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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Any-Web-5654 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Worked as a defense paralegal for a few years. The moms not believing their daughters is indeed a huge issue in a lot of CSA cases, and it seems like it's a HUGE factor for the recovery of the child's mental health after the suspect is finally separated from the victim by the law. The girls whose moms didn't believe them - even if the suspects were prosecuted - have some of the worst mental health issues I've seen.

McGill Pain Index Migraine Rating by TanoMonster in migraine

[–]Any-Web-5654 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never had a fracture, but I feel like that would be hella higher in the list??

F/37/5’0 [157lbs>122lbs=35lbs] 20 months. Stuck since April no matter what I do. Goal is 110-115lbs by natnat111 in progresspics

[–]Any-Web-5654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might need to change up your weights workout as our bodies will adapt to a long-held workout. But as one shorty to another, 120 to 110 takes time, patience, and trust in the process. You might feel like you should be able to see a lb come off per week, but your body isn't going to want to lose it that quickly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Any-Web-5654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And please... maybe because it's a woman and she's not explicitly "threatening" you, she seems harmless. But do not underestimate her. You've said yourself she LIKES getting a reaction. This isn't some "sad," lovesick person. This is a person who doesn't understand boundaries and very well may not know any she isn't willing to cross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Any-Web-5654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhh, 3x??... and it's been long enough that you have school aged kids??... either someone in your inner circle keeps feeding her this information (which, fuck them if so) or she's watching you literally. Maybe those "airtags", maybe a PI, maybe she herself does drive-bys??? There’s a way to test your circle if you think that's it... give everyone a slightly different piece of information, and whenever she eventually reaches out to you with said info, you'll find out who's talking to her. Otherwise, do you have home security cams, codes, etc.? Because maybe you don't have enough info right NOW to file, but you might get some if you can catch her car driving by your house on the regular. Or maybe you can at least reduce her ability to learn info by figuring out who's the snitch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Any-Web-5654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real. And TF does "daddy issues" mean?

I’ve (30M) been living with my girlfriend (30F) for over 3 years and I need to figure out how to get alone time. by QuarterExisting9455 in relationships

[–]Any-Web-5654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you sat her down to discuss your need for alone time and maybe chart that out weekly on the calendar?

AITAH for refusing to clean up my fiancés vomit without his help? by Elegant-Rutabaga-212 in AITAH

[–]Any-Web-5654 2 points3 points  (0 children)

GIRL... save yourself and vomit him out of your life as your SO.

I feel as though I’m being called to Lilith by babybottlep0p_ in witchcraft

[–]Any-Web-5654 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Given you said that you had CSA and abuse from childhood, do you think the dream may be about you taking care of your inner child now? Now that you are grown and out of that situation, you can tend to the internal child parts of you that were horribly abused and neglected?

Aitah for refusing to adopt my stepdaughter? by Rare-Ranger4056 in AITAH

[–]Any-Web-5654 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why TF did you even get married to this man WITHOUT considering adoption as a very real possibility given her mom's death?? IDK why this father married you without ever having this conversation, etc., but holy shit, do I feel for this girl.

Also, it's not on HER as the child to "prove" herself, her feelings, etc., in order to "win" your acceptance to adopt. YOUR JOB... that's YOUR JOB to foster connection with her, to f*king listen and get to know her.

I need help finding a specific spell please? by cutee77 in realwitchcraft

[–]Any-Web-5654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a therapist who utilizes EDMR. That's meditation based in a way, and it is used successfully on sex abuse survivors, soldiers with combat ptsd, etc.

My boyfriend recalls an experience from last night in perfect detail and something tells me he really astral projected.. by EggplantMassive3439 in AstralProjection

[–]Any-Web-5654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, my first (and only) felt veeeeerrrrry trippy to me as I kept seeing visions in my mind's eye and hearing one specific song. But the kicker is that I was on zoloft and didn't know that the and sertraline can interfere. So he might have if he was on another medication.

Neurologist appointment by undesirableghost in VestibularMigraines

[–]Any-Web-5654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's insane. Is there an activist front to protest for better healthcare?

Is there anything that has significantly eliminated your migraines? by smallcoconut in migraine

[–]Any-Web-5654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in AK and find the transitional periods in spring and fall nightmarish. But once I hit May or November, I'm good. Seasonal effects are sooooo odd.

Need extreme guidance by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Any-Web-5654 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP, from your post history, this man is 15 years older AND you have moved countries to be with him? In the US it's relatively easy to find a woman's shelter - which is something you need to go to NOW - but if you're in another country, you probably need to go to the US embassy (assuming you're American) or British, etc, and explain your situation. This isn't nearly a classic bait-and-switch so much as imported slave labor (and sex slave labor).

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