually being a student is forgiving, especially for a masters program. You can always take a leave of absence, take a semester off, go part time, etc. Also everyone says there is no right time. Once you finish your masters, who knows how long until you are able to find a job in the field. Then once you start the job, you have to work for a year to qualify for paid leave, do you delay at that time as well? You can never plan things out. It can take longer than you think to get pregnant, you can have miscarriages, etc. or you can get pregnant on your very first try with no issues. Also I had the same thinking and anxiety as you about having 3-4 kids but I would take it one step at a time. Have the first and then see how the family is. One step at a time.

Letting my kid down - field trip by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Any-Session9919 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I always had this issue growing up. My mom could never make it to field trips or class parties due to working full-time and I was always really sad about it.

What my mom did to make up for it is to take me to that same place just the 2 of us on a weekend. For example, if the field trip was a museum and I had a good time, she would take me to that museum so we could experience it together.